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Ask comment: "My SO sits at a desk where the previous occupant was ordained in the ULC. He hung his Dudism Ordination (from the Church of the Latter-Day Dude) certificate next to the ULC certificate...." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Korou
4 days ago

Ask comment: "One of the interview rating factors at a former employer was, "Is this person interested in a job or a career with us?" It sounds like you are more interested in the latter, the people that will live and breathe your work. That can..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by missmagenta
5 days ago

Ask comment: "It would probably go a special account most banks have designated for such a thing. I think it's called the "ChatFilter Savings Account" - the interest rate is not great. Regardless, a winner would have to be stupid to do that because..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by GPF
10 days ago

Ask comment: "You don't have to buy them anything off the registry. And I am seconding everyone above me with the whole "But you must register!!" issue. All I got were questions asking me if I had registered and where and why didn't I register at..." [more]
favorited 5 times, recently by onlyconnect, DevilsAdvocate, jeanmari, desjardins, twiki
Last month

Ask comment: "These other posts may be helpful. You may want to consider You Need a Budget. They have an Excel-based version (not the "Pro" one) that does pretty much what you're looking to do (except category is more "type" and tag is..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by nulledge
Last month

Ask post: Clothing/fashion analysis websites?
favorited 29 times, recently by Herman Hermanson, KB.Boston_implant.By way of NY, Uncle Glendinning, mathlete, somanyamys, vewystwange, Teh Bean, mittenedsex, hot soup girl, safetyfork, cass, divabat, Melinika, amyms, scission, Foam Pants, vincentv, sculpin, Jart, IndigoRain, Squeak Attack, yohko, olinerd, schroedinger, re.becca, |n$eCur3, foxydot, peacheater, libraryhead
Last month

Ask comment: "Is love enough to avoid these hurtles? This should really be "Is love enough to overcome these hurdles?" For what it's worth, all these problems are what you think. Not what he thinks. You haven't indicated that he also agrees this is..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by blueberry, chicainthecity
Last month

Ask comment: "In some places people close the gap so that others don't slide in and get in front of them. I usually assume it's a "me first" thing. Sometimes you'll notice people specifically speeding up to close the distance and block others out..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by thebrokedown, mumeishi
Last month

Ask comment: "I say something about how I am at the age where my metabolism is starting to slow and my luck won't last forever. I don't have to "return" anything, plus it's like commiserating and tends to not make people feel bad. FWIW, I know..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Jenesta
Last month

Ask comment: "I had that role in the in-house agency for a large organization and didn't really like it. It was like I had all of the responsibility and none of the power. Often my recommendations to clients were ignored and when things went wrong I took the..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by KokuRyu, anthropoid
Last month

Ask comment: "Here's my two cents as a bride planning a wedding. Most of the stuff is not all that out of line. I mean, I've paid over $1500 to go to at least 4-5 weddings in the past three years that I was not even in. So in terms of transportation, hotel, etc..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by oaf
Last month

Ask comment: "Not an artist, though have had many experiences with them. Mostly graphic designers though other types as well. I would say the biggest thing is to learn people skills - which is not exactly in the curriculum. Learn how to interact and deal with..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by anthropoid
Last month

Ask comment: "Recently I've read that a good way to approach this is to back off, but if/when she complains, ask her how she feels and encourage her to really think about the issues, without giving your own commentary. That is, don't tell her she's making a..." [more]
favorited 4 times, recently by salvia, scody, lunasol, Jurate
2 months ago

Ask comment: "Fairway is like no other market. Seriously. It's like an actual super-market. But it's a schlep to the two locations around there from where you are. It is good for a serious first-stock-of-the-kitchen run, as they have pretty much everything you..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Zambrano
2 months ago

Ask comment: "but it would be nice of you to do it in such a way that your folks don't feel ripped off by the fact that they paid for you to get an education posted by konolia at 9:11 PM on June 29 This is a really good point. Chances are, your parents paid a..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by ifjuly
2 months ago

Ask comment: "I'll bite, even though I flagged you. One of the strangest things to first learn is that jobs change. The people, the culture, the work itself. Nothing stays as it was. It sounds like you're having a hard time reconciling what was once a great..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Korou
2 months ago

Ask comment: "It's what babies do. The parents are likely freaked out enough by the whole thing and your complaint won't really help matters. You could make a friendly comment about the new baby, to let them know (kindly) that you can hear (i.e...." [more]
favorited 7 times, recently by chronic sublime, p8r1ck, headspace, tastybrains, Viomeda, tracicle, jferg
4 months ago

Ask comment: "I've found that clean sheets always make my bed feel like a hotel bed. I know there are obviously other specifications regarding sheets, mattresses, etc, but I think the clean, crisp sheet has a lot to do with it. You can buy bedding supplies..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Melismata
5 months ago

Ask comment: "I was never a big fan of violent entertainment, but I react much more strongly to it since I served on a jury for a murder trial. So now I just don't consume it. Seriously. I know that I get upset or that it gives me nightmares or that it..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by desjardins
6 months ago

Ask comment: "What I've found: I love the job where I really like the people and the work. I hate the job where I really like the people and hate the work, but I stay and am relatively happy because I like the people. I tolerate the job where I'm not that..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Xere
6 months ago

Ask comment: "Apologies for not answering the question asked, but just talk to your landlord. I'm sure s/he would much rather wait an extra day or two than have your check bounce (not sure about your landlord, but when I deposit checks that bounce, I end up..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Rock Steady
7 months ago

Ask comment: "I'm also that girl who is crazy stressed and never has time to catch up with friends. And yes, work is a legitimate excuse. Sometimes I have to stay late unexpectedly, and most times I am so worn out by the time the end of the day rolls around, the..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by salvia
7 months ago

Ask post: Recommendations for places to try on wedding dresses in NYC.
favorited 2 times, recently by kathryn, mkultra
7 months ago

Ask comment: "I have and love the Insignia Pilot. It has line-in recording and 8gigs plus a SD slot for expansion. You just plug it in and it shows up as an external hard drive. The audio quality might not be the best, which may be a concern for you. My..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by the dief
8 months ago

Ask comment: "I think it's a bad sign, but agree with the others to talk to her first. There had better be a really good reason. I'm of the opinion that your SO should be the one person you can count on, maybe it's all that "for..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by tayknight
8 months ago

Ask comment: "- Budgeting. I live by You Need a Budget. - A lot of the stuff you think you need? Guess what, you don't really need it. - Put a set amount into savings each month via direct deposit or auto transfer. You can also do this for any additional long..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by zippity, nitsuj
11 months ago

Ask comment: "Do not do option D. I know the situation seems sort of overwhelming and romantic and lends itself to that (two men! whatever shall I do?!), but in reality, it eats you up inside and makes your friends want to run whenever they see you on the caller..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by klangklangston
Last year

Ask comment: "You are human and you have flaws. Everyone around you is also human. They also have flaws. Some flaws may be bigger (or bigger dealbreakers) than others, but no one is perfect. No one will ever live up to your ideal of perfection - so tossing..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by scody
Last year

MeTa comment: "Wouldn't it be nice and all internet-like if you could actually click on one of those Top 10 items and go to the site?" [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Gary
Last year

Ask comment: "I feel like she was not the person I thought she was. I also find myself thinking about whether she's out having sex with all these guys. It sounds like maybe you're having a hard time reconciling the person she's become with the person you knew...." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by reenum
Last year

Ask comment: "I used Acronis True Image when my old laptop's hard drive was failing. I copied everything onto an external and it completely replicated on the hard drive of the new laptop. I don't think it will tell you what files, if any, are corrupt though...." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by nooneyouknow
Last year

Ask comment: "You broke up last week, so of course she still had strong feelings for you as of a few days ago. That could change by the time she gets to campus or a few weeks into the school year. I think you should just be the bigger person. Be strong, don't..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by willpie
Last year

Ask comment: "From your post it sounds like this is a one-sided thing. You've recognized that you have a crush and have pulled away without his involvement (i.e. nothing has happened and he doesn't know, hence his confusion). Dropping someone cold turkey like..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Laura in Canada
Last year

Ask comment: "Here's my experience in this area - we're still shopping so it's up-to-the-minute. We have a lot of the societal THE RING pressure, coupled with some of the points made in the Slate article. Once we talked about it, tensions dissipated. I was..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by anildash, mostlymartha
Last year

Ask comment: "(Full disclosure: I am in a part-time classroom-based MBA program at an AACSB-accredited school in the US. I grew up on a university campus and still spend a lot of time on one with school, etc, which probably influences this response.) I see..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by AceRock, Funmonkey1
Last year

Ask comment: "I'm going to have to disagree with messylissa also, and I received both my undergraduate and graduate degrees from private institutions. I knew very few people that paid sticker price for their education, and the ones that did had significant help..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by scody
Last year

Ask comment: "Are you sure they're not joking? Reading that makes me think they're trying to be funny. I've been on the A&B side of that before - we never did anything quite so atrocious, but we were concerned about a friend and wanted to let her know...." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by Skorgu
Last year

Ask comment: "explain in your cover letter that you are in the process of completing your degree and have XYZ semesters remaining but that you are looking for full-time employment. posted by ml98tu at 8:21 PM PST on May 1 I would not do this. For many jobs,..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by dr_dank
Last year

Ask comment: "I had an ex-boyfriend disclose homosexual experiences to me. At the time, I sort of shrugged and was like, "uh, okay." And that was that. Like you, I thought I was going to marry him at some point, FWIW, though the marriage discussions..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by limeonaire
Last year

Ask comment: "- Don't ever ignore her (this includes the "walking away" upthread) and don't be apathetic. - Be an involved, interested partner. - Small everyday gestures are more valuable than sweeping declarations. - Massages are straight from..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by ifjuly
Last year

Ask comment: "The short answer: I would suggest that you stay with your current wife, but would also suggest talking to someone professional about the urge to "quit and start over." I would also suggest seeing a couples counselor to try and undo the..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by scody
Last year

Ask comment: "Argument for Classroom Program: I'm a nighttime student in a classroom-based program and my professors are very understanding of the fact that work comes first. Plus, since each class only meets once a week, that's really only one night *at risk*..." [more]
favorited 2 times, recently by wilde, zaphod
Last year

Ask comment: "We've both decided to break up so we are able to make the best of our situations, my senior year, his year abroad. We've accepted the fact that we may fool around with other people, that is understandable. You don't have to break up to make the..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by coreb
Last year

Ask comment: "I think I almost wrote as much as you. But here goes. Your future is not gone as you indicate it might be. The worst thing this girl did: tried too hard to keep you happy at her own expense. ...because she is the type of person who lives to..." [more]
favorited 5 times, recently by moss, scody, baho, pzarquon, k8t
Two years ago

Ask comment: "I'd say its the adapting to being "on" for 7-8 hours a day. There's a lot of down time in college, from walking to class, hanging out with friends, etc. My first full time job, I used to come home and pass out at 7:00 at least two days a..." [more]
favorited 1 time, recently by timetoevolve
Two years ago