Congratulations. My wife and I also married on May 3rd this year. We split our thank-you-notes up. She just finished all hers last month. I still have eight left. I believe desuetude is correct that etiquette calls for six months. So really, you're okay.

I did five a night and was on a roll until I started hitting the people I barely knew. The last eight I have are all people my parents invited. I feel awkward trying to write those notes.

I... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 9:28 AM on November 11, 2008

Make a pillow.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:26 PM on October 31, 2008

Awesome!
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 9:04 AM on October 31, 2008

Look up the value of your car at Kelly Blue Book. I'd chose the Private Party value. Once you've entered in all the relevant information about your car, you'll be given three estimated values based on the condition. Excellent, Good and Fair. Each of these conditions will be explained. You should be able to use this to determine if you would get a good return on any repairs made to the car.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:25 PM on October 6, 2008

Beans.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 8:44 AM on October 2, 2008

Stereo Mc's - We Belong in This World Together?
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 9:48 AM on October 1, 2008

I'm not sure if it speaks to the reliability of the cars, but when my wife was looking at a car loan from Bank of America she was told that Suzuki and Daewoo vehicles were not eligible for loans.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 7:33 AM on September 30, 2008

It's unfair for her to use you as a "comfort zone" and offer you nothing but grief in return.

You should change your number.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:39 PM on September 26, 2008

This is a pileon of Blazecock proportions. <-- I ownz that.
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 8:50 AM on September 24, 2008

I would call and calmly explain the situation. I've had many fees refunded by my bank simply by asking. Be nice and be honest, don't get hostile. Remember their name and use it while speaking to them. If that person can't help you, thank them and then ask if you can speak to someone who can.

"Thank you for your time, (their name), I understand you can't help me with this. Would you be able to connect me with someone else who might be in a position to help me clear... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 7:57 AM on September 24, 2008

Also, remember that you don't always have to go up the chain of command when speaking to businesses. Sometimes, all it takes is calling back and getting a different person who is not having a bad day or just more compassionate.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 8:09 AM on September 24, 2008

dragonsi55 makes an excellent point about bullets. Not only can they travel through bodies, they don't always do so in a straight path. It would be tragic to have a bullet exit the dog in the direction of the child you were trying to save.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 8:14 AM on September 17, 2008

Definitely take MARTA - from Perimeter Station, or above. Not only is DragonCon this weekend, but the Alabama-Clemson game is Saturday night. The few lanes that will be open downtown will be filled with fans streaming in from Alabama and South Carolina. It's not going to be pretty.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 7:49 AM on August 29, 2008

Here is the the creator's deviantART page. You could try emailing him and see if he'll tell you what font he used.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:31 PM on August 22, 2008

Hello! Her stepfather is Bruce Jenner. Bruce Freakin’ Jenner!!! Oh wait, is this no longer the 1970’s?
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 11:15 AM on August 7, 2008

Yeah, I guess it just weirded me out that the first error I got was incorrect password and when I put my password in again the error changed to the IMAP error.

I did check my sent mail and the email is in my sent box. I didn't realize spammers could mess with the sent mailbox, I thought that they could only spoof the sender.

Anyway, these answers are making me feel better.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 11:35 AM on August 5, 2008

Not who I pictured at all.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 10:12 AM on July 29, 2008

Shazam says it is Courtship Dating by Crystal Castles
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:31 PM on July 28, 2008 marked best answer

Shazam is correct: Courtship Dating by Crystal Castles
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:39 PM on July 28, 2008 marked best answer

I put my valuables in a box at the bottom of my laundry basket. If I'm on a long vacation, I'll leave extra boxers spilling over the sides with a special pair that I decorated with chocolate syrup right on top.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 11:16 AM on July 21, 2008

Ghoultown
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 8:05 AM on July 21, 2008

Very Meta.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 12:04 PM on July 14, 2008

@brownpau Yeah, I got that link from the comments of the site you linked. Now, it would be really cool if the barista went home and ranted on his blog about the "asshole" customer he had to deal with and we could find that link.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 12:19 PM on July 14, 2008

I've been waiting for an "I like my coffee like I like my women" joke.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 1:27 PM on July 14, 2008

I bet this all turns out to be viral marketing for Folgers Crystals.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 1:49 PM on July 14, 2008

From this picture, it looks like Nick is the one who got punched in the dick.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 8:20 AM on July 15, 2008

Saturday nights, Metalsome Live Rock Band Karaoke.

Dad's Garage is always a great time, anytime. Tonight is the opening of FWD in the Top Shelf of Dad's. It was co-created by Mefi's own clunkyrobot. I'll be there for the opening tonight.

If you want to meet a bunch of people who like to socialize join a local kickball team: WAKA.

Also, you should join the Atlanta People With Blogs Who Get Together To Drink. We meet once... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:01 PM on July 11, 2008

Make a few rice-filled heating pads? That is, if you have access to a microwave.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:49 PM on July 8, 2008

Well, when used in this context it can certainly raise questions regarding all parties involved. One wonders whether the need or the desire has more pull in the end. We’re not professing to have all the answers, it’s just simply a matter of this vs. that in an otherwise misinterpreted forum of individual perspectives. To imply anything else can be misconstrued as dubious in the least whereas, on the other hand, to imply nothing at all leaves the question open-ended and aimless. The key is... [more]
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 12:39 PM on July 2, 2008

Sorry, missing a comma in my previous comment.
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 1:10 PM on July 2, 2008

Call some local churches and ask if they have, or know of, a local program to help people in her situation. Sometimes, churches have sponsor programs where member families help others families in need.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:48 PM on July 1, 2008

Have her call the the National Domestic Violence Hotline and talk to someone. At least give her the number: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Let her call from your house if she is scared he might find out. They can help guide her.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:20 PM on July 1, 2008

MIB has issues with Wall-E.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 12:01 PM on July 1, 2008

Fuel
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 1:19 PM on June 26, 2008

I was just going to post R Thomas Deluxe Grill. Very healthy choice.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:38 PM on June 25, 2008

But where did the lighter fluid come from?
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 12:13 PM on June 25, 2008

Phobos creeps me the hell out.
posted to MetaFilter by studentbaker at 12:42 PM on June 20, 2008

I had my tonsils out when I was 30. It was extremely painful.

I stayed on the couch for a week and a half, taking pain medication and slipping in and out of consciousness to watch the Food Network, longing for the day that I could once again swallow without excruciating pain shooting throughout my throat and ears. I lost 15lbs. in two weeks.

However, I would gladly do it over again if it meant avoiding the constant infected tonsils that laid me... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 7:03 AM on June 6, 2008

Has there ever been a successful Atlanta meetup? I hope Augusta has better luck.
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 5:39 AM on June 6, 2008

The whole damn State of Gerogia meetup in Augusta!
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 6:48 AM on June 6, 2008

Just got back from Maui. We stayed a few days at the Grand Wailea. Fantastic resort. Right on a beautiful beach. Several pools connected by small water slides. Two big water slides. Swim up bar in a grotto type area. Short lazy river area. There is also an adult pool if you want to get away from children. Beautiful gardens.

Had the breakfast buffet, was just ok. Ate at Humu Humu in the resort. Great food, open air atmosphere, great for sunset dining.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 10:01 AM on May 14, 2008

Wow, there are so many compelling arguments both ways. To answer some questions, I’ve had my beard for six months. I’ve known my fiancée for three years. She loves the beard, but also likes me sans beard. Maybe she’s not terrified of making the decision, she’s been thinking about it for days, since I first asked her, but she’s had to make a billion other decisions this past year regarding the planning and I feel like she’s burned out. I probably shouldn't have brought it up to her in the first... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 11:18 AM on April 23, 2008

Thanks for all the great answers. After reading the thread several times last night with my fiancée, I decided to shave. I’m beardless and I feel twelve, but she is really happy and that makes me happy.

I’m letting it grow back on the honeymoon, though.

Thanks again.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 9:31 AM on April 24, 2008

You are well within your rights to tell him that you changed your mind and are no longer comfortable with them traveling together. As your boyfriend, he should consider your feelings above those of his ex. I can see where you might be scared to discover where he holds his priorities by asking him to make a choice, but you need to tell him. If your are agonizing over this now, it’s only going to feel a hundred times worse if they go on the trip together. Not to mention the nagging suspicions... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 11:31 AM on April 22, 2008

Wow, so first they do some crack, then they have butt sex, and later, they fight a yeti.
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 9:22 AM on April 22, 2008

I'm thinking a yeti wouldn't submit to butt sex without a fight. Then again, crack is a hell of a drug.
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 9:59 AM on April 22, 2008

Read All About It... maybe?
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:07 PM on April 16, 2008 marked best answer

Youtube Link to an episode of Read All About It.
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 12:09 PM on April 16, 2008 marked best answer

If he really wanted to be with you -- You as a person -- he would have waited. Anyone not willing to wait is looking for cheap thrills and is not worth your time.

He continues to flirt in hopes he'll either wear down your defenses, or catch you at the "right" time or in a weak moment. He's done putting any real effort into it, though. That's probably why he's only flirting in emails.

No, you're not a cocktease, your just someone who... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by studentbaker at 3:48 PM on April 15, 2008

I'll be at the Yacht Club around 7PM.
posted to MetaTalk by studentbaker at 2:51 PM on March 22, 2008