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“I didn’t think anything was wrong, I never saw her anyway.”
I think she tried to reach out in other ways, too (the Scrabble games, genealogy sites, the phone calls to relatives), but she couldn't bring herself to face the world any more.
You could see the sentence, "She posted a series of comments on a variety of topics to a "community weblog" called MetaFilter" added to that story quite easily. I think there are probably a lot of people her who are closer to her end of the sociability… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:13 PM on July 27, 2011
Dunno how this helps, mate
I was stuck in a prison called Folsom
My life wasn't what you'd call wholesome
I shot a man dead
It popped into my head
Now the train whistle makes me so lonesome
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 5:49 PM on July 26, 2011
I want everything to be without wires.
Your iPhone and iPad can be entirely plug-free once iOS 5 rolls out, if you don't mind putting the device in some kind of inductive charging case.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:33 AM on July 25, 2011
What was the site that tried to create incredibly pithy and snarky reviews? I think their one for Harry Potter was something like, "Super jock thinks he is above the law, is right." It kind of ruined the whole series for me.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 2:24 PM on July 20, 2011
The lack of scroll bars is unnerving and silly. It's like the interface designers need to do something for every release, so they just start fucking with bits to justify their job.
Like it or not, the scroll bars are clearly part of the philosophy that Apple is following to merge the appearance and functionality of OS X and iOS, it's not just random tinkering (like the stupid chrome in Calendar and Address Book).… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 11:30 AM on July 20, 2011
Help an Aunt out
Whatever you do, DON'T try to be cool. Even if you knew all the songs, all the TV shows, all the cute boys, you would not be cool. You are not cool, because you are not 13. Be yourself and treat your like an adult as much as possible. Let her decide what she eats, what she wears, what she does in her down time (texting and such).
Take her to cool things, but not things that you think will be cool for her, but things that you think are genuinely… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:44 PM on July 19, 2011
Traveling without eating in restaurants 3 times a day
When I am traveling, I like to try and grab at least one meal a day in a "fast food" type place. Not Mickey D's or anything, but like a little hole in the wall sandwich shop or a pizza-by-the-slice joint or a burrito place or whatever. Even a regional fast-food chain that you are unfamiliar with can be fun if you've never been there before. Gives you a little local color and gets you on with your day quicker than a full-on table service dining experience.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:33 PM on July 19, 2011
I need new reading material
There is not a huge backlog, and it is infrequently updated, but if you are not familiar with Hyperbole and a Half you should give it a whirl. Note: you will not be able to read it in bed, because your laughter will wake up your husband.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:35 PM on July 19, 2011 marked best answer
How do I handle this situation at work without looking like a jerk?
Take this easy quiz to find out if you are being a jerk by giving the new person at work and old lappy!
1. The new person is...
A. Superior to me
B. Equal to me
C. Subordinate to me
2. The new person's job is...
A. Techier than mine
B. Just as techy as mine
C. Less techy than mine
3. The new person experience level in the field is...
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 3:52 PM on July 18, 2011
I like some of his ideas in this column, but basing salaries on All-Star appearances? You do know that fans vote for the All-Stars, right, Bill? I mean, Yao Ming was voted onto the team last year.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:00 AM on July 11, 2011
Which version of the Nintendo DS should I get?
Not sure if you are the kind of person for whom this will matter, but the DS Lite is a beautiful little object. It feels wonderful in the hand, open or closed, in "portrait" or "landscape" orientation, and has an almost Applesque level of fit and finish. The DS (original chunky style) feels like a hastily assembled prototype in comparison. Well worth the $10 premium if you are someone who appreciates good design.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 4:00 PM on July 10, 2011
"Either she's an evil, emotionless, miserable human being, or... she's a robot."
Isn't "music appreciation" already considered to be an attribute of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl?
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:00 AM on July 4, 2011
Manic Pixie Dream Murderer
Reminds me of my idea for a horror movie called Final Girl, in which the slightly androgynous virgin narrator turns out to have been the psychopathic killer all along.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:56 PM on July 4, 2011
This is amazing. Are we sure this isn't one of cortex's projects? I'm truly fascinated by the intersection between this work of art and the website we know and love. Those images of the "Meta Filter machine" are just beautiful, and I would like for someone to create a reconstruction of one that displays a browser opened to MetaFilter on the screen.
Also, you people are all wrong. It is:
Meta Filter: Would the work… [more]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 1:06 PM on July 3, 2011
URGENT CABAL COMMUNIQUE FOLLOWS
According to scientists and empiricists at the Cabal Institute for Temporological Studies, users and observers of the MultiFilter may experience temporal or causative abnormalities over the next orbital time period. A strong negative front is moving though the positive and semi-positive dimensions, causing occasional retrograde causality and referentiality. Certain… [more]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:19 PM on July 3, 2011
Talking with someone other than your SO = problem?
This may or may not be true, depending on your girlfriend, but for a lot of the women I know, playng around with a cellphone or other gadget is code for "you are not paying enough attention to me right now". Based on this question, it seems like you may not be great at paying your girlfriend what she considers the appropriate amount attention, and so if you were already ignoring her (in her mind) and then spent 20 minutes talking to another… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:56 PM on July 3, 2011
Cougar-Man will haunt your dreams.
The way those bird bears fall out of the sky is truly disturbing.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:33 PM on June 24, 2011
So, Cricket, Maybe?
That was hilarious and very good-spirited. This bit about the stats of cricket had me laughing so hard I was annoying my wife:
Another wicket for Pakistan (from Ajmal, not Gul), another confounding "Billie Jean" interlude. Riaz is back in, and they show his stat line, which has like 50 categories, only three of which are recognizable. This stat line graphic is crazy. Without rewinding and actually checking, here's what… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:23 PM on June 17, 2011
2nd Annual Moderator's Day
Wait... this was declared in 2007, but this is the 2nd Annual? MetaFilter must use a different calendar system.
It's called the Rock Steady Forgetful Calendar.
I'm really quite glad that my little throwaway comment has sparked a bit of a tradition. My own personal tradition is remembering around June 7th or 8th that I should really make a MeTa post about it this year, and then promptly forgetting about it until June 14th. But!… [more]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 1:51 PM on June 14, 2011
What to watch when you've finished running through The Wire, Dr. Who, Battlestar Galactica and Firefly on Netflix.
He was super great on Nip/Tuck as well. Haven't seen this series, but once I re-subscribe to HBO for True Blood, I'll try to catch up.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:08 PM on June 14, 2011
I. NEVER. Would.
Loved it loved it loved it. Great conclusion to what I thought was an iffy beginning. Had to watch this one without my 10yro daughter (she's on a "No TV" punishment) and I just lapped it up. That Silurian and her chambermaid are just so fantastically interesting. I mean, they're just about too interesting to be bit players, aren't they? They've GOT to be the set up for a spin-off. The big reveal didn't feel like a shocker to me, but it felt... big enough. If that makes any sense. The… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:56 AM on June 7, 2011
Matt Smith is coming back.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:54 AM on June 8, 2011
Really seemed to be coming from a firmly established place.
Yeah exactly. I still haven't gotten around to watching the first (Ecclestone) series of the new Who, and I was sure they were a throwback to that season or something. Just so much subtext crammed into a handful of lines of dialogue.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:51 PM on June 9, 2011
The line about the next episode title, said in that voice, with the big text filling the screen were just about the best, funniest thing I've seen on TV in a long time.
OK, when I wrote that I would have sworn that there was big, sonorous, British-accented narration to go along with the on-screen graphics, but when I watched it again with my daughter tonight the was none. I think the Silence were involved.
I should also add… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:19 PM on June 10, 2011
My name is Johnny Canuck
Can I just take this opportunity to say that I really like the sounds of the names Kaberle and Peverley together? Combine that with a little Krejci, Recchi and Lucic, with a dash of Boychuk on the side, and I just can't get enough of these Bruin names.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 3:48 PM on June 9, 2011
Collision at the Plate
Seems to me the change needs to come from coaching and management. It seems ridiculous to risk such an important and valuable investment (especially considering the dearth of top flight catchers out there today) to prevent ONE RUN. Teach your catchers to either make a swipe tag like a second baseman trying to catch a stealing runner or to give up the run. In the grand scheme of the franchise/season/game, the risk of a career-altering injury is not worth the reward of one less run and one more… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:56 AM on May 26, 2011
I don't think even Posey would have done it differently even if management would have preferred he not. I believe most players, especially at the professional level, err on the side of 100% effort than the chance they could be injured.
I realize that, but that is exactly the mentality that needs to be changed. Even from a strictly selfish perspective, I wonder how much money over the course of his career that one play cost Posey. Could be millions.… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:51 PM on May 26, 2011
Billy Beane to Kurt Suzuki: Don’t Get Hurt
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 2:15 PM on June 2, 2011
It doesn't have to be long, but it should be emotional and heartfelt. Begin with a slightly embarrassing anecdote about the groom (keyword SLIGHTLY. Nothing off-color or immoral). Then explain some way in which the groom has been bettered as a person by his relationship with the bride, and (ideally) how that improvement makes him a better, more fun friend to be around.
Write it in advance and practice it several dozen times in front of a mirror and then several more… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 10:21 AM on June 2, 2011
The problem with trying to immobilize a tail is that it is very easy to cut off the blood supply to the tail if it is bound tightly, but due to a tail's taper and wagginess, anything that is not tightly bound to it will slip off. If blood supply is cut off, the tail can become necrotic and the tissues will begin to die, requiring amputation. You should get a second opinion, but I wouldn't be optimistic that they will have a magic bullet type solution for you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:40 AM on June 2, 2011
Burnside is holdin' it down
JEB Stuart's beard is so lush it looks like he is making out with a muppet.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:50 PM on June 1, 2011
I'd really be interested in working with some folks to create TelevisionFilter, actually. Basically just new posts for new episodes of a selection of shows, with general, unthreaded, MeFi style discussion in the comments. You'd be able, ideally to customize the view to only show you threads for the shows you follow, and there could be a MetaTVFi for overarching discussion and site business. televisionfilter.com is available...
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 2:59 PM on May 31, 2011
Or you could put some sort of 'storybeat' functionality into the threads.
Oh, I like this.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 3:30 PM on May 31, 2011
[via Cool Site of the Day]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 11:56 PM on May 28, 2011
You know when grown-ups tell you everything's going to be fine, but you really think they're lying to make you feel better?
Could her kidnapping be linked to her body being put in the Pandorica so that it could be reborn with the universe in "The Big Bang"?
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:49 PM on May 28, 2011
Transgender people and pregnancy, babies, kids?
Can you teach a kid that families are different and she should be proud of hers, but also that it’s not appropriate to “out” her trans mom to her class and therefore the whole neighborhood?
Young children are notorious for spilling family secrets at the most inappropriate time, even when they have the best intentions. I dont think you can reasonably ask a child to keep a secret like that throughout their entire childhood. If your child knows that you… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:34 PM on May 28, 2011
Yes, please. This sounds like fun. I will probably be on the side that not only manages to lose, but manages to lose in an historically bad fashion, so... Yeah, let's do this thing.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 2:56 PM on May 24, 2011
I think GaFi got pwned, stav. I get a blank screen too.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:28 AM on May 27, 2011
Oops, soon as I say that I reload and it comes up fine.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:29 AM on May 27, 2011
Burnt Out, Pissed. Would like to change that.
So, I recently heard a quote that goes something to the effect of "If you meet four assholes over the course of your day, the asshole is you." Now, if you interact with dozens of emotional customers all day, the number may need to be tweaked, but the idea is sound. I suspect that the interactions you are having with co-workers and customers have not changed, but something internal to you has. That may be depression (as others have said, depression doesn't mean "sad," nor do… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 4:33 AM on May 27, 2011
Obstacle course training help.
My wife just did a similar race a couple of months ago. She was in shape, but I don't think she was in as good a shape as you will be. She was not running the full distance before race day, for example. It was certainly the hardest thing she had ever done, physically. The course was laid out on and around a motocross track, so there were plenty of hills, but not the ungroomed trails Ol' Grimey talks about. Plenty of mud though, as it had been rained early the morning of the race. It also sounds… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:03 PM on May 23, 2011 marked best answer
Question about the ethical, logistical, and medical implication of having a cat neutered that doesn’t belong to you.
Even if he was neutered, I'm skeptical the aggression would go away at this point.
Yeah, setting aside the ethical and legal questions, I think the medical question is in enough doubt that it makes this plan not worth the trouble. Neutering adult male cats is not a reliable way to reduce aggressive tendencies. Heck, it doesn't always work in kittens.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:00 PM on May 23, 2011
“Cambridge is a city, not a highway!”
Very cool bit of hidden history, but why are the people so much bigger than the bulldozer? I guess that's why 695 never got built.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:10 AM on May 23, 2011
Things to do in Dallas when you are baby free for an evening
It sounds dreadfully mundane and suburban when I say it now, but I know when Ms. Steady and I had some baby-free time we loved going shopping. A leisurely stroll through the mall to browse the bookshops and try on clothes without the tiny pressure cooker that was our infant was divine. This has the added benefit that, if you find a decent mall, there is usually a passable grown-up style restaurant and movie theater attached, so you can squeeze those activities in as well, if you like.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:10 PM on May 22, 2011
RIP, Tom West
Without knowing you personally, Jessamyn, I knew just from the various times that your Dad's name had come up on MeFi that you had, as you say, a complex relationship with him. My first thought at hearing the news of his passing was that the passing of a parent with whom one has a complex relationship can be even more troublesome than usual, so I felt badly for you about that. My second thought was that you seem like exactly the kind of person who would be able to handle such a burden with grace… [more]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 3:37 PM on May 22, 2011
A PC building guide by an idiot
Do you need a sound card? If it is 1997: definitely.
Hah! Great stuff.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:19 AM on May 20, 2011
Early reading cards.
My daughter's fourth grade class is currently using them. If you wouldn't mind getting a modern set you could try a teachers' supply store.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:20 PM on May 19, 2011
Shit Someone's Dad Says?
What is all this? I'm just looking for www.usedcar.com.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 5:45 PM on May 18, 2011
Help me help my cat find her way home :(
When I was a kid, our cat got loose the day after we moved in to our new house, some 20 miles away from our old house. He was gone for almost two weeks. We assumed he was dead for sure. One day he just casually sauntered on to the porch. Our best theory as to what had happened was that he felt like he had to go back to the old house, found his way there, and then when he realized we were not there anymore, her turned around and came back.
Obviously, this doesn't happen… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 3:59 PM on May 18, 2011