sure, it might not be real. does it really matter?Now there were far more problems with the thinking in that thread than the almost cult-like credulity expressed by so many of the posters. For one is how people invest all their feelings regarding an issue (disease/war/etc.) into a single represenative person. I'm happy to report that a couple of people did show an amazing amount of rational behavior through that whole KC embarrassment. rushmc, for one. gsh for two.
posted by moz at 10:15 PM PST on May 18
[gotta love how people respect truth and skepticism. Oh, and it turned out cynically manipulating the emotions of lots of people really does matter. Who woulda' thought? -dgaicun]
It seems much too elaborate to be faked. . .It doesn't seem possible.
posted by mathowie at 11:19 PM PST on May 18
STOP! STOP!! STOP!!!
this is deplorable. it's making me sick to my stomach!...as far as i am concerned, all the cynics can go to hell.
posted by bwg at 11:30 PM PST on May 18
Was she real to you? Did her story touch your heart? Isn't that what matters?...Reality is subjective anyway.
posted by ZachsMind at 4:59 AM PST on May 19
[AHHHHHH *bangs head against wall* *jumps off cliff*]
There is no amount of physical tangible evidence which would ever satisfy the doubts of some cynics. They would be as blind to it as they are to the light from Kaycee's heart which streamed through each of her journal entries.
posted by coldmarble at 7:07 AM PST on May 19
...I'm 99.9% sure this is not a hoax at all (like I'm 99.9% sure that gravity pulls things down towards earth).
posted by mathowie at 2:07 PM PST on May 19
[whew! jumping off that cliff wasn't as bad as it could have been]
...this thread is a convention of ghouls...BWG says she existed. Halcyon says she existed.
That's good enough for me.
posted by EricBrooksDotCom at 4:31 PM PST on May 19
[good enough for me, time to start shouting down the nay-sayers. ]
don't any of you have anything better to do then this. Hoax or not people are greiving. Leave them be.
posted by freethinker1 at 7:40 PM PST on May 19
[yep - look at the name again and cry]
Even if someone here manages to prove Kaycee was a hoax, you've gained nothing positive so I say again.. the fascinating and disturbing thing is what causes some people to disregard anything positive and search only for negatives? Personally I think this world is negative enough. Not only will I continue to look for the positive, I will firmly embrace it when I find it. Hoax or no hoax.
posted by justlisa at 8:39 PM PST on May 19
[skepticism is a_bad_thing. like, stop being so negative, man.]
Whether you believe Kaycee is real or not (and I do; I corresponded with her, and loved her), absolutely *no one* can deny that she brought a great amount of hope and inspiration to many, *many* people. As far as I'm concerned, the least I can give her in return for that is the benefit of any doubt.
posted by Noah at 8:39 PM PST on May 19
[yeah, and even if it turns out that saddam didn't have weapons of mass destruction it doesn't change the threat those weapons were to us. Really noah, what the hell were you thinking with that gem?]
why do we have so much trouble trusting? ...maybe we should take the blinding light we have so strongly focused on being doubtful/judgmental/jealous/nitpicky about everyone else's lives and turn it a little more inward, look at what these thoughts say about ourselves...
posted by queenkelly at 9:40 PM PST on May 19
[stop with all your negative doubting and accept me, david koresh, as your personal savior]
Let me say this much:
If I believe in Kaycee's existance and am proven wrong, who have I hurt? Only myself.
On the other hand, if I don't believe in Kaycee's existance (and make comments about it) and am proven wrong, who have I hurt? Many, many people who are mourning for a wonderful young lady.
posted by Redgie at 11:13 PM PST on May 19
[skepticism is the source of hurt, not the lies skepticism looks to uncover. Interesting world view some people have.]
insensitive buffoons...Next time I see "My [grandma/friend/livestock] just passed away..." on one of your sites, expect an email from me demanding you prove it. Then we'll see how *you* feel.
posted by EricBrooksDotCom at 11:35 PM PST on May 19
[gotta love the irony inherent in the insult "insensitive buffoons"]
This all angers me...I hate this, quit making up consipracies in your heads. There are no Black Helicopters flying around...This makes me sick to my stomach...My love goes out to Kaycee's soul, her Mother, and all those who never doubt in the Sunshine that is Kaycee.
posted by Chazio at 11:50 PM PST on May 19
[skeptics are not only worthy of contempt, they are also mentally insane. ]
Look, we have testimony from reliable witnesses who loved this girl, and talked to this girl and her mother. That's far more than enough evidence for me.
posted by brownpau at 12:18 AM PST on May 20
[far more]
This whole thread deeply sickens me... I'd hate to see someone miss out because no one stood up long enough to say. Yes, There is a Kaycee Nicole. The thread started by asking if it was possible... that means it's open to both sides... There's not a single action in your everyday life that someone couldn't provide evidence to say it's an unlikely occurrence
Kaycee... You're forever in my sunshine.
posted by IndianaSweetie at 3:09 AM PST on May 20
Some people are saying Kaycee was a hoax. Now this seems more impossible to me than walking outside right now, at 10.21pm and seeing the sun shining. Never once have I doubted Kaycee's authenticity. Why? Because nothing that beautiful can ever be bad.
posted by PunkVixen at 6:06 AM PST on May 20
[first gravity, now the end of night itself!]
This thread is not odd or cruel in intent. It is a true community trying to come to terms with an event that touched many of us. The media that joins us together does not permit us to use our senses to assure ourselves when we are in doubt. The denial stage is a normal part of grief, which the crux of this thread is an outward form.
posted by vanderwal at 7:17 AM PST on May 20
[doubt is actually just one phase of a routine mental illness]
[and finally, the most infuriating post of them all. Now remember, this is after the hoax has been exposed:] But I believe the topic was "Did Kaycee really exist"?
Despite it all... my answer is still yes.
posted by EricBrooksDotCom at 12:51 PM PST on May 20
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