It turns out, for instance, that people will often consciously choose against their own happiness.Tversky and a colleague once asked subjects whether they’d prefer to be making thirty-five thousand dollars a year while those around them were making thirty-eight thousand or thirty-three thousand while those around them were making thirty thousand. They answered, in effect, that it depends on what the meaning of the word "prefer" is. Sixty-two per cent said they’d be happier in the latter case, but eighty-four per cent said they’d choose the former.Maybe a few percent of people think it's worth earning extra money to increase the happiness of their families, rather than themselves?
It helps explain... why so many marriageable singles wind up alone. You await a spouse who combines the kindness of your mom, the wit of the smartest person you met in grad school, and the looks of someone you dated in 1983 (as she was in 1983) . . . and you wind up spending middle age by yourself, watching the Sports Channel at 2 a.m. in a studio apartment strewn with pizza boxes.Maybe another few percent of people just don't want to get married?
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I'd just add that I chuckled and recognised my own behaviour when I read this, from the main link:
Researchers of cognitive dissonance in the nineteen-fifties found that consumers would continue to read ads for a new car after they'd bought it but would avoid information about other brands, fearing post-purchase misgivings.
posted by MiguelCardoso at 11:21 PM on March 14, 2004