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Seven Misunderstandings About Classical Architecture
Lord Grantham would no doubt approve.
Thanks for the link. His writing is as clear and well-thought out as his architecture.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:45 AM on November 17, 2011
Marlin jumps shark something something
I like the "M" in the logo -- as others have said, it is new and different. The "abstract fish" jumping over it, however, is awful. I predict they drop it from the logo within two years.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:46 PM on November 16, 2011
Needs to be about 20% cooler.
I got it! Sunglasses on the fish. Boom.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:11 AM on November 17, 2011
Cat who hates nail trimmers
We use a combo of cone muzzle, scruff grabbing, and laying on side to clip our crazy cat's polydactyl claws. If you have a third accomplice, they can gently and repetitively tap the cat's head with a ballpoint pen. The annoying tapping kind of distracts them from the "horror" of the nail trim.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:13 PM on November 16, 2011
flaggy pony wants more flags
I really liked the suggestion in the other thread that the ! be turned into a little flag icon. I wonder how many casual users don't even know what people are talking about when they tell them to "Flag" something and have never bothered to click on the little exclamation point.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 5:59 PM on November 16, 2011
Take your time
Or we could remove commenting altogether.
Hmm. What about that? What if we allowed users to make FPPs and turn comments off? I'd suggest that any post that the poster designated as "Comments Off" would need to be approved by the mods (like Anonymous AskMes) and that it only be allowed for things that didn't really invite a conversations -- something like a great photographer's gallery, or a silly YouTube video. We'd still get the great link,… [more]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 10:23 AM on November 16, 2011
we're not likely to just try out massive new features without a compelling case for them.
I do understand the rationale behind that stance, but it's a shame, in my opinion. There's no way that something like AskMe (Too much work for the mods!) or MetaTalk (What if people start complaining about every deletion?!) would be added to the site today. I really love MetaFilter, but I wish there was a way we could be more experimental about what goes on here.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 2:07 PM on November 16, 2011
What should you call a priest when "Father" isn't an option?
It seems very selfish and disrespectful, to me, to not call someone by their preferred form of address. I suppose if you really want to take a stand about it, the polite thing to do would be to take him aside at some point and say, "I'm sorry, but because of my personal convictions, I am uncomfortable calling you Father John. Is there something else I could call you that would be OK?"
If someone else at work asked to be called by a silly nickname (Chip, or… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:01 PM on November 15, 2011
To everyone saying that the Asker should ask the priest what he would prefer to be called: She already knows what he prefers to be called as "Most people refer to him as Father (firstname). I suppose it's possible he harbors a secret desire for everyone to call him "Spanky" and the fact that they all call him Father John makes him sad, but it seems unlikely. Even if she asks him what he wants to be called, it seems clear that he would say "Father (firstname)", so this… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:21 AM on November 16, 2011
There is such a thing as *too* user friendly...
Apple Stores offer workshops in Getting Started with iPad, iPhone, and iPod touch. Maybe point her towards the professionals and let them deal with it?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:05 AM on November 16, 2011
49ers-least talked about comeback story?
I always enjoyed Mike Singletary, but I guess this is pretty strong evidence that he did not know what he was doing out there, right? I mean, it's essentially the same team and they are now getting better results than the "borderline playoff team" performance people had been expecting to see from them for several years now.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:22 PM on November 15, 2011
This is my first year playing fantasy football, and I've got to say, it is great. It doesn't detract from your regular football fan experience, it just adds a little layer of spice on top of it. How else could I have a burning hatred of DeAngelo Williams and an inordinate love of DeMarco Murray?
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:58 PM on November 15, 2011
Estimating Tax Payment/Refund
I don't know about your specific case, but I know when I was on unemployment and did not have taxes taken out it ended up biting me in the ass at tax time.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 2:11 PM on November 15, 2011
I've always had fun with these "survival" type tasks, where you are made part of a group that must choose, from a list, a limited number of items to take with you on a deserted island/lifeboat/bomb shelter/moonbase.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:10 PM on November 15, 2011
Help me keep my anxiety about sex from destroying my relationship, or: Want sex now help.
I want him to joke back or even accept when I light-heartedly suggest we have sex in a dressing room instead of scoffing and closing the door in my face.
This is sad. The whole thing is sad, really. I'm with crabintheocean on this. For whatever reason (jobs, ages, issues, whatevers) you two are sexually incompatible. Can you find some kind of compromise in which you will both understand and appreciate the other's attitudes and feelings and have some… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:53 PM on November 14, 2011
Regarding opening the relationship: It's something we've talked about, and I know it's something he's interested in. I worry that it's part of why our sex life is lacking, because he just fundamentally needs outside stimulation, but at this point my self-esteem and insecurity can't handle it.
Um, I think people are talking about opening up your relationship for your benefit, so you can get your freak on while he is deboning his… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:05 PM on November 15, 2011
I want to make a proper English breakfast.
Fellow American advice here:
1. The Bacon. You really can't get the bacon right. Even if you could find the right cut, you would probably cook it too long. I would just substitute in whatever your favorite bacon is and that will allow the FEB to hit all the "bacon notes" in your palate that it needs to hit. I wouldn't plan on serving it to the Queen like that, but for personal exploration it will suffice.
2. Avoid Black Pudding.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:14 PM on November 14, 2011
I've always found cooking the full (for me "Scottish") breakfast one of the most stressful meals to prepare. I think its trying to get everything together at the same time
Yes, exactly. I do a mighty fine breakfast, by all accounts, and it a real art to get everything to finish up at the same time, especially if you are serving a number of people. Breakfast foods typically go from "Inedible" to "Perfect" to… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:25 PM on November 14, 2011
We don't have a Publix in my area
I know that both Harris Teeter and Kroger have a British food section, and I think Food Lion does as well. Not sure what you have near you, but if your supermarket has an aisle for Latino and/or Asian foods, check there for a small British section. You could easily miss it if you are not looking for it, so even if you think your supermarket doesn't have one, check again next time you go.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:10 PM on November 14, 2011
"...all I could think was wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, and most wonderful and yet again, wonderful"
The aurora. My God, the aurora. Thanks for posting this.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:24 PM on November 13, 2011
Regret, turned down job offer, Will the hiring manager consider me for future openings?
It is much better this way. You have shown them maturity and responsibility. If you had taken the job, you would not have done a good job, and maybe would not have been considered a candidate for promotion or pay raises.
I once turned down a job offer from a company I very badly wanted to work for (it was a 20 hour per week position, but I really needed 40). It was very hard to say "No thank you," but a few months later I applied for and got a much better… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 4:36 AM on November 12, 2011
Can I make a sexy video and keep my job?
Keep in mind, there is nothing to stop him from adding titles to the video saying "Here's a sexy video of my girlfriend, Anonymous!"
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:38 PM on November 11, 2011
Am I over reacting about my wife's job?
4 or 5 times a year is not a sufficient number of times to get worked up over. Do her the courtesy of allowing her to be the judge of her own safety. If she feels the need for armed backup (!), she will ask you to come with her. If she arrives on scene and there is a dangerous situation, she can stay in her car and call the police.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:20 AM on November 11, 2011
I think the healthiest thing I can do now is to just continue to accompany her to the occasional late night alarm incidents, and let her do her thing without making her feel like shit or pouting.
Absolutely. The thing is, even if these calls don't bother her, or maybe they bother her a teeny bit, but not enough to worry about, if you continue to make them an issue, they will eventually begin to bother her,… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:53 PM on November 11, 2011
Historic homes and house museums often are available for very reasonable rates. Here's a list of house museums in Washington, but I'd check with your local historic society or library, as they are often under-represented on the Web.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 11:52 AM on November 11, 2011
A chip off the old... dirt?
I ask for clamor for photos!
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 7:20 AM on November 11, 2011
I don't really know what that is, though.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 7:20 AM on November 11, 2011
Oh, and congratulations, indeed!
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 7:25 AM on November 11, 2011
A rose by any other name
Ms. Steady has taken to wearing Reb'l Fleur, and I really really like it. It is very warm and spicy, musky without being skunky, flowery without being floral and vanilla-y without smelling like cookies. She is constantly getting asked about it whenever she wears it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:03 PM on November 10, 2011
How to learn historic rehabilitation?
There are ways to formally train yourself in this specialty of the building trades, but I don't think even a couple of years of classes is going to teach you nearly as much as you will need.
As a former Historic Preservation professional with a MS in Historic Preservation I would say that going to school for Preservation (with a focus on hands-on rehab and preservation, as opposed to focusing on governmental regulation or preservation economics, say)… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:52 AM on November 10, 2011
I want my husband to want me.
This is very very sad. Have you told him that this is a problem for you? You need to initiate a conversation about your wants and needs in this department to see if he is willing to work with you. Please don't do anything self-destructive. If he is a guy worth your desire, he will be eager to help you get what you need.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:41 PM on November 9, 2011
Holiday Gift Drive 2011
I just bought a badass "Spy Mission Action Kit" for some little James/Jane Bond. The review sealed the deal:
My nephew absolutely loved it, however the 2 way little dart gun, is NOT for younger children, the darts are super fast and hard! otherwise he loved it!
Super fast and hard is just how I like my Christmasses to be!
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 12:04 PM on November 9, 2011
Is it okay to wear white dress socks?
(1) They should match your pants, so that the view from pant to shoe is seamless.
Ye gods, no. That is a deeply weird look with beige/tan/khaki pants. Match the shoes or don't match either (but go with both).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:01 AM on November 9, 2011
I'm from Metafilter, and I'm here to help.
If ever a MeFite should become lost or hurt on the Superior Hiking Trail...
I got the path around Shelley Lake in Raleigh covered.
I got Cape Lookout National Seashore covered.
I got the general area between my computer and my PS3 covered. If anyone needs assistance turning the lights on in my den, or figuring out where the extra Dualshock 3s are (the right hand drawer), I am ON IT.
Great fucking job, ottereroticist and others.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 8:55 AM on November 9, 2011
RIP Nancy Haughey (1946-2011)
Wishing you strength and happy memories, Matt.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 8:50 AM on November 9, 2011
This is great, but it really should have been named fred.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 7:03 AM on November 9, 2011
The McRib needs only hogs, pickles, onions and a vocal enough minority
Square pieces, with those tiny little sausage balls that look like rat turds.
They were rectangular!
Nope, they were breadtangular.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:00 PM on November 8, 2011
Beyond "Total Noise"
I'm with yoink here. It's a pretty solid list, with the exception of the BEPs and the Ugg. As far as music goes, I don't think you could ever have a consensus choice (though "Hey Ya" would have come closest, maybe) as it is the category in the list that is the most divisive. Even so, choosing "I Got A Feeling" was a bad choice, and leaves a bad taste that taints the whole list. The Ugg, though? I must admit, I really don't understand the backlash against the Ugg. I mean, sure… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:36 PM on November 7, 2011
Just because 80 years later Americans decided to wear them as shoes doesn't make them fashion.
That's like saying jeans aren't fashion because miners were wearing them in the 1840s or whatever. The origin of a piece of clothing has nothing to do with its status in the world of fashion.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:45 PM on November 7, 2011
OK, here's my list of "Classics of 2000s", being the things that culture will remember and reference going forward, not necessarily the best of the decade.
TV: The Sopranos (started in '99, so if we are being strict about dates I'll go with The Wire).
Song: "Hey Ya," Outkast
Album: Kid A, Radiohead
Movie: Brokeback… [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 11:10 AM on November 8, 2011
What do we charge a visiting Japanese family to home-school their child?
Like KokuRyu, I'd look at it as starting from an hourly rate -- what would you feel comfortable charging per hour for instruction? I'd also agree that something in the $20-$30 per hour range sounds about right.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:50 PM on November 7, 2011 marked best answer
$200 a week is nuts. Absolutely nuts for offering immersive, one-on-one instruction, plus lunch, plus after-school supervision, plus transportation.
Yeah, we have a babysitter for when our 10-year-old is out of school and she charges $35/day (so $175/week) to watch while my daughter hangs out with her similar aged daughter. For an actual education for a 6-year-old you should be charging much more.
Something else to… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:00 AM on November 8, 2011
What are your favourite leftovers?
As we head into the Thanksgiving season, I feel we have to mention the fact that the full spread of turkey dinner (turkey, stuffing, mashed potato and cranberry sauce) makes a KILLER Black Friday sandwich.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:51 PM on November 7, 2011
Yeah, tumid dahlia is right. Pizza is good cold, but it's not better.
Also if you think "I'll save this half an onion" then there's something wrong with you, either use the whole onion or buy a smaller onion next time or just don't have onion at all. Fridge onion is the worst.
Oh my yes. My wife does this constantly and I always find 3 or 4 manky half-onions in the fridge when I clean it out. They're not that expensive! Buy another one!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 9:56 PM on November 7, 2011
Need help with the Google+ M.F. Taters account
Google+ is now available for Apps users, by the way. This is me. I'd love to add all of you people, so empath's idea is a very good one.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 11:22 AM on November 7, 2011
Cannot remove deleted threads from recent activity.
That's when i saw a thread being deleted
I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack trolls flaming out off the shoulder of MetaTalk. I saw threads being deleted near the Mathowser Gate. All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain. Time to ban.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 6:59 AM on November 7, 2011
Andy Rooney passed away at the age of 92
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:36 AM on November 5, 2011
Time for some new reading material.
"They are made out of meat."
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 10:11 PM on November 4, 2011
Move an iPhone 4 from AT&T to Tmobile?
Once you leave AT&T you will no longer have their unlimited data. You will have whatever data plan you sign up for with your new provider. You will not be eligible for unlimited data from AT&T in the future, as the unlimited data is only available to customers who were grandfathered in, and is not available on new plans.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:22 PM on November 4, 2011 marked best answer
Take a bite out of biting
Problem: jumping on the counters to steal food
Cause: feeding her off the table
Problem: She bites pretty viciously
Cause: playing rough
If you want those problems to stop, the first thing you have to do is eliminate those causes. No way around it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:05 PM on November 4, 2011