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Something there is that doesn't love a wall, that wants it down
He seems to be forgetting that people in general - not tech-fascinated people like himself, but the general public - want things to be simple, intuitive, plug-and-play, and that's why they've gravitated to prefab commercial platforms.
From the piece: "The primary fallacy that underpins many of their mistakes is that user flexibility and control necessarily lead to a user experience complexity that hurts growth."
It blows my mind that... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 2:19 PM on December 13, 2012
Cool Places to Work in Mid-Town Manhattan
The Ace Hotel is generally overcrowded and insufferable. The NYPL reading room is great.
You should also shop through the list of privately-owned public spaces for central midtown and east midtown to find locations that suit your preferences; Each of those links to maps of the spots, and some even have photos of the venues.
The ones coded as "destinations" like Park Avenue Plaza or 590 Madison should suit your needs.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:08 PM on November 14, 2012
All gone a bit pear-shaped
As a cis-male I don't have too much to add except that if you've found a pant that you like and that works from Zara, GET MORE OF THEM! I know it sounds obvious, but I screw this up all the time, thinking somehow I have to only get one of an item I like, when instead I should seize those rare times that clothing suits me and stock up.mthis is more acute for men as our off-the-rack options in a given season are generally less varied than for those who wear women's clothing.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:27 PM on October 13, 2012
Triumph of the Will
Nice solo NYC dinner
Help me rent out my NYC-based events space for workshops, seminars, presentations, parties, mixers, etc.
Wow! Had no idea you guys had a space like this. I'd reach out to a few key event planning folks (Ruthless Bunny's link is obviously a good start) and just let them know you're available; Good venues in Manhattan are so rare and it's so unusual to find one that's not constantly been used for other events that I have to imagine there'll be tons of demand. The tech industry is *always* looking for spaces like this; Maybe come by one of our NY Tech Meetups and let people know what you've got going... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:32 PM on October 2, 2012
Apple's iOS 6 Maps app
Is Dash known to be hostile to Apple? Because this is a fairly devastating thing to say:
No, I like and use a lot of Apple products, and I think my wife bought a bunch of Apple stock a while back, so you know, if I have a bias it's probably in favor of Apple. Really I'm just skeptical of all multibillion-dollar publicly-traded companies.
Also, being called "Dash" makes me feel like I'm a grown-up or a... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 11:44 AM on September 20, 2012
Getting the most from my meat.
Tracking LiveJournal's decline
There's so much I want to say here. So much missed in both the article and many of the perspectives.
Though I was often a voice defending the fuckups that happened at LJ years ago, I always knew how critical and terrible those errors often were. As did Brad, and others. It felt like watching a friend you love and care about make a bad decision and not being able to stop them.
Anjelika really does care about the site, and is in a tough spot when... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 12:17 PM on September 7, 2012
How do I deal with overbearing parents?
"There are lots of people who are overweight, but very very few parents who would knowingly make their child feel bad about themselves. If you insist on being that unusually cruel type of parent, you're not welcome here until you learn to act like an adult."
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:27 AM on August 27, 2012
How is webbe formd?
guybrush_threepwood's description is wonderfully accurate for Silicon Valley startups; NYC startups are a little different but overall very parallel. There's a book called "Founders at Work" which is a great light read with terrific anecdotes about how many startups happened in the early Web 2.0 era; Sarah Lacy's "Once You're Lucky" is probably also good, but I didn't read it because I lived it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:59 PM on August 21, 2012
Sara C., since it's not immediately obvious in this thread -- joshu is a very well-known entrepreneur, who started Delicious.com and backs a lot of big-name startups. Probably one point that's worth noting for context is that it's not uncommon for many of the best founders to be as sincere and accessible as he is here; If you're writing about a cliched startup, the founder would be precisely opposite.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:48 PM on August 22, 2012
The oldest story ever told.
How can I make StackOverflow useful again?
I made a big mistake
Jesus, you're all overthinking this. Don't send flowers or wine or a breakfast basket, and don't send some overwrought email where you flay your guts out, even self-deprecatingly.
You apologized, that's great. Give it a few days and then ask to meet again, offering to come to her office or whatever's most convenient so that she won't be put out. If you want to give an option, mention that you're happy to meet with a colleague of hers if that's easier, in case she... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:28 PM on July 24, 2012
I'm looking for first-hand accounts of starting a food business
My friends are blogging their launch of Lonestar Taco here in NYC. It's delicious.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:53 PM on July 24, 2012
Can my landlord enforce a fee for overnight guests?
How do I respond when people insult themselves while complimenting me?
"Well, you're wrong about your features not being beautiful, so you might be exaggerating a bit in describing what you like about me. There's too many people talking about our appearance anyway; I tell you what -- let's split the difference and agree we're both great people who are lucky to have run into each other today!"
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:46 PM on June 28, 2012
shopping unique to nyc
Sapporo (noodle shop)
Really, it just depends how loosely you define "chain". Lots of retailers have more than one location; even more have sibling locations run by other members of a proprietor's family.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:00 PM on June 28, 2012 marked best answer
Restaurants considered harmful?
Use a retail store as an example instead of a restaurant, if you think the example is fraught. But if you're concerned about it, just explain: "At this point in our interviews, we use a series of questions about a hypothetical restaurant to cover some concepts we think are important."
That way it's clear this is standard procedure, not something in response to the interviewee. You are an asset to your company for being sensitive enough to ask this, though --... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:38 AM on June 24, 2012 marked best answer
Our answering machine isn't SkyNet...
I think there's a substantial percentage of today's phone-using public that's not familiar with answering machines. While mobile phones have voicemail, some huge percentage of mobile voicemails still use default unavailability announcements.
If someone's only ever used mobile phones, and doesn't hear a standard voicemail prompt, they might not know what your setup is, especially if some of these people are calling you as a wrong number.
I haven't... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:06 AM on June 22, 2012
How do I resign as confidante?
nice work--can I just take that from you? k-thx-bye
If there's an MIT license attached to everything, you're both morally and legally clear to remix it however you wants long as you retain attribution. What's more, any developer who uses that license is likely signaling that they *hope* you'll do something like what you've described.
The open source license works exactly like your most optimistic self would hope it might. Email that developer to let them know your plans and I'm sure they'll be excited. Go make something great.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:01 PM on June 14, 2012 marked best answer
The business side of TV
The Future of TV blog by mefi's own Michael Pusateri is a great place to start.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:13 PM on June 6, 2012
Movable Type text replacement script?
How can I stop worrying about the revolution?
Why does Tumblr hate Missing e?
Almost any large-scale website is going to object to users installing software that gives a third party the ability to monitor, record, transform and reformat the site's content.
Even assuming Missing E is entirely benevolent (I believe it is), this represents a significant security issue if the extension has any security holes, and because it sets a precedent that a third party which has no accountability to Tumblr can decide what your experience looks like.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 1:48 PM on June 3, 2012 marked best answer
We found our dream house, but boy does it smell...
If it's been freshly carpeted, could the smell be the odor of the new carpet itself? It can be quite strong, and I've certainly seen people's sensitivity to that kind of odor vary greatly. Why not bring in you mother-in-law to smell for herself? If she's okay with it and you can get the smell to fade over time either on its own or through some other method, this shouldn't be a dealbreaker.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 1:36 PM on June 3, 2012
What is wrong with us?
Do you ever wish you had been circumcised?
Help with noisy neighbor's loud music.
Why not just talk to them, being the neighbor you'd want to have? "I'm pretty sensitive to sound, and you guys have a particularly good sound system. Sometimes it stresses me out a little, though obviously you should enjoy your stereo when you're having a party or it's not late. So, on those rare times when I really do need you to turn it down, how should we communicate about that? And do you have any nut allergies that might affect the brownies I'm gonna make?... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:27 PM on May 25, 2012
Cheese in every fondue pot! Two motorcycles in every garage for a mouse named Ralph!
How do you make design decisions in a team with a flat hierarchy?
People should not be communicating preferences to the designer. They should be communicating goals. Then the designer can do his/her job, and your team's responsibility is only to make sure their solution accomplishes the goals that have been outlined.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:22 PM on May 23, 2012
holdkris99's death was a hoax.
Looking for social media buttons with counter
Each of these sites wants... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:58 AM on May 22, 2012
WHo owns an app?
All of these tools specify in their licenses that you own your creations. Many starting app developers ask questions on Stack Overflow, where (full disclosure) I am a board member.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:11 PM on May 20, 2012 marked best answer
Xenophobia or anti-oppression?
We wouldn't have guns without the Chinese, rock music without African slaves, or the word "Wednesday" without the Norse.
Imagine how it feels to have been on this site since nearly its inception, and to have someone say "we" in a way that clearly excludes you. That's what cultural appropriation feels like.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:26 PM on May 16, 2012
Attachment and daycare
Take a look at all the adults you are friends or acquaintances with, both the well-adjusted ones and the crazy ones. Ask a few whether they went to day care or not. Bask in the lack or correlation.
I say this as a dad whose boy started daycare 2 weeks ago, with me still heartbroken each morning when I drop him off. He'll be fine. Your kid will, too.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:15 PM on May 16, 2012
I am feeling miserable because of this job that I can't leave. How can I cope?
How much are the relocation costs? How much time would you have to repay them? Would they really make you repay them (meaning, is that mentioned in a written contract that you've signed)? How possible would it be for you to get another job that pays almost as much?
It's worth paying a significant amount of money to not be miserable, if you have the means to do so.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:21 PM on May 14, 2012
Give me a script for kicking out my roommate
If you want to go with a reason, the most neutral is "We are the only two on the lease, so we want to be the only two tenants". That's blameless and pseudo-legalistic and impossible to argue with. But yeah, you don't need to say a reason.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:52 PM on May 12, 2012
I don't need this.
Your younger self is getting what it wanted: The idiotic, destructive relationship that so many of us ensure when we're young and dumb. Don't let your younger self win.
Ignore this poet, and set up an auto-forward that directs his messages to your husband.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:03 AM on May 12, 2012
Wanna be on Mommy's new album?
Stevie Wonder features his daughter Aisha Morris on "Isn't She Lovely", Michael Jackson had his two older kids sing a bit of backup on "The Lost Children" on Invincible, and Prince actually sampled his son (who sadly died at just a few days old) in utero on "Sex in the Summer" on Emancipation.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:29 AM on May 9, 2012
It's me or the dog! Or both of us and a lifetime of sulking
Crimes of Excess
Couldn't you just, like, be happy for me?
If she wants you to be in the big city, either to level up in your ambitions or to be closer to her, then she should say so. Communicating it through undermining snipes when she should be celebrating your success is asshole behavior. Tell her to say what she thinks, and that you deserve to have her be kind to you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:02 PM on April 25, 2012
Best of Blog launch is a go
Should I learn to talk GirlTalk?
Which Active Users have been here the Longest?