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I feel unable to participate in a normal, healthy dating relationship.
assenav: "Normal" is such a relative term in relationships, and what is acceptable to one person (how much time to spend together, when to meet outside friends and family, and, yes, how much flirtation/touching/interaction with others is tolerated) may not be to someone else. What is normal and healthy, though, is for you to expect to be on the same page as your partner about these things.
This is exactly right. There is nothing wrong with... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:49 AM on August 1, 2014
Are you a horrible person, or only pretending to be a horrible person?
MeanwhileBackAtTheRanch: And what if I have actually already checked my privilege, considered it carefully, and decided that, specifically only in this context, everybody still needs to lighten the fuck up?
Then you are hereby allowed to think that. Not everyone has to agree with you.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:48 PM on July 31, 2014
phunniemee, did CAH kill your parents in an alley when you were a child or something?
Cards Against Batmanity.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 12:55 PM on July 31, 2014
Fanfare Posting Etiquette
Westringia F.: Something repurposing the IRL system, maybe, with proposed watches and scheduled ones?
This is a great idea, says me who doesn't have any idea of how terrible and horrible an idea it may or may not be from a pb-shaped perspective.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:15 AM on July 31, 2014
pb: So I'm not sure we need anything more than what we have now for that kind of idea.
I just think it would be so much easier to understand with a simple date-ordered list like in IRL. Makes sense to give it a few weeks to see how everything shakes out though.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 10:49 AM on July 31, 2014
Bless my buttons! Wired (via book excerpt) has cited MF re: sockpuppets!
Another more recent MeFi example.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 2:10 PM on July 30, 2014
Allowing non-posters to add tags
I know MeFi is almost deathly allergic to the idea of setting up different "levels" of users, but the backtagging effort was a huge success, with little to no abuse, as far as I know. Would it be possible to have users volunteer for "tagger" status, which could be revoked at any time? I envision it working like the backtagging project, where volunteers would be presented with random posts to tag, rather than tagging any post they come across, which should eliminate just about... [more]
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:34 AM on July 29, 2014
I use tags as bookmarks.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 2:06 PM on July 30, 2014
Metafilter Fantasy Football Challenge 2014/2015
Rock Steady City FC is in. We managed to avoid relegation last year with a 17th place finish, and we are aiming for single digits this year. Actually knowing how to use my transfers should help.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 7:03 PM on July 29, 2014
not_too_xabi is killing me as a team name.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 7:04 PM on July 29, 2014
Someone take the keys to the boot room away from me. I can't stop this Klinsmannian tinkering with my team. I think I've been through a dozen starting XIs in the past week.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 5:27 AM on July 30, 2014
OK, since josher71 broke the ice for talking about players, what are people's thoughts on the Liverpool forwards sans Suarez? I'm feeling that Lambert at 7.5 is a vastly better deal than Sturridge at 11.5. Do you agree Y/N?
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 8:31 AM on July 30, 2014
josher71: Do you think Sturridge and Lambert will partner like SAS?
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 11:00 AM on July 30, 2014
Yeah, I've got to stick to starters as I don't follow the League closely enough during the week to know who is or is not likely to get on the roster. Sorry Rickie!
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 11:49 AM on July 30, 2014
The threads that never end...
The awesome "It Was A Great Year (For Movies With Robots)" just came up in my shuffled playlist, so yeah, MeFiMu is pretty great.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:18 AM on July 30, 2014
Also, it's possible there are MeFites that have never heard this amazing [NSFW] track that celebrates it's 6th anniversary (!) on Friday. NSFW because lyrics and because you will be laughing and krumping so hard you will embarrass yourself.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:20 AM on July 30, 2014
dismas: this means that every year you can discuss the merits of the version of Jingle Bell Rock that only features the words Jingle, Bell and Rock. And jock ringle, I guess.
One of the attendees at our recent Meetup (Maecenas?) said that their introduction to MetaFilter was through a link to that song. I love that idea.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 10:47 AM on July 30, 2014
I believe there is a chapter all about this in the excellent Daring Book For Girls by MeFi's Own mothershock.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:45 AM on July 30, 2014
Arrested Development: Beef Consomme
If I could I would watch a 24/7 feed of Tony Hale as Buster just going about his day. He just inhabits the character so completely and every interaction with the outside world is fascinating in a different way.
posted to FanFare by Rock Steady at 5:58 AM on July 30, 2014
Can you give me examples of open ended pet adoption questions?
In all situations, I like to ask people about their worst experiences, as it shows both what they consider to be a problem, and also how they deal with it. In this case, I might ask them about the worst pet-related disaster they've ever had, or maybe if they've never had pets ask them what the worst thing they could imagine happening with this pet would be. If you get a sense of what they consider problematic, you can steer them away from animals that might be more prone to that kind of problem.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:48 AM on July 30, 2014 marked best answer
Navicular! Strobilaceous! Pandurate! Botryoidal!
A football (American variant) is often referred to poetically as a prolate spheroid, but that's really not accurate, as a football is too "pointy" on the ends. I don't think there really is a word for the shape other than "football-shaped".
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:08 PM on July 29, 2014
Thing: The great thing about most of these words is that you can make them up as you go along. Just nick a word from a Latin dictionary and stick [something] on the end. If you screw it up nobody will ever know.
You just invented Romance languages!
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:52 PM on July 29, 2014
Adventure Time: Thanks For The Crabapples, Giuseppe
Yeah, the Ice Crown transformation (both to and from) is very gradual.
posted to FanFare by Rock Steady at 1:49 PM on July 29, 2014
Obamacare when switching jobs?
In the pre-Obamacare world, you could do a thing where you sign up for COBRA at the last possible minute and then delay paying your premiums until the last possible minute, and you could negotiate a situation where you were in a Schroedinger's state of insurance for three months. If you had no healthcare needs in that time, you can just call to cancel the coverage and owe nothing, but if something went wrong, you could just pay the premiums after the fact and be covered.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 11:44 AM on July 29, 2014
Prepare for a significant decline in gang activity.
This is great and good.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:27 AM on July 29, 2014
rocket88: I like this, but "giant" should be reserved for much larger scale.
I'm envisioning an orbital-scale spirograph using interlocking ringworlds.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:52 AM on July 29, 2014
Continuous photo backup on iPhone?
I keep thinking I should drop a couple of bucks on PhotoSync, as it seems to be a very good tool for this kind of thing, but I can't really endorse it as I haven't tried it yet.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:20 AM on July 29, 2014
"Shiny Happy Voters"
For a while when they were transitioning from longboxes to bare jewel cases, they used to put jewel cases into these plastic exoskeletons to make them the same size as a longbox. It was a weird time.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 11:16 AM on July 28, 2014
Comatose Potato Salad
I generally signal that I am done by crumpling my burger wrapper, sticking it in the empty fry box, and throwing the whole thing on the backseat floorboard.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:36 AM on July 28, 2014
feckless fecal fear mongering: That's just poor FOH & expo management.
Working in food service is a blessing and a curse because on one hand, it makes you more sympathetic to servers and how hard their job can be, but on the other hand, it makes you realize how crappy the average server is at their job.
feckless fecal fear mongering: Auctioning off the plates at tableside is rookie, rookie incompetence.... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 10:39 AM on July 28, 2014
What it says on the tin
gadge emeritus: Tears aren't a sign of weakness. Own them.
Hmm, I've always thought that "joke" was more a self-deprecating knock about not being in touch with your own emotions. Like, if water is leaking from my eyes it must be dusty in here, because you have been moved to tears so unexpectedly you don't realize it, or something. I can see it as a macho thing, now that you mention it.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 6:33 AM on July 28, 2014
Havin' a ball
They practice by playing a one-on-one game made up of shooting difficult shots from different parts of the arena. If you missed the shot, you are given one letter of a five letter word, and the first person to spell the whole word loses. This game is called HUMAN.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:19 AM on July 26, 2014
Flag Flags and Furl On
The Whelk: I hereby want a vote on which murderous weapon-wielding animal should grace the great seal of New York State.
Rat King with a tazer.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 11:16 AM on July 25, 2014
Inventor of the high five
grubi: Nearly every episode of a TV show with teenaged characters, 1970-1985 had someone slapping five.
 Show us one from before 1977 if you are so sure.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:46 AM on July 25, 2014
grubi: You have never seen a low five between teenaged characters on TV before 1977?
Low five is totally different from a high five.
stbalbach: * The Wild One, a 1953 movie starring Marlon Brando, contains sequence of two person ritual gestures between members of the Black Rebels Motorcycle Club in a scene about 23 minutes in. This sequence starts with a very clear high five between the lines "Pop me daddy!"... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:37 AM on July 25, 2014
Thanks for sharing that, tallthinone.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 10:53 AM on July 25, 2014
Yes, let's transition from JulyByWomen to PostsByWomen!
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 9:10 AM on July 25, 2014
Prove your music nerd cred
It was striking to me the number of 90s songs where I couldn't pull the title out of my memory, but I knew the song well enough that I could sing it until I came across the title in the lyrics.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:56 AM on July 25, 2014
Kids flying from the US to the UK with an adult who isn't their parent
effbot: It's not just the nanny that needs documentation, the dad should also bring a note from the mother saying that he has her permission to bring the kids out of the country.
Yeah, when I traveled with my daughter but not her mother (my wife) from the US to the UK it was recommended that I have a notarized letter to that effect. Certainly couldn't hurt for the nanny to have one signed by both parents. I'm not sure what the UK equivalent of... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:36 AM on July 25, 2014
The truth is stranger than fiction
So many levels. A fascinating story about the improbable solving of a cold case by examining a brutal fictional account of a heinous crime. Thanks for posting.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:50 AM on July 25, 2014
Movie: Sleepaway Camp (1983)
Hoopo: You may be right, but then I also sorta remember dudes dressing like that in the 80s. Short shorts and belly shirts and stuff. Did I mention I am glad the 80s are over?
Yes. I grew up in the 80s and definitely had short shorts (those were all you could get, to be fair), half shirts (no excuse, really) and a Def Leppard legionnaire's cap for some reason (I did not like Def Leppard). It was a confusing time to be a dude wearing clothes.... [more]
posted to FanFare by Rock Steady at 2:15 PM on July 24, 2014
How the burrito became a sandwich
Two of my favorite AskMes:
Is cereal soup?
Is quiche pie?
And tangentially related:
How much is a deviled egg?
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 5:42 AM on July 23, 2014
1. Food made of several parts
2. including some kind of outer "wrapper" and a filling
3. intended to be eaten without cutlery
4. and not generally requiring washing one's self afterwards
I would add
2a. that are not cooked once assembled
This rules out pizza and pies and empanada-type things, which I am happy with, but rules out... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:01 AM on July 23, 2014
Back to the sandwich board.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:09 AM on July 23, 2014
As the best maker of grilled cheese sandwiches of my generation, I am embarrassed I neglected to consider them.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 6:12 AM on July 23, 2014
mr. digits: I don't know... all he specifies is "pre-cooked exteriors", and sometimes things are funny. Loons have solid bones and they're still birds, no?
There are going to be edge cases. Maybe you could add a "larger than bite-size" requirement to eliminate sandwich cookies and crackers. I really don't like having ice cream sandwiches in there, but I guess just as there are "dessert soups" within the category of soup,... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 7:01 AM on July 23, 2014
kyrademon: When asked to define a cat, you might think of things like four legs, tail, characteristic ear shape, etc. But then, when presented with a three-legged, tailless cat with ragged ears, you still instantly recognize it as a cat. How can this be?
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 1:25 PM on July 23, 2014
I think you mean a chicken vandwich.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 8:29 AM on July 24, 2014
If You Use IFTTT Then Consider Sharing Recipes
This is convenient. I have been meaning to ask an IFTTT question on AskMe for a while now.
Is it possible through IFTTT recipes to have photos taken on an iPhone uploaded to a Mac's iPhoto library automatically? It's fine if it has to do it through some sort of DropBox/Google Drive type situation. Ideally it would:
1. Only upload on WiFi
2. Only upload photos taken with the camera, not saved images or screenshots.
posted to MetaTalk by Rock Steady at 8:00 AM on July 24, 2014
You could not have an entry in the drinking game about "they make a weather-related pun about the contestant who is a weatherman" because alcohol poisoning.
posted to MetaFilter by Rock Steady at 10:48 AM on July 23, 2014