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Won't you be my neighbor?

Sticherbeast — Thu, 25 May 2006 10:39:50 -0800

Mr. Rogers before the Senate in 1969. [video; YouTube]

By: airguitar

airguitar — Thu, 25 May 2006 10:45:19 -0800

I've seen this a couple times. You get nervous for him at the end when he asks if he can read the lines of a song that he wrote, and not to spoil it for anyone who hasn't seen it, but the guy was amazing. And, aparently Sen. Pastori was regarded as a tough customer. Unlikely to be phased by pleadings from the host of some TV show for kids.

By: delmoi

delmoi — Thu, 25 May 2006 10:50:04 -0800

awww...

By: Witty

Witty — Thu, 25 May 2006 10:53:23 -0800

I didn't think I would bother watching that whole thing... I did, and I'm glad I did.

By: dobie

dobie — Thu, 25 May 2006 10:54:07 -0800

This made me cry.

By: flarbuse

flarbuse — Thu, 25 May 2006 10:55:25 -0800

I sometimes wonder how I turned out okay being raised under the conditions I was raised. Then I see this and recall watching the program everyday as a child.

By: EarBucket

EarBucket — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:07:09 -0800

That was lovely. Thank you.

By: Faint of Butt

Faint of Butt — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:08:33 -0800

He was so young back then. Amazing. Fred Rogers was one of the true modern saints, ranking right up there with Jim Henson.

By: bardic

bardic — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:13:34 -0800

What Faint of Butt said. I'm not sure what's worse, completely ignoring kids or not taking their ideas and thoughts and feelings seriously enough, and not in a pop-psych way but in the simple, direct way Fred Rogers did it. Like every American kid around my age, I was convinced he was talking only to me on his show, and I'm better for it. And now we give them meds. You reap what you sow.

By: almostcool

almostcool — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:15:23 -0800

It's amazing to see a YouTube video with not a single negative comment. It's overwhelmingly positive and I can't imagine it any other way given Mr. Rogers' wide-ranging influences. That completely made my lunch hour. Great find.

By: fandango_matt

fandango_matt — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:16:31 -0800

When you watch Fred Rogers you realize how incredibly gifted he was and how rarely someone of his talent comes along and how desperately we need him again.

By: n-clue

n-clue — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:16:46 -0800

Talk about complete sincerity. That was amazing. Thanks for posting this.

By: Ohdemah

Ohdemah — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:16:46 -0800

Incredible. Such poise and compassion. He melted Pastori. Thanks.

By: Drastic

Drastic — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:20:11 -0800

The world desperately needs more of him.

By: peptide

peptide — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:20:55 -0800

When I lived in Pittsburgh a bunch of years ago I got to hang out with Mr. Rogers a few times and he is the closest to a divine being that I've ever met. I remember thinking, the first time I ever met him, after speaking with him for all of thirty seconds, that all I wanted to do was to go sit in the grass outside of the station and take my shoes off and give him my heart to hold and cherish. He radiated a profoundly deep, all-accepting love that literally changed the realities of everyone I know that knew him and that still moves me to this day.

By: AJaffe

AJaffe — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:21:23 -0800

I recall that when he died, the tone of the obituaries I read pretty much amounted to "Yes, he really was that good a person." Truly a wonderful human being.

By: econous

econous — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:25:42 -0800

You could see the emotion he was barely holding in check, it was written on his face. Described by the halting rhythm of his delivery. Then I guess $20 million is a lot to play for, even now. I'd be choked up too.

By: interrobang

interrobang — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:26:44 -0800

Geez, he talked down to adults just like he talked down to kids. I agree with the basic content of his message here, but his intonation and smarmy, soporific condescension makes me feel like puking. Same reason I couldn't stand his show when I was a kid—just listening to him makes you feel like you've been accidentally put in the class for the stupid kids.

By: sarahnade

sarahnade — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:27:07 -0800

This was really awesome, and just what I needed to see today. You can tell that he is nervous, but that he speaks from his heart. I am crying now, too. Thanks for the link.

By: piratebowling

piratebowling — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:27:35 -0800

I used to get kind of scared of Mr. Rogers when I was young, becuase he was always so cool and collected. Something of his message much have touched me deeply though, becuase when he started quoting his signing off speech, I started tearing up. I sincerely hope someone like him comes forth in childrens programming again sometime soon.

By: cavalier

cavalier — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:31:13 -0800

interrobang, it's alright, you can share with us, why do you feel sad in your heart? What are you missing, what are you searching for? <3 Mr. Rogers.

By: tsarfan

tsarfan — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:32:05 -0800

this is why i love metafilter, thanks Sticherbeast

By: any major dude

any major dude — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:33:14 -0800

My child watches Mr. Rogers every day. He's the only 2 dimensional person I trust speaking to my child. Seems that every other show on television only trains children on how to be an upstanding consumer of product.

By: jrb223

jrb223 — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:39:18 -0800

Yeah. Excellent post. All my stress just melted away.

By: blasdelf

blasdelf — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:43:28 -0800

What's really sad is that after Pastore died, his seat was taken by Rick Santorum.

By: freebird

freebird — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:44:11 -0800

This needs a NSFW tag. Because it's hard doing engineering all choked up and sappy. Great post.

By: jefgodesky

jefgodesky — Thu, 25 May 2006 11:51:27 -0800

I met Mr. Rogers once. I'm a Pittsburgh native, and when I was a kid, my parents took me on one of the public tours of WQED studios (our local public station, where "Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood" was filmed). The guide warned us that Mr. Rogers didn't like being a big celebrity, so if we saw him, we shouldn't make a big fuss. Well, I was taking my time on the tour, so I was at the back of the group. The door opened, and Mr. Rogers came through. I just waved and said, "Hello." He said, "Hello," and went on his way. Then I ran to catch up with the group. Afterwards, I mentioned meeting Mr. Rogers, and everyone wanted to know why I didn't call them all over. I just repeated what the guide had said: "He doesn't like a big fuss." Not much, but one of those nuggets I keep for myself and think about when I'm feeling down. Rogers was a really great man, and everyone in Pittsburgh is proud to be from the same city as him. I almost felt bad for Fred Phelps when he came to protest Mister Rogers' funeral--he couldn't have known what he was walking into. Almost. Then I remembered it was Fred Phelps.

By: batmonkey

batmonkey — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:17:26 -0800

I was born into a commune in 1971. Even after moving out of the commune, I spent a lot of time surrounded by hippies and the like. I was intensely aware of how different the people on TV were from the people around me. I watched Captain Kangaroo, Sesame Street, and, yes, Mr. Rogers. Dear, beloved Mr. Rogers. One day, as a wee one, I watched a man in a suit start up the walkway to our door. I got more and more excited as he approached, and went to get my mom. He knocked before I could tell her all about it, and so I was left to stand fidgeting and impatient behind her as she opened the door. After a few words, she shut the door on the visitor and he began his walk down the sidewalk. I gave her a look expressing my feelings of betrayal and deep injury, then tried not to wail as I said: "Mommy, you sent Mr. Rogers away!" Years and years and years later, after many actual traumas that were cushioned by the unconditional love of that sweet man in the television, my mom still laughs at how I had confused the traveling salesman for Mr. Rogers because I'd not seen someone in a suit in person before. Damned hippies. ---- Thanks for posting, Sticherbeast. Nothing soothes quite like seeing Mr. Rogers use his superpowers on adults.

By: Dormant Gorilla

Dormant Gorilla — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:25:29 -0800

Mr Rogers restores my faith in humanity. How rare is it that anyone is just that purely, unquestionably good? And he's one of the only things I can think of who will always be beyond the reach of irony.

By: blendor

blendor — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:28:48 -0800

I think I posted this in another Rogers thread once, but it bears repeating: this Esquire article by Tom Junod is a touching and personal portrait of the man. Excellent post - the footage from this video can also be found on this dvd, which is excellent. There's a moment of utter beauty included when Rogers is being given an award... well, I won't ruin it. Suffice to say, even interrobang might get a little choked up.

By: OhPuhLeez

OhPuhLeez — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:33:12 -0800

The best.

By: Meatbomb

Meatbomb — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:34:27 -0800

It's you I like It's not the things you wear. It's not the way you do your hair, But it's you I like. The way you are right now, the way down deep inside you, Not the things that hide you Not your toys they're just beside you. But it's you I like Every part of you Your skin, your eyes, your feelings Whether old or new. I hope that you'll remember Even when you're feeling blue That it's you, yourself It's you I like. It's you. Can we have a metafilter group hug?

By: freebird

freebird — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:37:18 -0800

It is interesting, though, that I appreciate Mr. Rogers much more as an adult than I did as a kid. The sad truth about me is that I was jaded and overly-intellectual as a kid, and am becoming more naive and open as I age. When I was young, I thought Mr. Rogers was condescending, boring, and a little creepy. Now he makes me weep and gives me hope for the future. Go figure.

By: antifreez_

antifreez_ — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:52:23 -0800

The sad truth about me is that I was jaded and overly-intellectual as a kid, and am becoming more naive and open as I age. I'm totally with you there. I'd like to think that it's something that will continue as I get older. Also, my maturity seems to be regressing as well -- I envision myself wandering around an old folks' home, pantsing the other residents and running away, giggling. Thanks for this, Sticherbeast.

By: mckenney

mckenney — Thu, 25 May 2006 12:56:06 -0800

I can not watch Mr. Rogers without crying. And yet, I can't not watch Mr. Rogers. That was a great video of a great, great man, who I miss profoundly.

By: nanojath

nanojath — Thu, 25 May 2006 13:00:04 -0800

interrobang, your soul is a black and obdurate lump of coal.

By: boo_radley

boo_radley — Thu, 25 May 2006 13:05:45 -0800

aw, geeze. I... I... gotta call my mom. *snif*

By: dr_dank

dr_dank — Thu, 25 May 2006 13:20:23 -0800

As much as I love Mr. Rogers, I have to wonder why he got naked for that Esquire reporter in the link that blendor posted.

By: batmonkey

batmonkey — Thu, 25 May 2006 13:26:57 -0800

dr_dank: Because the reporter was following him through his daily routine so was around for his morning swim? I mean, that's what they say on page 2, anyway.

By: Joey Michaels

Joey Michaels — Thu, 25 May 2006 13:31:41 -0800

The Esquire link had me tearing up. I don't think I can handle the video just yet. Damn, I can't believe that Mr. Rogers still has that effect on me. I wish I had the will power to be more like him. Of course, he would tell me that I did. Thank you, Mr. Rogers.

By: gigawhat?

gigawhat? — Thu, 25 May 2006 13:36:19 -0800

interrobang, your soul is a black and obdurate lump of coal. That's not a very neighborly thing to say. That having been said, Fred Phelps can go fuck himself.

By: scody

scody — Thu, 25 May 2006 14:09:18 -0800

I've been trying to turn my three nephews on to Mr. Rogers and they are all -- sadly, to me -- immune to his charms. (Well, the 16-month-old one may still be young enough to indoctrinate yet!) Although, according to my sister, if they catch a glimpse of Mr. Rogers while they're changing channels or something, the older two always turn to each other and say very gently, "that's Auntie Scody's friend."

By: WCityMike

WCityMike — Thu, 25 May 2006 14:36:37 -0800

From the Esquire article linked to above: The old navy-blue sport jacket comes off first, then the dress shoes, except that now there is not the famous sweater or the famous sneakers to replace them, and so after the shoes he's on to the dark socks, peeling them off and showing the blanched skin of his narrow feet. The tie is next, the scanty black batwing of a bow tie hand-tied at his slender throat, and then the shirt, always white or light blue, whisked from his body button by button. He wears an undershirt, of course, but no matter ... soon that's gone, too, as is the belt, as are the beige trousers, until his undershorts stand as the last impediment to his nakedness. They are boxers, egg-colored, and to rid himself of them he bends at the waist, and stands on one leg, and hops, and lifts one knee toward his chest and then the other and then ... Mister Rogers has no clothes on.
Okay ... that's just wrong. I really never wanted to have that inputted into any particular brain cell I ever owned.

By: djeo

djeo — Thu, 25 May 2006 14:36:43 -0800

Okay, I've had to stop reading that Esquire article twice now because I keep tearing up. That's after the initial tearing while I watched the video. Fantasic thread mefites. Thank you.

By: grubi

grubi — Thu, 25 May 2006 14:37:15 -0800

Mr Rogers rules. There's no other way to put it.

By: FeldBum

FeldBum — Thu, 25 May 2006 14:43:54 -0800

Seen it before and still love it. Makes me cry.

By: imposster

imposster — Thu, 25 May 2006 15:07:26 -0800

All this and he loved jazz, too. The songs he wrote usually had a jazz sensibility and he could hold his own on the piano. His magnitude is difficult to understand: performing, writing shows, doing all the puppet voices, writing songs (words and music), etc. etc.

By: Sparx

Sparx — Thu, 25 May 2006 15:12:54 -0800

I first saw him as an adult while travelling - and felt pretty much the same way as interrobang. Weird, condescending, and more than a little creepy. But now I'm reading Blendor's article at work and getting misty. That's some good articlage. I think I begin to see a glimpse of what the rest of you do.

By: octothorpe

octothorpe — Thu, 25 May 2006 15:20:10 -0800

What's really sad is that after Pastore died, his seat was taken by Rick Santorum. That's not true at all. Ricky was preceded by Harris Wofford who was appointed when John Heinz died in a plane crash.

By: WhipSmart

WhipSmart — Thu, 25 May 2006 16:04:39 -0800

Since I stay at home with my child, I often find myself just as engaged in the show as my two-year old son... My only regret is that there will never be any new shows... There's a connection with my son that I feel so strongly when he yells out 'Trolly!' and when he gets excited as Mr. Rogers travels to the Music Shop... It's like I'm seeing all of this for the first time... .

By: econous

econous — Thu, 25 May 2006 16:39:54 -0800

What's really sad is that after Pastore died, his seat was taken by Rick Santorum. That's not true at all. Ricky was preceded by Harris Wofford who was appointed when John Heinz died in a plane crash. That makes it really happy then. Nothing happier than missing the point, only thing less happy is when I have. Here you go, a free comma. ,

By: milnak

milnak — Thu, 25 May 2006 23:37:07 -0800

All this and he loved jazz, too. The songs he wrote usually had a jazz sensibility and he could hold his own on the piano. I wasn't aware that he played piano. On the other hand, Johnny Costa, Mr. Roger's Musical Director, was an amazing pianist, in the style of Art Tatum.

By: killyb

killyb — Fri, 26 May 2006 05:41:41 -0800

you took my mechat post, and you weren't even creative....sad

By: Hanover Phist

Hanover Phist — Fri, 26 May 2006 05:53:05 -0800

"I'm supposed to be a pretty tough guy, and this is the first time I've had goose bumps in the last two days" Well, Senator, you're not the only one. Fantastic Post. Thank-you.

By: gigawhat?

gigawhat? — Fri, 26 May 2006 08:24:01 -0800

you took my mechat post, and you weren't even creative....sad Sharing is caring, killyb. And it's OK to be sad.

By: samelborp

samelborp — Fri, 26 May 2006 08:44:44 -0800

freebird , antifreez_ , I am with you. My writings when I was younger were witty, ironic, of the clever-clever category... now I am 38 and I am humbled... now my obsesion is to be able to communicate and discuss ideas, avoiding ego fights, etc (so yes a bit disheartened by the actual state of online discussions). BTW, I am Spanish, I didn't know who was Mr. Rogers but I watched the video anyway (without reading the thread first). At first I thought the "thing" about the video was sort some of fight between that Mr. Rogers and Senator Pastore. The voice and the slow proceeding of his intervention seemed quite strange to me. Then I started to concentrate in what actually he was saying (had to rewind some parts) and I can tell you that his message was truly universal. Great finding! I love you Metafilter!

By: moonbird

moonbird — Fri, 26 May 2006 09:50:03 -0800

A great, powerful video, but I second killyb. Attribution would've been neighborly.

By: Sticherbeast

Sticherbeast — Fri, 26 May 2006 10:23:02 -0800

Weep! I don't read MeCha! Honestly! Glad people enjoy the video.

By: oraknabo

oraknabo — Fri, 26 May 2006 12:09:49 -0800

This post has reminded me of what a huge impact this man had on my life. Will we ever have shows like his again?

By: squarehead

squarehead — Fri, 26 May 2006 14:50:17 -0800

By: BrodieShadeTree

BrodieShadeTree — Fri, 26 May 2006 15:34:28 -0800

hero.

By: celerystick

celerystick — Fri, 26 May 2006 22:41:41 -0800

some of the creepy disconnects for kids (and grown ups): - that the puppets had Rosacea ( red nose dermatitis) ..wtf - the insipid jazz background music guess geniuses are just plain quirky. So I won a copy fo the long play record called "You Are Special" at sunday school for perfect attendance in 1969. It had a mirror laminated on the front you could look into. Even an 8 year old knows that's kind of goofy. & it had the song "You Can Never Go Down the Drain" : "The rain may go down But you can't go down. You're bigger than any bathroom drain. You can never go down Can never go down You can never go down the drain." Anyway , yes, agreed, as we mature , quirkyness aside, we truly appreciate the kindness of Fred R.

By: EarBucket

EarBucket — Sat, 27 May 2006 14:51:17 -0800

"You Can Never Go Down the Drain" freaked my shit when I was little. It would never had occurred to me to be afraid of the drain if Mr. Rogers hadn't suggested it to me. I wouldn't let the water out of the tub until I was safely out on dry linoleum. I was so glad when I grew up and found out Dave Barry had had the exact same experience with the song when he was a kid. Made me feel better.

By: imposster

imposster — Sat, 27 May 2006 15:23:33 -0800

Celerystick - the insipid jazz background music This would suggest that you never paid much attention to the accomplished virutosity of the afore mentioned Johnny Costa or the variety of great musicians he featured on the show. More on his love of music (especially jazz): Musical contributions to the Neighborhood also come from "neighbor" Joe Negri, guitarist and owner of "Negri's Music Shop" in Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, where he has hosted many musical guests. Over the years, Mister Rogers has introduced children to a wide variety of singers and musicians, such as Tony Bennett, the Empire Brass Quintet, cellist Yo-Yo Ma, the Uptown String Quartet, pianist Van Cliburn, folksinger Ella Jenkins, Broadway star Tommy Tune, the Harlem Spiritual Ensemble, oboist Natasha, pianist Andre Watts, violinist Yitzhak Perlman, the Mississippi Fife and Drum Corp, clarinetist Richard Stoltzman, Zydeco musician Queen Ida, jazz saxophonist Eric Kloss, classical guitarist Manuel Barrueco, violinist Hilary Hahn, musicians from Kenya Jabali Afrika, and the performers from the off-Broadway production of STOMP!.