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All sorrows are less with bread.
God, a low FODMAP diet is 100x worse than a low gluten diet!
Actually, I would much rather have people believe that gluten is the root of all evil than that FODMAP is/are...as soon as this research becomes better known, I am sure to have four or five friends who have decided that the FODMAP diet is for them, and that they are now avoiding stone fruits, cauliflower, onions, chocolate, apples, lentils, etc, while still being vegan and… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:32 AM on May 14, 2014
(I mean, in fairness, I have a friend with pretty serious health issues who really can't eat most stuff - that does happen.)
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:33 AM on May 14, 2014
Meanwhile, most of the people I know who eat GF but aren't celiac do so for weightloss reasons or because they think it makes them feel better and again, I don't know why I should object to that because HOW DARE THEY REFUSE BREAD or something. No one has ever snatched a roll out of my mouth yelling "Bread is poison!" and so I don't feel obligated to hate on their desire to not have croutons on their salad, or to avoid crackers.… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 2:13 PM on May 14, 2014
"When you’re a fat woman, taking up space is an affront to femininity."
If people keep alienating people who keep trying to make a connection with you, flawed as they may consider it, where the fuck do this first group of people think they'll end up? With a group of people with a "pure" or "correct" ideology? Jesus H. Christ.
What actually strikes me - as a person who grew up a woman and has been varying degrees of fat their entire life* - is that I am so fucking sick of the whole… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:44 AM on May 14, 2014
You Think You Get It. YOU DONT YOU DONT YOU DONT!!!!!!!
I don't think those tweets are especially nonsensical - they seem precisely like what a smart kid with smart parents would tweet if he lived a life of great economic privilege but was not from a right-wing/one-percenter background. I think they're pretty cute, actually. That whole family seems like they're doing things just about as right as you can if you're in such a weird cultural position.
Almost anything is amusing if it's slotted into Garfield.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 7:19 AM on May 12, 2014
Besides, "You think you get it but you don't, you don't, you don't" is something I think all the time - sometimes directed at others with chagrin, sometimes directed at myself with chagrin and/or astonishment. "You think you get it but you don't" is a good thing to keep in mind in many aspects of life.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 7:26 AM on May 12, 2014
It's only supposed to be 30% of your income
The thing about the apodments is that sure, they'd be great if they were ~225 square feet and had a tiny kitchen. I would love a teeny apartment (except somehow I have a mortgage on a giant crumbling victorian instead) but 150 square feet is really, really small. My bedroom, which is a nice size but not a master suite giant suburban bedroom, is about 185 square feet, excluding the closet.
The funny thing is, I lived in an itty apartment that was, in its entireity,… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 9:10 AM on May 11, 2014
I actually knew some folks who grew up in tiny, cramped apartments in Shanghai - like, one friend slept on the couch in the living/shared/dining room, her father had his own tiny room and the whole place would have been more cramped except her mother had died tragically young - and they wished they had more space. My students were six to a dorm room, and although people often had good friendships, they complained constantly about the sheer lack of space and quiet. I'm not saying that no one… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 10:55 AM on May 11, 2014
National Climate Assessment
Money can't save a rich person from lung cancer, but it's going to save them from the worst environmental catastrophe in the history of life on this planet? Right.
Well, I certainly hope so. If me and mine are going to die miserable deaths from heat, hunger or preventable disease, I'd at least like some assurance that two hundred years hence the world won't be just a few domed utopias with Henry Kissinger VI, the Reagan descendents and the Pinochet… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 8:48 AM on May 7, 2014
The "vast wasteland", revisited
Okay, all else aside: the average American watches five hours a day of TV? Really? Where do they find the time? Who are these people? Is it skewed really high by retired people? Even in my most miserable depressed period (student teaching!) when I'd come home, overeat, cry and watch TV until I could fall asleep, I never topped three hours per weeknight, and I thought I was watching a huge amount of TV.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 12:17 PM on May 5, 2014
On Being One's Own Fairy Godmother
There is some hilarity, for me, in the fact that this woman apparently experiences her life as one of abnormal, invisible fatness and homeliness while still being thin, blond and white. I'm not sure if this is because she's had a run of bad luck, lives in a really weird part of the world or has an unrealistic sense of how she is perceived.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 4:23 PM on May 3, 2014
The thing is, I have no doubt that she does experience feeling-bad-about-her-body, etc. I have no doubt that she gets the usual shit that women in media get, and that this is tough.
At the same time, there's something weird about the colonization of the "I'm going to live my life despite my imperfections" genre of speech by women who basically meet the beauty standard, who are already pretty much at the very top. It's like getting applauded… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 5:23 PM on May 3, 2014
Britpop: A British Disaster
Low rents and high living; devastating personal problems; out in Camden every night, tight as a boiled owl.
Oh my god, this was such a great essay. I mean, it's a jeremiad, but this guy - he's a few years older than me, and he's got it, that was the nineties.
A lot of this sudden buoyancy would have been from Ecstasy, of course – still, there was also a genuine sense of optimism in the real world, for a couple of… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 3:47 PM on May 3, 2014
A Monstration In St. Petersburg
Your crush mileage may vary.
At my 20th high school reunion I confessed to a woman that I had a crush on her in 4th grade. You wouldn't think something like that would still horrify someone, but you'd be wrong.
And this sort of thing is why I would rather gnaw off a forearm than go around revealing crushes. (I mean probably if I literally had to choose whether or not to gnaw off a forearm, I would tell people I had crushes on them instead. At least if it was… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 7:59 AM on May 2, 2014
"I think I'm an okay writer, but a very good storyteller."
I try to leave out the parts people skip.
I really like that - almost but not quite a paradox.
The thing is, it takes intelligence and skill to write successful schlock - it took me a long time to realize that.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:26 AM on May 1, 2014
The last unputdownable book I read was W.G. Sebald's Rings of Saturn, which has no plot movement whatsoever other than some guy wandering around Suffolk and feeling a vague sense of loss.
Oh, I've been wanting to read that forever! Thanks for reminding me that I need to take steps to obtain a copy.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 12:48 PM on May 1, 2014
The madness of the suburbs: who knows it but you?
The world is headed for a post-antibiotic era
What I worry about isn't so much just getting an infection (although that worries me plenty); I worry about how much more dangerous surgery is going to become, and cancer treatment, and everything that lowers your resistance.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 10:00 AM on April 30, 2014
this is the first miracle he needs for his eventual canonization. can i be appointed as the advocate before the sacred congregation for the causes of saints if i'm not catholic?
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 10:01 AM on April 30, 2014
While this pretty clearly effective against a whole bunch of infections, and is pretty clearly at least mostly safe, but there are good reasons why this strategy will probably never be used in the West.
Why can't we have the phages? Just capitalist wickedness?
I know some phage researchers and I have been consoling myself by thinking that phages may help with the antibiotics situation.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:31 AM on April 30, 2014
maybe this could've gone in my last post
Let's take bacon as an example... 30 to 45 minutes or so with a coffee maker, but five to seven minutes with a stove. Sometimes people are like "Oh, you must be stupid... Don't you realize that it's much more efficient to cook with a stove!!!???" ... OF COURSE I know that. But that's not the point. This is one of my main interests! I know it's an unusual one, but some people like to dance, sing, paint or race with cars. I don't. I like to try and make different things edible… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 8:26 AM on April 30, 2014
Do take note that she cooks a cat with the coffee maker. No joke.
It took me a while to be confident that this was a joke (although the photo where she is holding up the "dead" cat is pretty clearly posed, with a surprisingly compliant kitty). I think this is because I unconsciously associate 1. cooking lamb hearts; 2. "extreme" cooking; 3. Swedes (my family is Swedish-American with some degree of connection to Sweden remaining)… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 8:34 AM on April 30, 2014
The devourer and the devoured
This was a great essay - thank you for linking it! I'm especially interested in serious amateur scholarship like this. And the writing style was, I thought, very good - fluid and distinctive without being affected or cloying.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 10:34 AM on April 29, 2014
Maybe (probably) it's because I'm bitter from my own slightly fucked up childhood but anything that has a whiff of "this is not your problem, dear, this is MOMMY'S problem. See how much more mommy suffers!" just creeps me out a bit.
I think it's worth reading the essay - the point of the essay isn't "look how difficult the mother had it" at all. It's an attempt to establish what kinds of evidence exist for the entwinement of the… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:28 PM on April 29, 2014
On the other hand, this makes me feel great about having a pink collar "career" in a large midwestern city. "At least I don't need to attract venture funding and I have my own house with my own room and everything, and I don't need to have Google 'hangouts' with brogrammers or provide 'paleo plates' for wealthy people," I find myself saying.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:01 PM on April 25, 2014
Higher self-perceived attractiveness increases support for inequality
"What's surprising is that we find that most people seem to endorse hierarchy when they think they're attractive and oppose it when they think they're not," Belmi said.
It all depends on whose ox is gored - that's the great truth of social movements. I try to ignore this great truth as much as possible because it's too depressing and what the hell, in a hundred years we'll all be dead.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:44 AM on April 24, 2014
3 levels of lasers. It's rescanning the udder and looking for the teats
I keep find myself thinking about the brutal and miserable life of farm laborers (so brutal and miserable, in fact, that it looks pretty bad even in light-hearted and nostalgic books like All Creatures Great and Small) and I imagine a wonderful future where regular working people are all dead of starvation, preventable disease and war, and a tiny fraction of elite humanity - the descendents of the Pinochets, the Kissingers, the Fricks, the Thatchers - enjoys a paradisical… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 12:02 PM on April 23, 2014
"Everybody dies someday - At least I saw Provence first"
A lot of travel looks just like the postcard and you're not missing that much if you don't see it in person.
Honestly, there are five-minute sights. I've been to a couple of Famous Chinese Places (ruins, mostly, and god knows, the Great Wall at Badaling) where while it's cool to see it in person, it's...quick. (So obviously, plan your day around something other than Spending Hours At The Ming Tombs.)… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 9:28 AM on April 22, 2014
The difference between we Gen Xrs and you Millenials is that while we both got screwed my generation never expected anything better. I don't know if that's good or bad.
Oh, things were WAY easier when we were coming up. They were pretty tough - remember Michael Moore and Downsize This and TempSlave zine? - but if you had a college degree you could get a job. Not in your field, certainly. But if you had a degree and you wanted to… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 12:56 PM on April 18, 2014
I add that the fiftysomethings and the millenials should not fight but should join forces - they have even more in common than the rest of the working class. The millenials have nothing, the fiftysomethings basically stand to lose everything if Even One Little Thing goes wrong, and then they'll be in the same employment boat as the millenials except older and creakier.
"Kids today are so lazy and selfish, their parents should just kick them out" and "you… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:02 PM on April 18, 2014
That sounds great, Frowner. It would be nice if fiftysomethings voted like they wanted to join forces with young people instead of voting, like, the opposite of that.
Look, 47% of the fiftyish people voted for Obama and tend to vote leftishly. (I mean, for certain values of "left", but I think an awful lot of those people would be glad to vote for a lefter candidate. ) That's a huge number of people. Lots of fiftyish… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:10 PM on April 18, 2014
(Also, it just seems insane to me, the amount of ressentiment in this whole discourse - "oh, I hate working class blue collar democrat baby boomers because their union got them a pension deal, what can I do to help the Republicans and our corporate masters loot their pension system?" It also buys into a lot of right wing stuff. Why do people get pensions? Because their union negotiated for them and the workers and their employers paid into them, or because the… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:15 PM on April 18, 2014
Frowner, I don't see anyone here arguing that anyone's pensions should be taken away. I would love to see a resurgence of pensions.
But everyone is always saying the equivalent of "look at those spoiled older people living in luxury - we don't get pensions". What is that except sheer resentment? I never hear people say "look at those older people - how can we get what they're having?" And I never hear people… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:23 PM on April 18, 2014
I love having the option to move far away and happily availed myself of it. But more and more I realize that for many, even most, people it's weird and can be severely disruptive. The endlessly relocatable worker-cog ideal aside, you can end up in a part of the country you've never been, feeling culture shock you didn't expect, trying to work through a job hunt with few resources and no one to give you a hand. I think that's much more of a barrier than a town's perceived dullness… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 8:11 AM on April 22, 2014
Mali's Ancient Manuscripts
I just want to say that thanks to the "Americans don't know enough geography" turn in a recent thread on the blue, I did a bunch of geography quizzes, I can visualize Mali on a map and I know where it is in relation to various nearby Important Things - and yes, this does help me to understand the story and the situation. Geography seems to be worth the effort.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 6:51 AM on April 22, 2014
15 famous landmarks, put into context
The Forbidden City is actually right next to Beihai Park, which is Very Large For That Type Of Thing. The Forbidden City itself, IMO, seems much bigger than it is. I've biked past and around it many times (sadly, not in recent years) and walked through it a couple of times. It feels pretty epic, especially if you go in the off season. Part of that is by design. The thing that's surprising to me is how little there is that feels human scale and private, unlike other big famous places I've… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 4:59 PM on April 19, 2014
Joseph and the Amazing Technicolour Dream Castle
What a pity that in order to "save" this remarkable building, it will have to be returned to its status as luxury hotel for the 1%. You probably have a better shot at seeing it now, in its decay, than you will in ten years when it's been fixed up - unless you get hired to wait tables or clean the rooms, of course.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 9:09 AM on April 18, 2014
Cringing Not Necessary
word has it, he got a deal for only $2350/month
I hope he got his stuff back - usually the cops take it and throw it away.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:16 PM on April 17, 2014
In theory, it means they will inventory his belongings, put them in secure storage, and give him a receipt that he can use to claim his stuff when he has a place to go.
Indeed. In theory they do this; in actual fact, it can be difficult to get stuff back.
The cops have to say that it's a "sad story" and they'll "do anything" to help him get back on his feet because the cameras are rolling.… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 1:26 PM on April 17, 2014
What am I worth?
A 10-mile bike ride to work or the store is absolutely doable for physically capable adults (not so much for people with physical disabilities), and not strenuous at all with a few gears. Shitty in midwest winters, but still another option that should be available.
Whoa there, Nellie! It just so happens that I have a 13-mile round trip ride to work (not the twenty that you're talking about). If I also had a 13 mile round trip to… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:26 AM on April 17, 2014
Resegregation in the American South
If you read to the end of the article, it says that she has a low ACT score. She comments that when she went to an ACT-prep program with kids from the white school, the kids from the white school had simply learned a lot more prior to the test. You can be a smart, hard-working kid, but if no one teaches you at least some geometry or grammar or calculus or logic problems or whatever is on the ACT (I am an Old, so I forget), you just aren't going to score that well. I was a… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 9:06 AM on April 17, 2014
I just don't know how we're going to get past slavery and Jim Crow in this country except by the passage of another four or five centuries, either. You just end up with all this entrenched bullshit that poisons every aspect of our collective life.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 9:10 AM on April 17, 2014
Une agreable surprise!
It's all fun to laugh at the prudes of the past, but for anyone who was of age in the 1970's, today's world has many elements of a new puritanism. For example, there were no cubicles in men's changerooms in swimming pools in the 70's (and a limited number in women's from what I heard), however nowadays if you dry off and change out of your swimsuit openly, the attitude seems to be that you're some sort of pervert or worse.
One of the things I've often… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 9:43 AM on April 16, 2014
I have actually thought a lot about GLBT women in women's restrooms/lockerrooms/etc., and talked to friends about it, because in schools it periodically becomes an issue, and I have come to the conclusion that it's not someone's sexual preference that makes it comfortable or uncomfortable to share a bathroom/lockerroom with them ... it's that they share similar lady-type concerns and understandings of the world, like stretch marks or boob-size anxiety or a tolerance of people talking… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 11:54 AM on April 16, 2014
Strangers Among Us
What it feels like to me is just that the Cold War was too convenient to give up. That's what has struck me again and again about US and Soviet politics since the nineties. During the nineties, all was flux, but then everyone figured out that while full-on neoliberalism was great, you needed an official enemy to justify state power. So we get the War on Terror and they get this stuff. We're richer and the state is more entrenched, so it doesn't have to be as extreme;… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 7:25 AM on April 13, 2014
The Rooster Sauce and the People Who Love It
Wow, 100 grams of sambal oelek contains about 48 fucking percent of one's recommended maximum daily sodium intake.
On the other hand, your average sambal oelek jar contains 221 grams - and while I'm sure some enthusiasts could consume half a jar in a single sitting, mostly I just use a couple of teaspoons in an entire recipe.
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 3:34 PM on April 11, 2014
Because I am hipper-than-hip, I have known about sriracha since late 1993. I still remember the very day I first tried it - someone I was then dating used to make these stir fries which were basically perfectly good vegetables absolutely coated in sriracha. It is testimony to my increased ability to eat hot things that this sounds good to me now, even though it was fiery inedible misery at the time. Since then I think I've always had a bottle around just to add a little… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Frowner at 4:50 PM on April 11, 2014