My family and friends have stopped pestering me about having a Facebook page. You know who keeps "inviting" me now? Businesses. I get asked all the time by my dentist, my on-line nursery, my chicken supply guy, my pizza place, etc. Everybody wants me to start an account so that I can befriend them and get coupons! Whooo Hoo. It's not going to happen.
I really think you guys have given... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:53 AM on November 16, 2011
...And it's more horrible than you could possibly imagine. If I hadn't already abandoned all that rationalist/unified-subject/bounded-non-monstrous-subjects stuff, this would do it. Oh god, baby teeth are way more effective than Bakhtin. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:15 AM on November 16, 2011
Capitalists are such frauds. They appeal to "market logic" when it's for themselves - "oh, we can't offer benefits, we can't afford it!" or whatever - but when people who are not desperate economic refugees refuse to work for minimum wage and no benefits under dire and unsafe conditions, why, it's not any kind of market logic, it's a character flaw among workers. Fuck them sideways. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:40 PM on November 11, 2011
I truly hate that autoloading "infinite scroll" business. I'd be very interested to hear why folks like it, if you do.
I often find myself needing to scroll rapidly through a page to look for something or to get to something that I know is located late in the document, and the infinite scroll/slow-loading thing gets horribly in the way. Or else I want to know something like "is this [THING] too long to have people read for [meeting]" and I can't... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:43 AM on November 10, 2011
It's amusing that folks are all "oh, these old white guys couldn't do anything sinister" when there are plenty of sinister old white guys who do godawful things - Henry Kissinger, for example, was in his sixties when he was jetting around to enable the massacre of several hundred thousand East Timorese. If only age prevented evil! posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 1:26 PM on November 9, 2011
(IMO, people get dramatically hostile to this kind of article because they are on some level terrified of being perceived as weak - so they are driven by the need to tear down anything that could taint them. Geek says something that might make him look weak or silly or just plain lets some feelings show on the internet even if they're not correct "mature" feelings? Have to distance yourself from that shit, or someone might... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 10:02 AM on November 9, 2011
Good thing they're just dancing to the decadent music of the imperialist west
I hope no one is under the illusion that mainland China is communist in anything but name - authoritarian capitalism is the order of the day, showing that you can certainly have the worst of both worlds. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 2:10 PM on November 8, 2011
Those seniors look pretty healthy and vital to me. I wonder if they were hand-picked. If not, it says a lot for tofu, rice, hard work, not too much meat, and having something cool to do.
Also, not being despised. You try despising old folks in China the way they get despised and patronized over here and you will not be welcome anyplace.
Also, a cultural note: in my experience of China, there was a lot... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 2:16 PM on November 8, 2011
Here is what will happen: our various elites will respond to global warming by making themselves richer and more secure, planning to survive climate change in tiny, highly secure enclaves. They'd rather reign in hell than serve in heaven, so we won't have any real climate mitigation efforts since those would require - horrors! tax increases and a general social leveling.
My parents will almost certainly be dead by the time things get really bad and I have no children,... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 11:06 AM on November 8, 2011
Okay, I absolutely deplore firebombing people because they disrespect your religion. But honestly, I think it's an asshole move - and given French colonial history, a racist one - to lead with "let's lead off by disrespecting your religion in a way that we know will totally piss you off, and in a situation laden with huge racial and post-colonial meaning".
Love is stronger than hate, bullshit. Stop acting like an asshole,... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:27 AM on November 8, 2011
(A brief note on the "females" thing - I absolutely loathe how it sounds (so crass! so barbaric! so non-euphonious!) but I've been told that some folks pick up the habit of speech in the military. I mostly hear it as "working class person who has spent time in some highly regimented institution" rather than "misogynist jerkface" - I've met my share of military dudebro creeps who say "females" but it's by no means universal.) posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 10:15 AM on November 4, 2011
Unlike the government, the drug cartels don't have to look legitimate - they just have to look really, really scary. Which means that Anonymous's methods will by definition not work against them, since the drug cartels have no compunction about killing people until their opponents get scared enough to stop.
It's worth noting that the more our governments separate power from legitimacy (ie, the more dishonest elections, corrupt... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 1:27 PM on November 2, 2011
You know, when I lived in China, my students were all "you should totally get a qipao". They thought it was hiLARious to see my in my padded jacket, and would no doubt have split their sides laughing if I'd worn any form of traditional costume. This is because when I was in China they were the majority, not white people, and the majority discourse was basically "LOLforeigners". And also, I was not "dressing up as a chinese person" or taking... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 10:33 AM on October 26, 2011
So if, for example, I bought a Peruvian hat while traveling are you saying I can not wear my Peruvian hat this winter because I am white?
See, this is where people have to use their judgement and also act in good faith. Personally, I would not wear a hat that was some sort of ultra-identifiable South American mountain peasant hat (like with bobbles or something) because [I would feel like some kind of clueless new age white lady]... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 11:48 AM on October 26, 2011
(Also, if folks want to be able to dress up as whatever they please, perhaps they should work on ending racial inequality, so that someday they really can wear a geisha costume and not have it be part of this global rhetoric of racism and exotification of Asian women. This stuff isn't neutral right now, because we live in an immensely racist and unequal world. If you don't like that, let's fix the world. ) posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 11:56 AM on October 26, 2011
I was thinking about this - along with prison guard jobs and similar police-state employment - and realized that they're basically jobs programs for the right. We can't create real jobs programs because that would be communist or something, so we'll create shitty gulag-monitoring jobs (and these jobs seem to be pretty awful) and pay for the employment of mostly white, mostly-right-wing-working-class people that way, conveniently cementing their loyalty to the Republicans who... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 7:15 AM on October 23, 2011
Just the other day, I had a little girl tell me that I should get a tattoo because "all your kind of white people have them". Which was 1. flattering, because I am a bit older than the "all my kind of white people" to which she was referring and 2. pretty cute.
Unless industrial society totally collapses, when this dude is 70 there will be lots and lots of other 70-year-olds with tattoos and everything will be fine.... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 1:49 AM on October 23, 2011
(I try to eschew honey not because of the toil of the bees but because of all the extra bees that die in industrial honey production. I am not a jerk about it because I recognize that almonds and blueberries, which I eat, are fertilized by mobile bee-keeping operations which also kill a lot of animals. As I've written elsewhere, some vegans feel that animal autonomy is the important thing - no pets, no use of directly-animal-created stuff - while others... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 4:24 PM on October 20, 2011
(And you can actually make delicious vegan lasagna - but it's vital that you do not imitate cheese. Think about things like squash-filled ravioli for a starting point. And you can make very good white sauce using an almond milk base, bay, olive oil, nutmeg and a few other seasonings. You top it with white sauce and a sort of deluxe gratin.) posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 4:26 PM on October 20, 2011
I make a lot of vegan gluten-free desserts for various events around town (in case anyone is interested) and seriously, I've never baked a successful gluten-free cake. I know it's possible, but it isn't easy with current baking knowledge and materials. I recommend coconut-based puddings, poached fruit in syrup, and various kinds of nut brittle/coconut brittle, all of which have proved very popular. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 4:30 PM on October 20, 2011
Also, I admit that I do love proseletyzing about the deliciousness of many vegan dishes. I will not impugn your pork-eating ways, no, but I will talk your ear off about vegan turnovers. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 4:33 PM on October 20, 2011
also you know what the best and also sometimes the worst is, is vegan cheesecake.
You know, I actually had some vegan cheesecake once and it was good. Though I'm a vegan, vegan cheesecake goes against everything I believe about the possibilities inherent in vegan food, so I was very surprised. No idea how they made it. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 4:42 PM on October 20, 2011
I think one thing I'd love to see is more vegan stuff that isn't junk food.
Honestly, I think that there's so much publicity about vegan junk food for two reasons: First, there is still a perception that food without meat or dairy is necessarily joyless and puritanical; and second, because most vegans (at least all the ones I've ever known) eat really soberly and healthily on a day to day basis. I'm a little bit of a junk-food vegan when I get... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 4:59 PM on October 20, 2011
Well, I will just continue this even though I'm a bit late.
1. I think there is a fad for gluten-free stuff, at least in my circles - there is a perception among a small percentage of hippie/punk/lefty types that gluten itself is bad for you, so cutting it out is good even if you're not actually sensitive to it. I surmise that this stems - perversely enough - from the paleo / green anarchist critique of agriculture/the agricultural diet. Also, there's... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 7:58 AM on October 21, 2011
Note here that the reporter points out how conservative reporters work for NPR yet appear on Fox, etc:
"This sudden concern with my political activities is also surprising in light of the fact that Mara Liaason reports on politics for NPR yet appears as a commentator on FoxTV, Scott Simon hosts an NPR news show yet writes political op-eds for national newspapers, Cokie Roberts reports on politics for NPR yet accepts large speaking fees from businesses.... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 12:04 PM on October 20, 2011
(And also, why the fuck should it matter if she speaks at an Occupy when she's an opera reporter? It's hardly as though her awesome authority on Madame Butterfly is going to sway the crowd to riot.
It just goes to show you that a crime is an action by a marginalized person but the same thing by a powerful person is just SOP. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 12:07 PM on October 20, 2011
I'm GenX. We should be at our local Occupy mentoring our younger brothers and sisters and fighting alongside of them, not treating them the same shitty way the Boomers treated us by calling us all a bunch of apathetic slackers. Which we were, to some degree. I'm damn proud of the Occupy kid
I mean, all this "generation" crap is nonsense anyway, an artifact of capitalist modernity designed to break us into... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:27 AM on October 19, 2011
Oh my goodness, this is a hugely inaccurate article...not so much that there is no shift in form but the history of that shift and its precursors are so totally, totally wrong.
1. Magic realism - a big, big thing in the eighties and nineties, whether in South American/Latin American fiction or in various Euro- and Canadian novels. And also in a bunch of novels by US writers of color - Maxine Hong Kingston, a really great series by an African American... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 9:25 AM on October 18, 2011
Nah, this wasn't agents provocateurs, it was radical infighting. I know people who were around during this period.
The co-ops themselves started as radical projects, something that gets really, really lost now because of Whole Foods and so on. The idea was that you would get together with people and make contacts with farmers and small distributors and then divide up the food without the extra costs of the middle man - and also build and deepen relationships among... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:29 AM on October 17, 2011
(Oh, maybe hippies will actually kill me, I see from Xurando's comment...) posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:31 AM on October 17, 2011
This is important, not so much for the Maoists, though I'm not a fan, but for how things get poisoned. I'm not much of an activist, but I can be moved to action just like anyone else. But without fail when I go to protests or think about joining a movement, the yo-yo's come out of the woodwork, and that just turns me off so much.
I've been thinking about this a lot. Here's the challenge:
1. If you have a large, heterogenous... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 7:04 AM on October 17, 2011
It's kind of depressing that people on the left seem to be more interested in process than actually getting stuff done. Obviously things aren't desperate enough for a real change, because people are willing to blow something like this off because you don't like someone's attitude.
Look, understand that "people on the left" are mostly doing all the things that regular Americans do - working, taking care of their kids, getting groceries,... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 7:21 AM on October 17, 2011
What isn't getting adequately explained here is that the philosophy of libraries has changed. (Child of librarians, sibling of another one here.) Libraries are more and more about providing internet access and access to DVDs, plus social space to use those things. This bugs me less, actually, than the change in shelving philosophy. When I was a kid, the shelves at the library were full, so you could browse. Then along came the idea that people would get more out of... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:23 PM on October 11, 2011
Then along came the idea that people would get more out of choosing from fewer books...
No, really, it's that whole "paradox of choice" thing, plus the idea that since most people don't want to read, for example, Lloyd Alexander's Time Cat, the shelf is better if it holds just the books that most people want to read. Shelf looks neater, it's easier to track the data, people can see the... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:28 PM on October 11, 2011
Stacks are nearly always open to the public in the US (not so in Europe and other areas) and thus putting books in stacks would in fact be putting them in front of patrons.
At least around here - and maybe I was confusing - there are the regular shelves that are right out there in the main body of the library and the "stacks" (maybe this is just folks' colloquialism) that are in the basement and/or require special permission to get to, or... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:36 PM on October 11, 2011
Or rather, half full of best sellers posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:37 PM on October 11, 2011
(And while I'm complaining about libraries today - would it be so hard to have a quiet room? I basically accept that providing internet access is valid, since so many low-income and homeless folks really need to use the web at the library, and thus the main body of the library gets noisy. But could we possibly have a room, just a room, where people can go to read and not to talk?) posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:40 PM on October 11, 2011
Eventually, we'll all be required by employers to stand at our desks all day, except if we provide a doctor's note. And the ones with the notes will be culled in the next layoff. (I have a really old hip injury that sometimes kicks up, making standing for long periods painful.) posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 8:19 AM on October 11, 2011
In other news, someone applies "common sense" individual solutions to deep structural problems, then is astonished - astonished! - when people don't take their advice!
I say this, by the way, as someone who gave up her car as soon as she passed probation at her current job. You know what? I live in dread of losing my current job and needing to fork over money from savings to get a car to work a shitty job in the suburbs, since most of the jobs for which I am... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:07 AM on October 11, 2011
I found these a bit annoying, actually. Because the subtext I got was "this is satiric because it's funny to think of women wanting to look at pictures of men performing sexual allure!" It's like the critique is supposed to go "men are normal; when men perform erotic poses they look ridiculous; therefore, pin-ups of women are ridiculous and sexist".
Seriously, I'm not even into cis dudes and... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:15 AM on October 6, 2011
I think your view of how you think "straight people" see erotic performance is needlessly reductive, especially with regard to this project, and because of that, you're missing the point of these images in what they say about the specific mode of erotic performance, rather than erotic performance as a whole. Give us a little bit of credit, please.
But there are lots of posed/contrived/super-duper performative things - poses no one would... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 10:27 AM on October 6, 2011
(Oh, by "straight" I did not mean "all straight people feel this way [because they are WRONG! Or naive! Or it's just a problem with being straight!]....I meant "straightness is constructed in a particular way, just as "the idea of whiteness", which is distinct from "individual white people, is propped up by some harmful ideas about race and about people of color". posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 10:32 AM on October 6, 2011
(Also, I am horrified that I just wrote a defense of burlesque. Another person ruined by tumblr images. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 10:38 AM on October 6, 2011
It's interesting to read this in tandem with the post about why US authors don't win Nobels. (Which I thought was a bit specious and kind of implied that neither Toni Morrison nor Doris Lessing deserved the award but instead got special girl treatment.) Bret Easton Ellis always seems very much in that US dude writer vein of "my life as a male white guy with money is not just about me; it's an important statement about everyone. I mean, whatever,... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 6:26 AM on October 5, 2011
The longer the book goes on (pardon me, everyone, if I'm stressing the obvious here), the more Bateman's evil acts become just part of life, part of that world. Which is the actual satirical point of the novel - not the smallish notion that We Are All Shallow Consumerists, nor the common knowledge that Wall Street Sucks, but rather the ongoing (readerly) experience of living with the awful shit that fills Bateman's world.
But you see, this is really... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 8:18 AM on October 5, 2011
And yet, and yet, and yet - everyone has such faith in themselves as readers. Like we can all read books (and heck, watch movies) about horrible, horrible violence against women (or about how women are horrible chthonic sexual things) and read and watch things that devote loving amounts of time to describing brands and rich-people stuff - and we're so confident that what we take away from those books is critique, and analysis, and a sophisticated understanding of... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 12:38 PM on October 5, 2011
Let's just go back to lionizing DFW, would that make you all happy? We will ignore the end of Infinite Jest where people are ya know, tortured, and maybe ignore the fight at the halfway house where someone gets stabbed in the eye with a high heeled shoe.
I personally don't like Wallace very much - he's extremely sentimental and has all these non-problematized ideas about "sincerity" and culture and community and so on.... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 1:19 PM on October 5, 2011
Ooh, the Communards! I am more of an Associates type myself.
Owing to pre-Internet lack of musical information, I had no independent confirmation that Andy Bell was gay, but my gaydar was absolutely aces when I was trapped alone in the suburbs, and I knew. posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 9:21 AM on October 5, 2011
Abandoning the attempt at enlightenment, I walked up to Gardiner's Corner where I saw Fenner Brockway looking very excited. Later I learned he telephoned the Home Secretary to warn him of possible bloodshed, and the Home Secretary contacted the police and they called the Mosley march off and they went back. No way would the Mosleyites have proceeded without their police guard. The CP version has passed into myth, but that was how Fenner Brockway stopped the police marching through the... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Frownerat 9:33 AM on October 4, 2011