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"I did the same as Lokheed in Washington State except that I used a book from Nolo Press. No kids, no property, agreeable disposition of cat custody. Anyway, Nolo Press are the go-to guys for anything related to self-help in the legal field.
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"You have to decide for yourself instead of asking random strangers on the internet who know nothing about your situation. Here's how I decided between two good job offers. It's kind of a high tech version of the standard pros/cons list.
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Necessities for a car
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"Similar to the what the hell song, you could sing Sarah Vowell's It Could Be Worse song (which, as I just learned from the wiki linked herein, has been set to music and recorded by They Might Be Giants)...." [
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"Me: Ask me "what's the secret to comedy?"
Them: "What's the secret to co--"
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"Get a subscription to The New Yorker, Harpers, The Atlantic Monthly, Scientific American, The Economist, Skeptic Magazine, and The New York Review of Books. Read them all. Read well-written and thoughtful novels from all over the world to put..." [
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"Use black and white film and learn the Zone System. Here's kind of a shortcut to the Zone system. Get a spot meter. Meter the shadows in your scene and place them on Zone III by underexposing 2 stops from the meter reading. Meter the highlights..." [
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"Lots of people start graduate programs in humanities and social sciences because they can't think of anything better to do and they liked college. The lucky ones drop out fast.
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"My friend Kate McElwee is a wonderful, warm woman who's just starting a professional boudoir photography business, so her rates will be quite reasonable. I don't know if she does pinup styles though...." [
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"Confirmation bias. If you think things are going to suck, you're going to make them suck, or only see things that suck. If the horoscope you're reading says that things are going to be great, then they'll be great. Go read a different horoscope...." [
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"Think of it in a Darwinian sense. Animals don't know that sex leads to reproduction (and probably for a large part of history, people didn't either), but animals that desire to have sex will leave more offspring than animals that don't, hence more..." [
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"When I was a kid, my little friend next door would say "Bless you" the first two times someone sneezed, and then after that, "Consider yourself blessed." [Flag as anecdotal if you will, but I thought I'd follow up on miss..." [
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"Work friendships are very difficult to translate into the real world for some reason. I can think of 4 examples off the top of my head where I tried to have a follow-up friendship with someone who I no longer worked with, and it just didn't..." [
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"Good, normal sex requires communication between the parties involved.
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"T.P. Salmon, A.C. Crabb, and R.E. Marsh.
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"Is there a way you could convince him, as his confidant, to take the initiative and turn himself in? He's put you in quite a bind." [
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"I just bow my head and silently wait for the grace to finish. It's not like Charles Darwin is going to be terribly offended if I do that, and it doesn't mean I'm pledging allegiance to my friends' invisible cloud being. To me it seems simply a..." [
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"This chart and the associated text should help you understand the DPI issue." [
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"Elderly people can be really interesting dining and conversation companions. They're people just like you, who have been on this planet half a century more than you have. If you feel out of place, try opening your mind more. If one night you get..." [
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