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are those handful of people who live there and who "liked" the shows on Facebook really a significant enough measure to give any color to that area, one as large as any city? I was wondering that about Vermont, a state with the… [more]
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MeFi comment - Last month

Not a film but totally worth it if you like this sort of thing: Orphan Black (because it's a roller coaster of "Who the hell am I??"). There's an Identity Amnesia category in TV Tropes which also suggests Dark City and Robocop (of the ones… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - Last month

[comment removed - if you've got a factual point to make, it's better without the personal attacks] [more]
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MeFi comment - Last month

Vermont has *fourteen* counties! Thirteen and mine! (yes, noted, thank you!) [more]
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MeFi comment - Last month

Direct link to some context. [more]
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[reminder: edit window is for typos. Please don't edit your comments for content. Add a second comment if you have to add more content. Thanks.] [more]
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MeFi comment - Last month

I am very very ask-y and my feeling is that once opened you are welcome to partake or not. Not everyone is following the same rule book w/r/t gift-giving culture. If someone brings a food/drink gift to my event I will often but not always open it and… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - Last month

This is me. I will not wear anything that requires pins. It needs to be one hair doinker, one barrette or one clip. I sidebraid my hair a lot and wear it with a scarf if I am feeling dressy-ish. I did make a whole YouTube playlist of how to make… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - Last month

I also remind myself that I earned a bachelor’s degree with a 3.6 GPA while working 25-40 hours a week. Objectively non-stupid! I am very sensitive to comments about my intelligence, probably because to one of my parents, intelligence… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - Last month

Keep in mind that money is math. So you can cut expenses and live frugally OR you can bring in more money in various ways. So when you are starting to chafe under the budget restrictions (I am frugal as hell but I still eat out at least once a week)… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - Last month

My partner and I have different levels of ambition. I am a driven hard-working anxious ball of energy who gets a lot done. He is an agreeable and affable guy with a regular job and a small social circle and a few hobbies that make him happy. I'm… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - Last month

I have some friends who don't all jibe with one another. I recently had a friend cancel on an event where one of my other friends was going to be there and she just dropped me an email and said "Hey I'm feeling a little less resilient than usual… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

John Cena finally found a good tailor. I was looking at his suit during the opening monologue and thinking "That's not a real suit, that will tear off, right?" This show seemed uneven to me. I loved the whole first part of it… [more]
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FanFare comment - 2 months ago

I think about responsiveness. Are the responses you give to people appropriate to the situation? So if someone says they've had a shitty day do you respond in the way appropriate to them (some people want a foot rub, others say "Oh that's too… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

it's all about how tacky their clothes are and how much their music sucks. Yes, this is a troublesome thing. I have (as an example) a very hard time (personally) seeing the appeal of NASCAR but it actually doesn't matter what the hell I… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

the difference between your behaviour and hers is that yours was accidental, whereas she took a number of deliberate steps to frighten you and your children, and possibly harm you. Exactly, it's worth noting the difference here. I am… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Love the option for transcripts. Makes it easier to watch-while-eating among all the other good reasons. crunch crunch [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

most babies are a PITA about bedtime around 8-11mo, this will pass, you don't have to leave your kid to cry If that was the gist of your comment, it definitely would have stayed. If you'd like, I can repost your comment here. It was… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

The most important thing for GRE math is knowing what you need to know and separating that from what you actually DON'T need to know. The quantitative GRE (NOT the math-subject GRE) is a very specific set of questions that work in a very specific way… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

People should do some more work on that Gift Ideas wiki, I had totally forgotten about it. For something straightforward you can use the gift+something tag formation where something is the thing you are looking for. So like here are three posts on… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

I turned off the notifications. I had a phone for a long time with a terrible battery so I didn't use it for things that drained it (i.e. facebook). I have a routine where I get up in the morning and do something, anything, for 45 minutes that… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Yay, this is great work you all are doing. [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

You can get him a year's worth of Fortean Times for that amount of $$ have you seen this shop run by a fellow mefite? That is, alas, her husband. [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

I have a locker at mine and it helps a LOT. Contains: outfit, towels, moisturizer, shampoo/conditioner/soap, sneakers/socks, water bottle, hair ties. Other things - all the stuff at the gym is GYM stuff, not stuff I need in my day to day… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

If you are in VT heading to Boston, go now before it gets icy. Roads are a slushy mess now. Especially with so much meltiness today, there will be patches of ice as stuff sets up before the salt/sand trucks have been out. Vermont should salt and sand… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Haha! Me three! Literally just coming here to post this... Snow Shoveler Bhangra by the Maritime Bhangra a performance group in Nova Scotia known for dancing in front of many landmarks in and around their hometown of Halifax such as Peggy's Cove,… [more]
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MeFi comment - 2 months ago

First: start waving at people. It's going to be a lot easier to work this stuff out if everyone's on friendly terms. I would very much avoid lawyers if at all possible. Second: it's called grading and you can read up on it. It may be that the work… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Boundaries are great! I have a similar mom who just can't really get outside her own head. She's a truly interesting person and a terrible mom. And she wants credit for being an interesting person while being a terrible mom. Frustrating! So a few… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

You've done the work, you like the work. I like this idea. You don't mention how far this will be from where you currently live and how much of a culture shock but I'd be saying go for it. Considerations... - can you afford to do this safely? So… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

This is me. I grew up in a house with a lot of yelling and a parent who would sort of "sic" the other parent on me and (try to) keep me in line by implying that the other parent might hurt me. I only got smacked a few times, but it was… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

A copy of the Codex Seraphinianus Great idea! You can get a print copy of Voynich now too. [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Your list includes many symptoms of depression. Depression isn't always about being "sad." I had a conversation about this with my therapist. She says that many time men (and sometimes women, I am female) can get atypical… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

What's sleep? [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

This isn't exactly what you are looking for, but I have a part that I sometimes use for rings in a ceremony talking about how they are actually the product of work and not just some infinite thing that goes on forever. It could easily be edited to be… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

You probably know this, but this is an anxiety issue as much as an everything else issue. I guess my questions for you would be - Do you have preferences? That is, are there some types of movies you like and some you don't? - Are you in a social… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Tattered Cover bookstore would also know, if they don't have them. Can't get website to load. Other details: Address: 2526 E Colfax Ave, Denver, CO 80206 Hours: Open today · 9AM–9PM Phone: (303) 322-7727 [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago


Pears with gorgonzola with balsamic honey? It is only a little more complex than slicing but the combination of flavors makes it really interesting and party-worthy. [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

This is way more than you will probably need but here is a long page of things you can think about with regards to your birth plan. It covers some things like "if I have a cesarean, here are things I want" and what sort of newborn… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

I live in a rural area. My town is the big town (4500 people) in a county of significantly smaller towns. My town voted 1/3 for Trump. It's a town with decent opportunities (there are still some jobs here) but also a lot of poverty, some drug… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

I also appreciate the work that comedian Trae Crowder does talking about rural and southern issues. Here's his short video on how to reach rural America. Here's his take on Black Lives Matter. [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

This is a topic on which reasonable people disagree but unless there's a safety/stalking issue I always think the decent thing to do is to give people a heads up that you're no longer interested in communicating with them but it's also totally fine… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Was also going to suggest biking. I swim sometimes and I have some sensory issues surrounding being cold and wet (I dislike showering even in the best of times) so there was definitely some pushing through that I needed to do when I swim more… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

I am someone who dislikes overt Christmas trees in public spaces like schools and libraries. It's not my holiday and I do think that it is prioritizing one holiday over all the other winter holidays. People don't have to agree with me but those are… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

I think that everyone deserves empathy, and I want to give it to her Sure, that is totally AOK as a conceptual thing. There's a reason AskMe often talks about "putting on your own oxygen mask first before helping others."… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Where are you geographically? Are you driving or flying or are you maybe taking a train? Is affordability really a top priority? How many of you? I hear this a lot from people who are coming up from NYC. You can ski at Killington and not actually… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

If you have energy that ebbs and flows you might want to think about things you could make in bulk (that required some converted microwaving) but then only took a minute or two at the time. My favorite example of this is burritos. Beans, rice, veg,… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

I feel you. Every time I see a FB posting by the National Archivist I am always like "HE IS SO COOL THIS PROFESSION IS AWESOME" You are just trying, at this point, trying to get in to school. So they want to know - that you are… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Violent Femmes - Country Death Song or I Hear the Rain [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Yep, maybe talk it out loud to a friend. To my mind the biggest deals are having a reader come away with some sort of specific impression of you and having an answer to the generalized question "Why library school?" as well as, as… [more]
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