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Can my undocumented friend drive my car? Can I drive his car? Will my insurance cover it and am I putting myself or him (or other drivers) at any risk?
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at 6:50 AM on February 10, 2012
(9 comments)
I made the very classic mistake of sleeping with a coworker and now trying to pretend nothing happened. What is the protocol for this, because I have suspicions she is breaking it. Medium-long post.
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at 6:48 AM on February 10, 2012
(19 comments)
Can the towing company put a lien on my car?
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at 5:24 PM on February 9, 2012
(13 comments)
Turned down a job interview. Now I would like to interview. Email them or call it a day? Special snowflake details.
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at 5:19 PM on February 9, 2012
(6 comments)
Help me integrate back into the workforce after a very long absence and current difficulties with social anxiety + panic attacks.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 2:56 PM on February 9, 2012
(13 comments)
Underwater mortgage + growing family in small house = terror. How can we plan to get out of this situation in three years?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 2:53 PM on February 9, 2012
(29 comments)
Dating and STD question. Snowflake details inside.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 1:24 PM on February 9, 2012
(18 comments)
So, my brilliant dad left a threatening voice mail for one of the many estranged women in his life. She posted it on YouTube with his full legal and professional name.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 1:23 PM on February 9, 2012
(26 comments)
What besides HPV could cause these bumps on my tongue?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 5:02 PM on February 8, 2012
(13 comments)
How to speak to a human being at Google, to resolve an issue with a Blogspot blog? I really do need a person & not a public forum; paid support would be fine.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 5:01 PM on February 8, 2012
(8 comments)
Paying for porn while preserving anonymity redux.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 1:25 PM on February 8, 2012
(12 comments)
Am I doing damage to my body by eating below my estimated BMR? Is starvation mode a real thing?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 1:25 PM on February 8, 2012
(14 comments)
Please help me process this traumatic doctor's office experience. Will saying anything to the doctor help?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 11:50 AM on February 8, 2012
(14 comments)
The other day my 13 year old received an application for a Discover Card in the mail. At the time, I dismissed it as junk mail. Trans Union mentions that receiving applications may be a sign of a problem, and even has a site related to the issue
here. While diving into a fraud investigation request for one application seems overkill, how common is this, and at what point does one start monitoring all this?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 9:31 AM on February 8, 2012
(10 comments)
Texter vs. non-texter relations: How do you deal?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 8:34 AM on February 8, 2012
(64 comments)
Is it terrible to tell someone who's unhappy in a relationship that I have feelings for him, especially if it seems like he has feelings for me too?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 5:51 PM on February 7, 2012
(50 comments)
I'm having trouble getting second dates from online dating sites. My personality has always been to develop a comfort zone with people slowly, and I worry that I'm getting brushed aside since there's not an "OMG CHEMISTRY" connection on the first date.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 5:09 PM on February 7, 2012
(18 comments)
I'm at a crossroads in my 3-year relationship with a live-in SO.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 1:42 PM on February 7, 2012
(19 comments)
How can I, or should I, once again point out that my boyfriend is kind of a jerk?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 12:53 PM on February 7, 2012
(35 comments)
My boyfriend's son's behavior is stressing everyone out. Help!
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at 12:41 PM on February 7, 2012
(24 comments)
How do I deal with an out of the blue tweet from my most significant ex (girlfriend/fiancee) without upsetting my wife, her and to some extent me.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 11:25 AM on February 7, 2012
(59 comments)
On my doctor's orders, I switched deodorants, and now my armpits stink. Please help.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 10:59 AM on February 7, 2012
(28 comments)
What are the implications of a family member receiving help to manage their debts from a charity?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 7:49 PM on February 6, 2012
(10 comments)
I am 27 and male. I've lived in shared housing my entire adult life: dorms, rented rooms, group houses, shared apartments. I want to finally live like an adult.™ How?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 6:43 PM on February 6, 2012
(26 comments)
I'm about to quit my job. What do I need to do to before, during, and after I give my notice?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 6:14 PM on February 6, 2012
(11 comments)
Help, I'm still depressed about a woman that stopped calling me ages ago
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 4:42 PM on February 6, 2012
(13 comments)
Living in California six weeks, received a citation for driving without a California driver's license. The citation duly arrived in the mail and I paid the ticket. Now I have a misdemeanor on my record permanently, because I paid the ticket instead of contesting it. What is the effect of this and is there anything I can to to change it?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 4:42 PM on February 6, 2012
(6 comments)
What should I do with my life, MetaFilter?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 2:22 PM on February 6, 2012
(17 comments)
I'm ridiculously attracted to my wife but her sex drive is an issue. And when we do have sex, the effort I put into the act isn't reciprocated, which to me is almost the biggest issue. We've talked about it but nothing's really changed. What next?
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at 2:22 PM on February 6, 2012
(45 comments)
Work colleague accidentally cc'd me an email containing personal insults directed at me and now wants to meet to discuss the issue. How do I diplomatically and professionally say that I don't want to meet and would rather just ignore the email and keep working?
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at 10:22 AM on February 6, 2012
(61 comments)
How can I contact a judge or court anonymously in regards to someone's appeal or release? I was not involved in the tried case, but I feel my experience is relevant and I want to influence this decision.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 10:22 AM on February 6, 2012
(9 comments)
I'm dating a girl who has had a difficult past and who seems to be strangely absent during sex. Help me figure out how best to deal with this.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 7:58 AM on February 6, 2012
(6 comments)
What are some socially acceptable ways to "drop out" socially for 6 months or so?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 7:58 AM on February 6, 2012
(12 comments)
My wife says I'm terrible at listening to her. What does this really mean?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 8:09 PM on February 5, 2012
(52 comments)
I made my alcoholic husband of 10 years leave a couple weeks ago. How to I be supportive, civil, and not lose my newly found sanity?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 4:12 PM on February 5, 2012
(27 comments)
My SO's back and neck seem to be permanently tied in knots. She doesn't seem like a tense person, but her muscles indicate otherwise. I can massage her for a while, but it only does so much for her. Can anyone give me suggestions to help her relax her back and neck?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 4:11 PM on February 5, 2012
(32 comments)
[Ejaculation Pain Filter] My prostate is slowing down my sex life...
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 8:31 AM on February 5, 2012
(5 comments)
Ideas for a birthday care package to send to a very good friend who lives several states away who is suffering from severe depression?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 9:47 PM on February 4, 2012
(17 comments)
Please explain romance to an asexual aromantic who's wobbling on the romantic identification. What's the difference between romance and friendship?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 9:47 PM on February 4, 2012
(17 comments)
Hi all. Definite TMI/physical intimacy question pertaining to matters of the backside and heterosexual male turn-ons. Details after the jump!
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 12:44 PM on February 4, 2012
(6 comments)
[DIY app] I have an Excel database of products being showcased at a wine show and I'd like to transfer this to an app so that guests can use it as an event programme. There isn't any budget to hire a developer so please help me find an app template (iPhone & Android) online that I can use to upload the information I have.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 12:44 PM on February 4, 2012
(2 comments)
Recommendations for a female CBT therapist in NYC?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 9:00 AM on February 4, 2012
How long with it take to return to "normal" after years of sexual dysfunction?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 8:59 AM on February 4, 2012
(7 comments)
Why do I have frequent urination?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 10:18 PM on February 3, 2012
(18 comments)
I want to start a very simple blog that will have ads on it. Where should I start?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 3:07 PM on February 3, 2012
(3 comments)
Should I file a police report about a stolen Kindle that has since been returned to me? The thief used the device to make purchases on Amazon as well.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 3:06 PM on February 3, 2012
(46 comments)
Is it unreasonably controlling of me to ask my girlfriend to not initiate online contact with a specific set of ex-boyfriends, namely those that she has cheated on her (ex-) husband or other boyfriends with?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 11:18 AM on February 3, 2012
(51 comments)
Settling with credit card company and dealing with debt collectors. Hey, my husband has not been able to work for a few years and we stopped paying on our credit card bills over a year ago. One of the companies is getting really aggressive (calling me at work, talking to the receptionist, etc.) so I feel that I need to take action.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 8:26 AM on February 3, 2012
(13 comments)
I'm a 24 year old guy who's very skinny and has never really worked out. However, by virtue of sitting behind a desk every day for the last couple years, I've developed some stomach flab. Besides that, though, still skinny as can be.
I want to join a gym to accomplish a few things:
- lose the stomach flab
- get slightly bigger / more muscular elsewhere (tough since I'm so skinny…main area I'd like to improve are my arms)
- get some stamina
From what I know, the stamina part will come through cardio, but that'll burn a lot of calories and go against the whole 'getting bigger' idea. Would love for those with knowledge or experience to give me some ideas of what to do…machines to use, exercises to try, etc.
Thanks.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 6:21 PM on February 2, 2012
(26 comments)
How can I exert some influence over my ex-wife, who is not making the financial and other decisions I wish she would?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 2:38 PM on February 2, 2012
(32 comments)
