The women’s messages outnumbered the men’s 17 to 1 (mostly thanks to the two best looking women).
The fact that the first stage of online dating is so heavily stacked in women’s favour doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s any easier for them, compared to men, to reach the end goal of pure love or perfect sex. They may have the pick of the bunch to begin with, especially if they happen to be really attractive, but they can still only date one man at a time—they must still filter the largely undifferentiated onslaught of male attention into yes and no piles. Then the yes pile has to be sorted through in much the same way as anyone else does it—by talking, bonding, finding common interests, realising there’s been a big mistake, or a wonderful discovery.
my name [redacted] I love having sex . I love fucking and eating pussy as well as eating asshole .
[400 words about other very specific sexual fantasies]
I will try just about anything once . please feel free to ask me any question . I am very honest and open . if you want my cell number please just ask me and for now I will not have any face pic up [his main picture features his junk] but when I become conferrable with you I’ll send you face pics and any other pics that you want . xoxo bye loves
Height: 5’11 ft weight :155 LBS Cock size: 8 in waist : 33in
Greg Nog: 'Sup, ladies I'm a straight male and I have a lot of things to say about how you should feel about gender-based social dynamics, well, first of all,
malibustacey9999: I often find myself repeating my favourite joke: at my age, men are like carparks - all the good ones are taken, and what's left is handicapped.
Unicorn on the cob: So women, get your shit together and START WRITING FIRST.
cairdeas: Then I just wrote out to guys I liked and included a link to my photos elsewhere on the net. That was an INFINITELY better experience for me than the firehose of crass messages from creeps.
springload: For the women who receive too much stupidity and cocks: Can't you do the same thing as the serious guys; reading profiles and initiating conversation, and just ignoring the messages you didn't invite? I'm asking seriously and out of curiosity, because to me that appears to be an obvious winning strategy.
Mila: As an alternative to cairdeas' approach, is it feasible on OKCupid to preemptively block anyone you're not interested in hearing from? For instance, automatically block any profile below a certain match percentage, then automatically block profiles with dealbreaking answers to certain questions, and then cull the rest individually, with periodic updates since new profiles are always being posted?
jenfullmoon: Because it gets you DOWN to think that 99% of male humanity wants to send you dick pics and can't write and all they want to do is shove their cock into any female they can. And that they seem to genuinely think that this is going to get them laid. It makes you despise everyone with a penis. [...]
I am flabbergasted that this dude didn't comment at all on the nastiness that his hot chicks were receiving, or on how they may have received a billion messages, but almost all of them were disgusting.
Thanks, I know this is gonna sound stupid but here goes... I'm thinking of getting circumcised but I'm kinda wondering how its different from a woman's perspective. I just asked an ex but I got the feeling that it was a placating answer so I kinda thought that asking someone who has no reason to hold back might be a better idea. Like I said, kinda weird to ask but I figure semi anonymous advice would be more honest here.
Marisa: How is it bullying though? I don't think it takes a lot of charity to see that jenfullmoon did not literally mean that 99% of men are terrible people.
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