Why You're Not Married
February 25, 2011 8:56 AM Subscribe
Gay Marriage Clears Maryland Senate*. More and more states are recognizing civil unions for same sex couples and things are looking up, but for us regular folk sometimes it's not the law that keeps us from getting married.
This post was deleted for the following reason: Framing has kind of tanked this from the get go, maybe a different go at this on another day, maybe hold off until it actually clears the house so this isn't a "gay marriage legalized, maybe, who knows" situation if anything is still in doubt? -- cortex
I flagged this because implying that "regular folk" and "people who want to marry someone of the opposite gender" are equivalent is a shitty thing to do.
BUT NOT AS SHITTY AS LINKING TO THAT HORRIBLE ARTICLE FROM HUFFPO
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:02 AM on February 25, 2011 [7 favorites]
BUT NOT AS SHITTY AS LINKING TO THAT HORRIBLE ARTICLE FROM HUFFPO
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:02 AM on February 25, 2011 [7 favorites]
So gays aren't regular folk, is what you're saying. Nice.
posted by randomname25 at 9:03 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
posted by randomname25 at 9:03 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
Well, not to be glass half-empty and all that, but more states are also double-banning unmarried-couple civil unions, let alone marriages, meaning any union that is "substantially similar" to marriage. (Even though the fuckers already have a "no gay marriage" law on the books.)
I don't think d1rge meant anything with the "regular folk" wording, but whatever.
posted by blucevalo at 9:05 AM on February 25, 2011
I don't think d1rge meant anything with the "regular folk" wording, but whatever.
posted by blucevalo at 9:05 AM on February 25, 2011
I think this is actually a double, per ryanshepard's link, unless the first link is what makes this new.
posted by filthy light thief at 9:06 AM on February 25, 2011
posted by filthy light thief at 9:06 AM on February 25, 2011
Yea, really didn't mean anything derogatory by "regular folk." Sorry!
posted by d1rge at 9:07 AM on February 25, 2011
posted by d1rge at 9:07 AM on February 25, 2011
Can we all just pretend that the last link in this post doesn't exist? Even aside from being a double, it's complete derail-bait and not related to the rest of the post.
posted by burnmp3s at 9:07 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
posted by burnmp3s at 9:07 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
d1rge, I don't think you meant to be homophobic or biphobic. But you used language that was. We're allowed to say OW when you step on our toes, even if we know you didn't mean to.
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:09 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:09 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
it's complete derail-bait and not related to the rest of the post
The title of the shitty article is used as the title of the post, so I think d1rge meant to relate them. Maybe this needs to go away and another post that is just about the Maryland decision and what's going on in terms of marriage equality, and that doesn't contain the unfortunate error of "regular people", could take its place?
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:11 AM on February 25, 2011
The title of the shitty article is used as the title of the post, so I think d1rge meant to relate them. Maybe this needs to go away and another post that is just about the Maryland decision and what's going on in terms of marriage equality, and that doesn't contain the unfortunate error of "regular people", could take its place?
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:11 AM on February 25, 2011
I'm a straight married folk and I'm anything but regular.
posted by shakespeherian at 9:11 AM on February 25, 2011
posted by shakespeherian at 9:11 AM on February 25, 2011
item, I give you permission to say "ouch" if you want to. "Yow!" is also acceptable.
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:12 AM on February 25, 2011
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:12 AM on February 25, 2011
I'm a straight married folk and I'm anything but regular.
Prunes!
Also, nice to see you, shakespeherian.
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:12 AM on February 25, 2011
Prunes!
Also, nice to see you, shakespeherian.
posted by Sidhedevil at 9:12 AM on February 25, 2011
That huffington post link is insane brilliance. Some parts are WHAT. THE. HELL and others are oh so true.
And by regular folk I thought you meant bowel movements. My bad.
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 9:13 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
And by regular folk I thought you meant bowel movements. My bad.
posted by Brandon Blatcher at 9:13 AM on February 25, 2011 [1 favorite]
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posted by d1rge at 8:59 AM on February 25, 2011