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Coming back to this today I think one of the things that was so tricky for me and my guy was the difference between me understanding that he could have looser boundaries with his friends (and family, and that was okay) but that TEAM US (which… [more]
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I had a partner (tho not one I live with) who went through a really harrowing set of years. This was, understandably, tough for everyone. While he definitely had it harder than I did, there was also a lot of tough stuff for me (since what's hard for… [more]
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I would assume without specifics that there are some very well-paid physicians and specialists at Dartmouth and yet that makes no sense when you look at the salaries in Massachusetts. It may be that NH is a weird combination of low-population (so not… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Matt Haughey is 100% guesser Explains so much! [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

I'd think of what your output needs to be. So like if the answer is "No, they do not address those topics/events" that's an easy one but if the answer is "Yes, they involve those topics/events" then do you need to... Write… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

East coast USA female. "Sure" means the same as "yes" to me Likewise. I'm familiar with the shruggy sense of "Sure, I guess...." formation but my feeling of it is that it's just a more casual way to say yes. [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Also: on the off chance that your handle might suggest places you'd like to go... notable New England Libraries - Boston Athenaeum - Harvard's Houghton Library (with MeFi's Horace Rumpole often willing to give you a tour) - This weird place on… [more]
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One travel trip - summer car rentals at Logan can be stupid expensive Agreed. Plus when you get your rental car you are in downtown Boston! Check Manchester and also Providence which is a lovely little airport and also not that far from… [more]
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is it better to aim for it, and smush it more, in the hopes of breaking it down faster so crows and other scavengers can clean it away? I sort of feel like when I am traveling in the car I am not actually part of the circle of life. I'd… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

The "go bag" equivalent for moving is a box/bag with a shower curtain & rings, toilet paper, lamp, extention cord, one set of eating-ware [fork, spoon, knife, plate cup], phone, soap, towel, trash bag or two, duct tape and a box… [more]
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We did this thing at a library conference, this After Dark thing where we all did late night talks that were more outre than maybe usual talks. We all had walk-on music. My walk-on music was this. If I were a heel, which I am not, my walk on music… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

I am a fairly controlling person. I used to be much, much worse. The line between healthy levels of control and unhealthy levels of control is the line of respect. When you snap at your partner for looking at map wrong (!) or for asking an… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

This is the issue with SNL - a reluctance to take on social issues of its own time. I think it does and it doesn't. The news is more incisive than it's been on SNL in many years but the sketches seem to hit and miss. I think, though,… [more]
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MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Hey! I thought this worked out pretty well. People who hate listening to my chipmunk voice can wait for a transcript next week (someone I hired via MeFi Jobs!). It's been a nutty week. I performed a wedding for my foster brother over the weekend… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

Sometimes there is desire on both sides to move on, restore, and retain something of value. But when getting there hinges on "skipping over" things that to one or the other are just too damn deal-breaky... that is the kicker… [more]
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Is this all the information you have on the person? Can you check census records to see which one is correct? Are you looking at the actual cards and not the transcriptions of them? Would there have been some benefit to them for registering in WWII… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Wonderful! [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 2 months ago

Sometimes twitter does this when they think you are a bot, spamming or whatever. It's like a second stage of verification to make sure you're a human. So Twitter wants to send you a text to more closely link some piece of data/tech to your account… [more]
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Do you folks regularly invite people your home to people with whom you were acquainted 10 years ago but don't particularly like? Do you leave the door unlocked in case any strangers need a place to crash? I do, but I am aware this is not… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

Bright and fun can often be something like a really nice bowtie with an unassuming clean white shirt and a picket square and socks that go along. If I am understanding you right, you have the suit (rather, three suits) and want something summery for… [more]
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Because it's hard to make someone in Ohio care about what Florida thinks (in a sort of general sense) but if you say "The COUNTRY thinks this..." you can make an information product that you can sell to people in all fifty states. More… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

This is what a quitclaim deed is for. Asshat doesn't have to refinance, he just need to get the loan reassigned to him only. I am unclear if you are doing this and that is what he is refusing to do? [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 2 months ago

The way Armisen's monologue rode the line was a real work of art and everything else was great too. I find Armisen a little indulgent and definitely got the feeling that if his monologue hadn't been overly long there would have been more… [more]
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FanFare comment - 3 months ago

Now I see they're delicate: they can chip or stain and they need to be resealed annually. I own a kitchen with granite countertops and this has not at all been my experience. I spray them with counter cleaning poison every once in a while… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

To me it felt more like a Western Town theme park but it definitely felt Not Like Denver. [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

Waterfalls and waterhole streams along the Kangamangus. Yep! My parents used to regularly drag us up to NH and stopping on the side of the road and just going walking into the water (with our shoes on! OMG!) was really a treat. Get a pass… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

The dog in our house is named Shamus, though he usually goes by "puppa" which is also what I tend to call my boyfriend. The dog is alternately called Shamblis, Shamblin' Amblin', Shamus Don't Blame Us!, Shamu the killer basset hound,… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

For many people, even very sick ones, visits involve some semblance of obligation even if you feel like you'll be a self-contained "no hassle" visitor and anyone who is well enough to say that they don't want visitors should have that wish… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

I've always wanted a bathroom with an ofuro in it. I like kitchens that have the plate-drying rack just above the sink or, alternately, just a plate cabinet. I don't know if Canadian cities have the mud room tradition as much as we do in the country… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

I just finished Seveneves. Depending on how bleak you like things I might suggest Peter Watts' Rifters trilogy. It's grim as hell but doesn't have all of that endless "And then the spaceship rotates 32 degrees to the north and then it moved… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

Hey that is great! You know you can now practically commute to Montpelier from Chittenden County, the future is here (plus I used to commute from Bethel to Rutland!). Checking out that old thread is like a time machine, so many old dead links. Send… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 3 months ago

Oh, and Carrie Brownstein in the Harkin Bros sketch! I saw her! Who was sitting next to Samberg in the front row on his right? I did not think I would want to ever see Student Showcase again but it was a good fit for Armisen's fake… [more]
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FanFare comment - 3 months ago

People that unfavourite should not be allowed into this celebration. Good because I only unfavorite and that's a different thing innit? [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 3 months ago

Without any more specifics the only option left seems to be "Dig a deep hole and then jump in it and stay there" but that seems impractical. I would suggest at least making sure you are on the same team with your spouse. Part of the problem… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

One of my April Fools ideas was to make a site called FavoritesExchange (with that amusing URL) and literally have a place where you could trade your MeFi favorites for various cheevos on other sites and do sort of an AwardWallet thing with it. But… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 3 months ago

- landing pad where keys/wallet/other stuff goes - have a bag which has three pockets for wallet/phone/camera (and outside pocket for keys), check all pockets - do anything that takes less than five minutes as I think of it and don't save it for… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

This page on Stack Overflow sort of explains what the issue is. Basically you were using something (add-on? some other security setting) to use https and now you're asking for an http version of the site and Chrome is like "hey wait a sec!"… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

Usually you go to the publisher's web page or the library. There are really a very small list of places to buy books online and if you don't find it for sale on Amazon or the publisher's website (or whoever sells for the publisher) then you can… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

It's close to Vermont and there are hippies here who do that. It's also Canada which is close to Bieber who had that hairstyle until recently. Can't speak to the other appropriative issues, but there are a lot of white folks with dreads over the… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

From a user who would prefer to remain anonymous:Your situation resembles the one I had with my now-ex. We had the deal that sex was ok if done discreetly, and there were no emotional relationships. We had some more issues entangled with this which… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

The FDIC insurance limit was raised to $250,000 after the last crash so you only need two accounts. Exactly I was in a similar situation a few years ago and this is what I did to start with. The money will stay there and while you may not… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

Lynda and GCFLearnFree are both quite good. New York Public Library also offers classes in the Microsoft Suite and has made all their handouts available online. If at all possible it might be good to narrow down the aspects of these programs that… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

When I lived in Romania which was a few decades ago, the prevailing attitude from our sponsoring organization was "Look there are some odd rules in Romania and if you get in trouble because you are gay we will absolutely support you and handle… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

This really depends on what your purpose is for remarking on someone's appearance. I had a teacher at a parent-teacher conference tell my mother once that I was pretty which was 1. totally inappropriate 2. totally made it seem like my looks were… [more]
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Which streaming service(s) can I use to watch The Jessamyn Project? Snapchat! Prepare to be underwhelmed! [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 3 months ago

Someone recommended to me lately that I try to adopt a Buddhist mindset, something that changed their life and helped them reduce their anxiety, anxiety that was at points in their life so severe it which would prevent them from being able to do… [more]
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Ask MeFi comment - 3 months ago

I'm always happy when I get the soup and the steamed green beans and the grilled foccacia to all come out at about the same time. Add crackers, parmesan, hummus and maybe a sliced apple and you get some variant of what I eat nearly every night for… [more]
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MetaTalk comment - 3 months ago

follow-up from the OP Here's some more info, as requested. Yes, my question was specifically about social reactions to getting busty, both from boys and girls, based on lots of personal stories in this Metafilter topic (and the resulting MetaTalk… [more]
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