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Cool Places to Work in Mid-Town Manhattan
The Ace Hotel is generally overcrowded and insufferable. The NYPL reading room is great.

You should also shop through the list of privately-owned public spaces for central midtown and east midtown to find locations that suit your preferences; Each of those links to maps of the spots, and some even have photos of the venues.

The ones coded as "destinations" like Park Avenue Plaza or 590 Madison should suit your needs.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:08 PM on November 14, 2012

All gone a bit pear-shaped
As a cis-male I don't have too much to add except that if you've found a pant that you like and that works from Zara, GET MORE OF THEM! I know it sounds obvious, but I screw this up all the time, thinking somehow I have to only get one of an item I like, when instead I should seize those rare times that clothing suits me and stock up.mthis is more acute for men as our off-the-rack options in a given season are generally less varied than for those who wear women's clothing.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:27 PM on October 13, 2012

Triumph of the Will
Purple Rain and 8 Mile.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:54 AM on October 7, 2012

Nice solo NYC dinner
Whenever I'm in this situation, I go for the bar at Gramercy Tavern or a seat at Ssam Bar.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:24 AM on October 7, 2012

Help me rent out my NYC-based events space for workshops, seminars, presentations, parties, mixers, etc.
Wow! Had no idea you guys had a space like this. I'd reach out to a few key event planning folks (Ruthless Bunny's link is obviously a good start) and just let them know you're available; Good venues in Manhattan are so rare and it's so unusual to find one that's not constantly been used for other events that I have to imagine there'll be tons of demand. The tech industry is *always* looking for spaces like this; Maybe come by one of our NY Tech Meetups and let people know what you've got going... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:32 PM on October 2, 2012

Apple's iOS 6 Maps app
Is Dash known to be hostile to Apple? Because this is a fairly devastating thing to say:

No, I like and use a lot of Apple products, and I think my wife bought a bunch of Apple stock a while back, so you know, if I have a bias it's probably in favor of Apple. Really I'm just skeptical of all multibillion-dollar publicly-traded companies.

Also, being called "Dash" makes me feel like I'm a grown-up or a... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 11:44 AM on September 20, 2012

Getting the most from my meat.
Steak tartare.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:43 PM on September 12, 2012

Tracking LiveJournal's decline
There's so much I want to say here. So much missed in both the article and many of the perspectives.

Though I was often a voice defending the fuckups that happened at LJ years ago, I always knew how critical and terrible those errors often were. As did Brad, and others. It felt like watching a friend you love and care about make a bad decision and not being able to stop them.

Anjelika really does care about the site, and is in a tough spot when... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 12:17 PM on September 7, 2012

How do I deal with overbearing parents?
"There are lots of people who are overweight, but very very few parents who would knowingly make their child feel bad about themselves. If you insist on being that unusually cruel type of parent, you're not welcome here until you learn to act like an adult."
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:27 AM on August 27, 2012

How is webbe formd?
guybrush_threepwood's description is wonderfully accurate for Silicon Valley startups; NYC startups are a little different but overall very parallel. There's a book called "Founders at Work" which is a great light read with terrific anecdotes about how many startups happened in the early Web 2.0 era; Sarah Lacy's "Once You're Lucky" is probably also good, but I didn't read it because I lived it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:59 PM on August 21, 2012
Sara C., since it's not immediately obvious in this thread -- joshu is a very well-known entrepreneur, who started Delicious.com and backs a lot of big-name startups. Probably one point that's worth noting for context is that it's not uncommon for many of the best founders to be as sincere and accessible as he is here; If you're writing about a cliched startup, the founder would be precisely opposite.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:48 PM on August 22, 2012

The oldest story ever told.
This is called "being in your twenties". It's typically solved by dating assholes for a few years and then not doing that ever again.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:13 PM on August 21, 2012 marked best answer

How can I make StackOverflow useful again?
Just a note, puppysocket -- your question's appreciated, and I'll share what everyone has said here with the SO team (I'm on the board).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:06 AM on August 13, 2012

I made a big mistake
Jesus, you're all overthinking this. Don't send flowers or wine or a breakfast basket, and don't send some overwrought email where you flay your guts out, even self-deprecatingly.

You apologized, that's great. Give it a few days and then ask to meet again, offering to come to her office or whatever's most convenient so that she won't be put out. If you want to give an option, mention that you're happy to meet with a colleague of hers if that's easier, in case she... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:28 PM on July 24, 2012

I'm looking for first-hand accounts of starting a food business
My friends are blogging their launch of Lonestar Taco here in NYC. It's delicious.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:53 PM on July 24, 2012

Can my landlord enforce a fee for overnight guests?
If it's not on your lease, no he can't do that. Tell him you're happy to pay it as long as he lists that requirement in writing (or in email) and then use that documentation to prove he's trying to violate your lease terms.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:52 PM on July 16, 2012

How do I respond when people insult themselves while complimenting me?
"Well, you're wrong about your features not being beautiful, so you might be exaggerating a bit in describing what you like about me. There's too many people talking about our appearance anyway; I tell you what -- let's split the difference and agree we're both great people who are lucky to have run into each other today!"
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:46 PM on June 28, 2012

shopping unique to nyc
OMG Jeans
Manhattan Eyeworks
Sapporo (noodle shop)
Century 21
Grand Sichuan
Halal Cart

Really, it just depends how loosely you define "chain". Lots of retailers have more than one location; even more have sibling locations run by other members of a proprietor's family.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:00 PM on June 28, 2012 marked best answer

Restaurants considered harmful?
Use a retail store as an example instead of a restaurant, if you think the example is fraught. But if you're concerned about it, just explain: "At this point in our interviews, we use a series of questions about a hypothetical restaurant to cover some concepts we think are important."

That way it's clear this is standard procedure, not something in response to the interviewee. You are an asset to your company for being sensitive enough to ask this, though --... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:38 AM on June 24, 2012 marked best answer

Our answering machine isn't SkyNet...
I think there's a substantial percentage of today's phone-using public that's not familiar with answering machines. While mobile phones have voicemail, some huge percentage of mobile voicemails still use default unavailability announcements.

If someone's only ever used mobile phones, and doesn't hear a standard voicemail prompt, they might not know what your setup is, especially if some of these people are calling you as a wrong number.

I haven't... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:06 AM on June 22, 2012

How do I resign as confidante?
"Oh, I am so pissed off at Bob! You won't believe what he just did."

"Let me go get Bob."

Repeat.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:03 PM on June 20, 2012

nice work--can I just take that from you? k-thx-bye
If there's an MIT license attached to everything, you're both morally and legally clear to remix it however you wants long as you retain attribution. What's more, any developer who uses that license is likely signaling that they *hope* you'll do something like what you've described.

The open source license works exactly like your most optimistic self would hope it might. Email that developer to let them know your plans and I'm sure they'll be excited. Go make something great.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:01 PM on June 14, 2012 marked best answer

The business side of TV
The Future of TV blog by mefi's own Michael Pusateri is a great place to start.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:13 PM on June 6, 2012

Movable Type text replacement script?
Any version since 2005 or so should have a built-in search and replace, as Su mentioned, but you can be doubly sure by also doing redirects through .htaccess.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:30 PM on June 5, 2012 marked best answer

How can I stop worrying about the revolution?
Don't hang out with assholes who think your family deserved to be brutally murdered. And work for social justice on your own terms; if you are known as an advocate for those without privilege, you'll be safe in almost any context.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:08 AM on June 4, 2012

Why does Tumblr hate Missing e?
Almost any large-scale website is going to object to users installing software that gives a third party the ability to monitor, record, transform and reformat the site's content.

Even assuming Missing E is entirely benevolent (I believe it is), this represents a significant security issue if the extension has any security holes, and because it sets a precedent that a third party which has no accountability to Tumblr can decide what your experience looks like.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 1:48 PM on June 3, 2012 marked best answer

We found our dream house, but boy does it smell...
If it's been freshly carpeted, could the smell be the odor of the new carpet itself? It can be quite strong, and I've certainly seen people's sensitivity to that kind of odor vary greatly. Why not bring in you mother-in-law to smell for herself? If she's okay with it and you can get the smell to fade over time either on its own or through some other method, this shouldn't be a dealbreaker.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 1:36 PM on June 3, 2012

What is wrong with us?
He's married to one woman, taking another out to expensive dinners, and avoiding you for days at a time. He's lying so that you won't realize you're being taken advantage of.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:35 PM on May 27, 2012

Do you ever wish you had been circumcised?
Same answer as everybody else.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:59 PM on May 27, 2012

Help with noisy neighbor's loud music.
Why not just talk to them, being the neighbor you'd want to have? "I'm pretty sensitive to sound, and you guys have a particularly good sound system. Sometimes it stresses me out a little, though obviously you should enjoy your stereo when you're having a party or it's not late. So, on those rare times when I really do need you to turn it down, how should we communicate about that? And do you have any nut allergies that might affect the brownies I'm gonna make?... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:27 PM on May 25, 2012

Cheese in every fondue pot! Two motorcycles in every garage for a mouse named Ralph!
Agreed: Eleanor & Martha give you string names that also might push the kids to look up the namesakes. Eleanor Cheddarmelt!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:54 AM on May 25, 2012

How do you make design decisions in a team with a flat hierarchy?
People should not be communicating preferences to the designer. They should be communicating goals. Then the designer can do his/her job, and your team's responsibility is only to make sure their solution accomplishes the goals that have been outlined.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:22 PM on May 23, 2012

holdkris99's death was a hoax.
People are the best. No, not this lying asshole. But my friends who deal with people like him so that we can have good things on the internet, and have communities where we're able to trust each other. Thanks for being wonderful, MeFi mods!
posted to MetaTalk by anildash at 12:39 PM on May 22, 2012

Looking for social media buttons with counter
Actually, you and your developer may be talking about different things. If you mean live counters of likes/tweets/pins, these are generally done by including those sites' individual JavaScript widgets, which are not standardized in size, as you've noted. Making the counters work with standardized button images as linked to in the comments here does take work, as some of the sites would require you to use their APIs to do so.

Each of these sites wants... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:58 AM on May 22, 2012

WHo owns an app?
All of these tools specify in their licenses that you own your creations. Many starting app developers ask questions on Stack Overflow, where (full disclosure) I am a board member.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:11 PM on May 20, 2012 marked best answer

Xenophobia or anti-oppression?
We wouldn't have guns without the Chinese, rock music without African slaves, or the word "Wednesday" without the Norse.

Imagine how it feels to have been on this site since nearly its inception, and to have someone say "we" in a way that clearly excludes you. That's what cultural appropriation feels like.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:26 PM on May 16, 2012

Attachment and daycare
Take a look at all the adults you are friends or acquaintances with, both the well-adjusted ones and the crazy ones. Ask a few whether they went to day care or not. Bask in the lack or correlation.

I say this as a dad whose boy started daycare 2 weeks ago, with me still heartbroken each morning when I drop him off. He'll be fine. Your kid will, too.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:15 PM on May 16, 2012

I am feeling miserable because of this job that I can't leave. How can I cope?
How much are the relocation costs? How much time would you have to repay them? Would they really make you repay them (meaning, is that mentioned in a written contract that you've signed)? How possible would it be for you to get another job that pays almost as much?

It's worth paying a significant amount of money to not be miserable, if you have the means to do so.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:21 PM on May 14, 2012

Give me a script for kicking out my roommate
If you want to go with a reason, the most neutral is "We are the only two on the lease, so we want to be the only two tenants". That's blameless and pseudo-legalistic and impossible to argue with. But yeah, you don't need to say a reason.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:52 PM on May 12, 2012

I don't need this.
Your younger self is getting what it wanted: The idiotic, destructive relationship that so many of us ensure when we're young and dumb. Don't let your younger self win.

Ignore this poet, and set up an auto-forward that directs his messages to your husband.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:03 AM on May 12, 2012

Wanna be on Mommy's new album?
Stevie Wonder features his daughter Aisha Morris on "Isn't She Lovely", Michael Jackson had his two older kids sing a bit of backup on "The Lost Children" on Invincible, and Prince actually sampled his son (who sadly died at just a few days old) in utero on "Sex in the Summer" on Emancipation.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:29 AM on May 9, 2012
Oh, and who could forget Will Smith's version of "Just The Two Of Us", which presaged Jaden's music career by a decade and a half? Apparently, me.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:30 AM on May 9, 2012

Good friend/bad friend
ASK HER.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 12:40 PM on May 4, 2012

It's me or the dog! Or both of us and a lifetime of sulking
The boyfriend already has lived with a dog for years. So it's obvious he's lying about whether he's able to do it. As everyone's said, he's a controlling jerk, but it's worth pointing out that he's also denying reality as well.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:36 AM on May 1, 2012

Crimes of Excess
If you wouldn't do it at your friend's house, then you're just taking advantage of a shared resource.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:57 AM on April 27, 2012

Couldn't you just, like, be happy for me?
If she wants you to be in the big city, either to level up in your ambitions or to be closer to her, then she should say so. Communicating it through undermining snipes when she should be celebrating your success is asshole behavior. Tell her to say what she thinks, and that you deserve to have her be kind to you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:02 PM on April 25, 2012

Best of Blog launch is a go
I had to wait years. Years. But I got my white background.
posted to MetaTalk by anildash at 12:32 PM on April 25, 2012

Should I learn to talk GirlTalk?
If you think this hard about going to a concert, the other attendees at the show will be enough to make you not have fun, let alone the chance of Girl Talk playing Girl Talk songs.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:39 AM on April 23, 2012

Which Active Users have been here the Longest?
I'm of Sudama's vintage, but I'd bet ol' Mr. 16 is still hanging around somewhere.
posted to MetaTalk by anildash at 4:08 PM on April 15, 2012

PPI drugs have bad side effects for me. What are the other options?
The only thing that's consistently reined in my GERD after almost 10 years of suffering is lots and lots of aerobic exercise. If I run 10 miles a week, I don't have any symptoms regardless of what I eat. (Though I do take a Prevacid most mornings.) Now that I'm doing about 20 miles a week, I basically don't have any GERD symptoms at all.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:17 AM on April 13, 2012

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