For the love of Pete - it's a fucking sit-com. Does everything have to be over-analyzed on the internets?
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ANALYZING SOMETHING?
Sorry, photoslob, nothing personal, but I feel like I have seen so much of this "It's just an X, why are you thinking about it so much?" sentiment lately, especially during the whole Ferris Bueller Fight Club discussions. What is wrong with analyzing something?... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 9:30 PM on May 6, 2009
MetaFilter: In sum, the identity of a blog community is contingent on the goals and purposes of its founders. Its institutionalization depends on participants valuing its precepts and acting accordingly. In the case of blogs, because blogs are 'owned' by individuals (Herring et. al., 2005), they can define the contents and the dynamics they want for their blogs. Whether they become a community or not depends on whether the blog services an existent or latent community (Wenger, 1998). In this... [more] posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 2:19 PM on May 6, 2009
Though in fairness, far more potentially interested people would see it here than there.
This should not be what guides the way one posts or comments to MetaFilter.
thong v. bum-floss
Is "bum-floss" the actual accepted word for that style of underwear? Like that's the category title at Victoria's Secret Australia? Actually, I feel like Victoria's Secret would be called... [more] posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 8:04 AM on May 4, 2009
Is that a shrug?
It's the Pokemon known as Voidiov. It evolves into Shruggo with the Mod Stone. posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 8:22 AM on May 4, 2009
I used to work in an animal hospital and my wife is a vet tech with 15 years experience. I've never heard about any sort of risk with the rabies vaccine (other than normal vaccine reaction issues) and our three cats are all on the three year vaccine. Your vet probably wants to make sure you are coming into his office every year. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 4:01 PM on May 3, 2009
My wife has "baby thinking" when we watch sports together (God, that makes it sound like I'm about to erupt into a misogynistic screed here, but stay with me). She notices all kinds of things that are "not important" to the game -- action away from the ball, players' moods, the attitudes of coaches and players on the bench, crazy things fans are doing, etc. I think it is because she was not a huge sports fan growing up, and so she was not visually trained on sports the same... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:15 AM on May 2, 2009
Ask them to teach you some phrases in Spanish. I have a special place in my heart for a Malaysian guy we nicknamed "Juanito", because he learnt how to swear in Spanish in the right context (wrote them in his cellphone and everything).
Yes, yes, yes. I worked with a foul-mouthed puertorriqueño when I was in college, and I'd always ask him to translate his various curse words for me and our other coworkers. It was a lot of fun, especially... [more] posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 10:08 AM on April 30, 2009
Ubu, Cameron is so tight, if you stuck a lump of coal up his ass, in two weeks you would have a diamond. Sloan in her lacy underthings is about as porno as he gets. posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 8:43 PM on April 28, 2009
So here's my question about the Ferris Bueller Fight Club theory: What is Jeanie and how are we to understand her interactions with Ferris? posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 5:31 AM on April 29, 2009
So I've been watching the movie a bit this morning, and a big problem with the Ferris Bueller Fight Club theory is that both Ferris and Cameron seem to exist in the movie. Ben Stein calls both Bueller and Frye during roll, both interact with Sloane, both interact with people out in the world, etc. Cameron actually interacts less with people than Ferris, which leans more towards team lowkey's version, but Ferris is the only one who can break the fourth wall (he can do it undetected around others,... [more] posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 1:05 PM on April 29, 2009
*** Theory Refinement ***
Ferris Bueller is a very sick boy. He has a fatal disease, and he is going to die from it very shortly. Everyone at school knows about it, and his struggle to get well has garnered attention from the local paper and even the Chicago Cubs. His room is kept dark and quiet, but is littered with dozens of bottles of medicine, to keep his symptoms at bay.
In his mind, he has divided himself in two. In his mind, Ferris is just... [more] posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 2:27 PM on April 29, 2009
There has got to be some effect from reporting standards, no? Otherwise why would certain states be so different from their neighbors? I'm looking particularly at Kentucky and South Carolina, as opposite sides of the coin. posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 12:38 PM on April 27, 2009
The combined ratings were significantly lower -- more immoral -- when the survey was conducted in the presence of fart smell.
Looks like it was only a variance of .75 (on a 7 point scale), and showed no change for increased levels of smell, which presumably makes people more disgusted, no? I know that "significantly" has a very specialized and specific meaning when it comes to this kind... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 9:16 PM on April 26, 2009
This reminds me of Williams' and Nagel's idea of moral luck.
I have asked my cat what she thinks and she just went and curled up in the corner.
I agree with the folks who suggest chiming in with positive statements about the person, but let me also add my personal stance on gossip in general: Gossip is OK. We talk about people behind their backs. We all do. It's what we, as social apes, are best at. Sure, you don't want people spreading lies and badmouthing your friends, but it's OK to indulge in a little discussion about others' faults and foibles. They are probably talking about you, too.
ragtimepiano: What about honest commentary about the bad actions of an absent person?
From the question: "it seems a little needy, a little naive, to try to defend the friend: especially when that friend was apparently mean/ugly to someone at the table"
Again, I certainly don't countenance deliberate lies or slander, but if someone does me wrong, I certainly don't feel bad telling people I know about it, and I don't wait until that person is present. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 9:04 PM on April 26, 2009
If you have an honest, legitimate complaint, I wouldn't call that gossip.
Fair enough, then. I guess the definition I usually use for "gossip" is a discussion about a person who is not present. Gossip, to me, could include lies and truth, be positive or negative. Keep in mind, when dealing with human interactions, I have found that the line between "malicious, unsubstantiated talk" and "legitimate complaint" can veer... [more] posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 9:54 PM on April 26, 2009
Well, I think can detect about 1 ppm of cilantro (fresh coriander) in most foods, but I also think it tastes like soap, so... swings and roundabouts, I'm saying. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:28 PM on April 26, 2009
Could they have been drinking beer at Wrigley? I seem to remember them with clear cups full of amber fluid, but I can't find video of it. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:20 PM on April 26, 2009
That was great. I kept thinking, "I wish she would do a children's book -- I'd love to get it for my daughter." Then I read here little bio where it talks about her dozen children's books! posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:11 PM on April 26, 2009
A very low-cost option in Concord is the Merrimack Valley Day Care system. It is operates on a sliding scale, and provides care for even the youngest tykes. It is not high-end, but the people that work there are very dedicated and really love children. I can't find a website for them, but I bet they are in the phone book. Our daughter went to the facility at the old NH State Hospital grounds for a year or so, and we were very happy with it. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:23 AM on April 26, 2009
I wonder if there is a market for Vintage Inter Net. You'd have have a whole collection of sites that all used 20th Century hardware and software and agreed to only link to each other to keep the illusion complete. "What ho, chaps! Take a gander at the antics and japes of this comickal dancing banana-fruit I found at the Meta Filter!" posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 1:47 PM on April 25, 2009
Can you describe the style of burgers you are looking for, for non-Southerners? posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 1:34 PM on April 24, 2009
I don't have specific names for you in the Boston area, but it sounds like you are describing the kind of burger I have had at fried seafood shacks up and down the New England coast. On the Cape, places like Kream N Kone, Captain Frosty's and Spanky's are in that category. Probably the Saugus/Revere area is the best bet close to the city.
Spike's is also a good idea, but I've only ever had dogs there, myself. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 1:53 PM on April 24, 2009
This thought came to me literally in the middle of the night last night: What about greasy-spoon type diners? There are two in Somerville (the Rosebud and the Somerville) and I am sure others in the metro area. A cursory Google search suggests several right in the city, but I'm not sure how diner-y they are without further research. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 5:32 AM on April 25, 2009
jbickers, that is one of the funniest comment fables I have read in a long time. Well done. I'll buy you an Uneven Bars at the next meetup. posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 5:18 AM on April 24, 2009
I was England in EZ3 and was quite enjoying it until I was stabbed by Germany. I guess since the Kaiser won it was the right thing to do, but at the time it seemed awfully premature. I thought it wouldn't get him enough SCs to win, and would tighten the resolve of the remaining nations against him. Oh well.
With all of the original series of games (EZ1-3 and NORM1) ended and this thread getting close to closure, we really do need a new MeTa post to keep our momentum going. posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 5:13 AM on April 24, 2009
Damn you, Spiffy Rob! I thought I had everyone on board with the "Don't Mention Puzzle Pirates Unless You Want To Restart Rock Steady's Addiction" plan. posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 7:35 PM on April 21, 2009
I can't believe no one has mentioned Zen Shorts yet. Probably one of my favorite books of all time. Gorgeous art, wonderful characters, and a very powerful message. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:25 AM on April 21, 2009
Have you asked him what he wants to do? I don't mean that in a snarky way, but I'm just saying that it might be easier for you to help him along a path of his own choosing, rather than one that is forced on him. If he shows some interest, help grease the skids a little. Interested in community college? Fill out the application with him. Thinking about the military? Call a recruiter and set up an appointment, then drive him to it (based on family experience I'd suggest Air Force, actually). posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:08 PM on April 20, 2009
Ooh, robocop is bleeding's link led me to this related video, in which video closed-cell weatherstripping is used to silence the sticks instead of the pads. I may give that a try. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 3:41 PM on April 20, 2009
My wife the Veterinary Technician swears by the Littman Classic II SE. She prefers it a great deal to some much more expensive models she has tried.
To add a personal touch, you could order a little dog collar ID tag with your friend's name on it. Techs often attach them to their 'scopes so people don't walk off with them. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 11:49 AM on April 20, 2009
We don't have one in our new place, and I don't think we will be getting one. Even though cell reception is not perfect in our apartment, it's not worth the extra $40-50 per month for a landline. That said, you've got to consider your partner's feelings about it. Even if she knows it is not strictly necessary, she may want it for all sorts of reasons.
Why not try an experiment? Get her to agree to unplug the landline phones for a month (but keep the service active) and... [more] posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 6:41 AM on April 18, 2009
If you have some way of contacting the threatened individual (if the threat includes more than just a name or something), I would feel obliged to tell that person -- they may have additional information that they would want to contact the appropriate authorities about. posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 8:52 AM on April 17, 2009
And now it is time for some Final Thoughts. In life, when there are difficult decisions to be made, what is most helpful is a little clarity. Sometimes that clarity comes through careful planning and deliberations, sometimes through impulsive hunches that just "feel right." Most often, however, I find that clarity comes best from having a bunch of Internet strangers yell at you for a little while. The bottom line is that while Tasmanian Devils may be cute, and accents are sexy; visas... [more] posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steadyat 8:43 AM on April 17, 2009
...the company's lawyer, Stuart Slotnick..."Certainly, our belief is that after the various sex scandals that Woody Allen has been associated with, corporate America's desire to have Woody Allen endorse their product is not what he may believe it is."
Right. I know American Apparel has always tried to keep any sort of inappropriate sexual material out of its advertising. In fact, they try not to be associated with any sexual impropriety of any kind. Almost... [more] posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steadyat 5:41 PM on April 15, 2009