“Maybe you should never transition."
January 22, 2012 8:18 PM Subscribe
posted by cp311 (184 comments total)
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"We are seeing the emergence of a new variation on an old, cissexist theme: 'No, it’s not a good time for you to transition. This is going to be so hard on us. Oh won’t you wait or reconsider this choice for us normal people?'. Their subtext is plain and unambiguous to nearly every trans person: 'Maybe you should never transition.
From the link: This imperative to forestall transitioning is delivered by cis people who maintain that a trans child’s transition — much like any trans person’s transition — is a problem to be suppressed and averted at every expense.
It is now possible to recognize that there are four discrete corridors of cisnormative resistance toward trans people’s readiness to transition.
First corridor, pre-adolescence: "You don’t know any better. You’re too young to understand";
Second corridor, during adolescence: "It’s a confusing time. Wait until after puberty’s done";
Third corridor, late development: "You should wait until you’re totally sure. You’ll never pass"; and
Final corridor, maturation: "You’re having a mid-life crisis. What about your kids, spouse, and career?"