Join 3,374 readers in helping fund MetaFilter (Hide)

Activity from anildash

Showing comments from:

Displaying comments 200 to 250 of 1967

Seeking understanding and tools I need to design a homepage that is a dynamic bar chart.
If you want to honor the visualization aspect of the event, *don't* do so by creating pretty bars that don't actually represent meaningful data. (No attendee is wondering "How many blog posts on the event's web site are in the events category versus the news category?")

Instead, honor great visualizations by featuring those visualizations. Focus on the quality of the content and have a site that is neat, clean and gets out of the way of the... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 12:58 PM on September 15, 2011

Oh god, not another 1.5 pounds of green beans to dice.
Get good knives, yes. Get a mandolin, yes. But most of all, take a knife skills class, and get good at the act of chopping.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:19 PM on September 10, 2011

I'll bring you down to Chinatown.
fingersandtoes has got it, especially because your father-in-law was right.

But honestly? That doesn't even matter. Be an adult and don't put your wife in the position of being stuck between two stubborn jerks. Do what will make things simplest and happiest for her. And count your blessings: My sometimes exasperating father in law's certainly said things that annoyed me. But I'd still give anything to let my wife have a few more years with him, which... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:08 PM on September 2, 2011

Ron Suskind probably won't be calling
I have no real reason to suspect that they were, and I've got a history of worrying needlessly about environmental concerns (including asbestos)

There's your answer.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:28 PM on September 1, 2011

Can some people only hear harmonies?
As a bad singer, I do harmonies a lot because my range sucks. thatdawnperson's got it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:34 AM on August 27, 2011

$1K Windows Gaming Computer
What about BootCamp? Much less than $1000 to buy a Windows license, if you only need to play games you could reboot one of the Macs.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:51 AM on August 26, 2011

What's different about a corporate interview (if anything)?
I work in both environments, and one key spectre that will loom over a corporate environment is the owners, whether those be stockholders or family patrons of the business. If you imagine the focus that most non-profits have on fundraising/grants or that the public sector has in holding its breath waiting to find out about funding, then amplify that by the fact that the ownership of a corporation has an actual human manifestation, then you'll understand why it's a big part of company culture.... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:21 PM on August 23, 2011

Will the welcoming committee don white hoods and burn crosses?
I grew up as a brown person about 3 miles from Harrisburg. 20+ years ago, it was unpleasant, but I'm sure today that's much less the case.

Thing is, Lancaster isn't much smaller than Harrisburg, and is (by local standards) pretty far away with no proportionate reduction in cost of living. If you simply want to save some dollars and be outside what little downtown area there is in Harrisburg, there are lots of bedroom communities around Harrisburg and across the... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:21 PM on August 22, 2011
n.b. I'm being fairly positive, but the first black family that moved into our Harrisburg suburb (in the late 80s) actually did get a cross burned in their yard. I'm being optimistic by not being harshly critical of the area.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:23 PM on August 22, 2011
All of that being said, the area is marked by remarkably little in the way of racial tensions.

I'm gonna assume you're white, by that statement? I certainly got a lot of hard looks as a person of color, especially if i was hand-in-hand with a white girl. Though they'd be more discreet about it today, there's no way that's completely gone away. I concur that explicit racism is out of favor, but the grinding, stressful everyday unaware racism that is... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:08 PM on August 23, 2011

That bright light hurts my eyes!
Best analogy here is the air bag requirement: The Gov't said car makers had to meet passive restraint requirements; all the auto makers settled on airbags to do the job.

Now the Gov't is saying bulb makers have to meet an efficiency requirement; they've settled on CFLs to do so. She should be mad at lazy bulb makers who haven't found a way for incandescents to meet the regulations. Doesn't she care that Anericans don't try to invent that kind of high tech anymore? Does... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:47 PM on August 13, 2011

Actually, it doesn't feel like the best form of flattery.
Get good at social media and self-promotion.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:22 PM on August 12, 2011

Songwriting variety
Prince and Björk.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:37 AM on August 12, 2011

Father of the electric guitar never learned to play!
Eric Schmidt apparently uses a Blackberry phone.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:22 PM on August 10, 2011

$xx to Create a PDF??
In the unlikely chance you're on a recent version of MS office, Microsoft offers a free plugin for printing PDFs in Office 2007, and the capability is built in for Office 2010. If you have a spade Mac around, any Mac can print any file as PDF.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:04 PM on August 10, 2011

Please help me survive a flight without panic
One key thing you can do to address many of these issues is to communicate. As mentioned above, get a doctor's letter explaining your proclivity for panic. Also, tell the flight crews on your flights of the issue; they've undoubtedly seen far, far worse and will try to check in on you. In short, ask for help, especially if you feel comfortable telling people *why* you're traveling. They'll be sympathetic and want to help you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:36 AM on August 7, 2011

I want to go back to college after a 15 year hiatus!
I'm sorry for what you've been through. I want to ask, though: Why are you going back?

Do you have a satisfying, productive career and a good life now? Because if so, then it's a lot faster and cheaper to get over your (completely unnecessary) shame over dropping out than it is to go back to college.

I quit school because of a combination of depression and displeasure with it. I, too, found a tech-related career that I was able to teach myself to... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:13 AM on August 7, 2011

This "health company" sells salt water in a bottle.
Do not focus on debunking the validity of the pseudoscientific claims about the water: You can not argue against emotions with logic, or against logic with emotions. Simply be consistent and strong in referring to the water as a "scam" or other similar term, and don't dwell on it, just refer matter-of-factly to the truth that he is being misled.

What you should talk to him about is whatever emotional drivers are causing him to seek a... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:15 PM on July 29, 2011
Oh, and since you're being the responsible adult in this situation, don't be afraid to assign consequences. If he's betting a significant amount of money, tell him that pursuing this course of action will force you to assign a penalty; You refusing to talk to him or see him or return for holidays for two years may be a serious enough threat to jolt him to reason.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:18 PM on July 29, 2011

Why does Mucinex smell like millipedes?
At least part of this may be psychological priming based on the bug-like characters Mucinex uses in their advertising, too.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:22 AM on July 25, 2011

Looking for a durable little video camera
Only camera that matters is the one you have with you, and you won't be up for toting lots of extra crap with a newborn. Switch your phone to an iPhone 4, since it has the best video quality of the major smartphones, and get a good case for it to make it a little more waterproof. Every good video of my 5-month-old was taken on an iPhone or Nexus S; the "real" cameras are never handy.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 2:05 PM on July 22, 2011

Look at My Professional White Background. Now Look at Your Site. Now Back to Mine. Now....
Mathowie was over at my house right after I wrote the post, and I was gonna tell him, "the assholes who mention 'plain white background' are your fault, buddy!"

Joking aside, always happy to point to MeFi for its truly exemplary moderation. Will have to revisit the "what design choices would best encourage valuable new members to join the community?" conversation some other time. :)
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 12:48 PM on July 21, 2011
twsf, brundlefly, Chrome developer builds seem to crash on my site, though I didn't change anything. I reported the bug, but dunno if there's anything I can do but ask you to use lesser browsers. Sorry! FWIW, affects me too.
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 1:13 PM on July 21, 2011

adamrice: " Also, not sure why Anil says he permits commenting on his blog when AFAICT he does not."

I don't understand? There are 71 comments currently at the linked article.


Is this something I would have to have Facebook to know about? *rolls eyes*
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 1:50 PM on July 21, 2011
jeffburdges, I'd say that's overly simplistic. If we look at, say, the rise of lolcats in popular culture, then I'd argue there's a clear origin at 4Chan and a clear mainstream presence in ICanHasCheeseburger, but that MeFi was an indispensable amplification platform. If we're looking at how culture's made, you need all of those elements working in concert. MeFi is often how things graduate from the obscure web to the mainstream one, at least it was when those were more... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 1:52 PM on July 21, 2011
MetaFilter reaches an incredibly influential subsection of the media world, which Reddit really did not until recently, so it's had a disproportionately strong impact on the rise of memes into broader culture, as Jahaza demonstrates.

My guess is that the movers and shakers of our society have never even heard of Reddit nor would they care.

Depends how you define "movers and shakers". I've had conversations with people at places ranging... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 3:18 PM on July 21, 2011
I got a ginger slush with mint.

Back on topic, I have a lot of misgivings about using Facebook for my comments, but (especially with allowing Yahoo signins) it was the best tradeoff that I could use to encourage good conversations. Would love to have a better option.
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 7:40 PM on July 21, 2011
Aye Anil, just you go and get your head patted and waggle your wee tail for them.

sgt.serenity, some people think they can change huge institutions without ever engaging with them, simply by lots of wishful thinking. I think I can help right some of their wrongs by trying to talk to them and persuade them with a different perspective. I can understand if you disagree with that, but certainly don't know that I've earned that degree of condescension.
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 7:38 AM on July 22, 2011

How to handle tardiness?
Travel. Spend some time (weeks!) in south Asia or southern Europe. Realize how much of this desire of your is cultural and a bit privileged. Remember how fortunate you are to have the company of people you love, because someday you'll wish you only had to wait a few minutes to see them again.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:50 PM on June 22, 2011

What do men want?
Confidence, communication and enthusiasm.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:37 PM on June 22, 2011

I came out to my parents. It isn't going well.
Palomar's got it. Be the adult they're both incapable of being. if they get more insistent, explain that you forgive them their immaturity, but won't discuss it any further.

Get out of there as soon as you can. Be in a healthy place. And congrats on your strength.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:03 PM on June 16, 2011

Help me get rid of battling Adobe to make graphs, please
If you're on a Mac, Numbers is a good complement to Excel. At the very least, you should start with one of these apps and then maybe finish in Illustrator.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 4:13 PM on June 10, 2011

How to deal with a parent who won't acknowledge my relationship?
"Then it's a shame we'll have to tell our kids someday why you didn't want to be part of their life. Don't contact me again until you have a schedule for meeting me and my future husband."
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 3:58 PM on June 6, 2011

Prince's "The Black Album"
spicynuts, the actual album itself isn't rare; It was officially released in 1994 as part of Prince's extrication from his Warner Brothers contract. However, the original releases of the album (from 1988) have a different catalog number and are exceedingly rare.

Beyond the unreleased Prince projects wikipedia page, PrinceVault is doing the most comprehensive modern cataloguing of Prince's work, based on the seminal efforts of Per Nilsen and the... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by anildash at 1:48 PM on June 2, 2011

A particular kind of cropping
Does Photoshop Elements count as non-Photoshop? It's certainly less expensive.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:49 AM on May 28, 2011 marked best answer

visiting with family and splitting time
It's good that you & your wife are putting your mutual decisions first. Tell your dad you're meeting him way more than halfway by flying east, so he should drive down to see you. May also want to remind him that being 7 hours away by car is an hour longer than it takes to drive the entire length of England.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 5:52 PM on May 27, 2011

If I can't think of a dance group name, why would I be able to pick a clever title???
The Navel Academy
Navel Gazers
Pyramid Section
Hipsters
Sheikh Shake
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 9:36 PM on May 21, 2011

Let them eat Spam.
"Dear boss: I want to be helpful in our marketing efforts, because we make good products/services and it's a great way forme to put my technical skills to use for the company. Unfortunately, my research into our current plan reveals a few key tweaks we need to make:

* We'll need to use a professional delivery service like MailChimp. Using our current system will result in our messages not being delivered, future messages maybe not being sent, and can even affect our... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:19 PM on May 17, 2011

spice is the spice of life
I grew up in an Indian household, so haram masala was in all the usual dishes, as mentioned above. But use it to liven up non-Indian dishes like a good tomato soup, on a grilled cheese sandwich, with some salt on popcorn or potato chips, or in desserts as mentioned above.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:12 PM on May 7, 2011

I can stop whenever I want.... Too many frappuccinos?
No chance this is about the drinks. This is about how you make decisions, your views on money & spending, and how the two of you communicate and compromise.

There's no right answer about the coffee. But the phrasing of this question seems like you're looking for outside authority/affirmation of your correctness instead of understanding what's motivating your girlfriend's request at a deeper level.

Focus on that instead of being right or defending your habit.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 10:58 PM on May 7, 2011

Who watched the Search Engine Watchmen?
It's already been mentioned here, but the only way to know Google's views of your site is by using the Webmaster Tools. They will answer your questions.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:11 PM on May 3, 2011

What's my best bet for a hosted photoblog?
What robust features do you need beyond what TypePad does? From what you're describing, it sounds like you want one of the mid-range options, no?

And you know, you probably haven't looked at it in a while, but good ole' Blogger's got a lot of the capabilities you want, and you've already got one kicking around. :)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:05 PM on May 3, 2011

How can my girlfriend and I stay..."pure" until marriage ?
You've already had sex. You just haven't had one particular kind of sex. The good news is you both clearly want and enjoy it, save for concerns that you describe as coming entirely from outside institutions, not from the two of you.

So, if you'd like to continue having sex, adding additional activities to your repertoire, communicate honestly and openly with one another about a way to do that responsibly. Pretending you don't want it and then being unprepared for... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 11:05 PM on April 23, 2011

How should I respond to "how was your trip?"
"The trip was fine, but then it's back to real life. You know how it is." then change the subject if it's not a close acquaintance, or explain your loss if it's someone close enough to support you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:43 AM on April 23, 2011

Software for the Socially Minded?
Ushahidi was the first app that came to mind, but I'm also the director of the organization that leads the development of ThinkUp, and we're very concerned with getting better representation for ordinary citizens in policymaking and lawmaking decisions. We'd love to have you join the community!

(I'm also a judge for the CfA fellowships, and can't say enough good things about both CfA and CivicCommons.)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:00 AM on April 21, 2011
Oh! And last year we had a blast with Apps 4 Africa; lots of those projects are still going strong.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 7:02 AM on April 21, 2011

Self-Referential Name Check Mixtape
Prince has covered Salt N' Pepa's "Shoop" live.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 1:30 AM on April 20, 2011 marked best answer

Pop group backup dancers. What's the story there?
Slightly off-topic, but Prince mentioned that one reason he wanted to go in to show business was that he saw James Brown perform when he was a kid, and James had the prettiest girls dancing backup for him. It's clearly a self-perpetuating performance concept, and the ubiquity of group-dance videos on early MTV after Thriller accelerated it into a derigeur part of pop music spectacle by the end of the 80s. By contrast, even the elaborate shows of Kiss and P-Funk in the 70s weren't known for... [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 6:22 AM on April 18, 2011

MORE relationship hacks?
One way to screw it up real good is to compare it to other people's relationships or try to compete to be The Best. Great relationships are made from lots of little quiet moments, not great visible victories.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:53 AM on April 17, 2011

What to expect way before you are expecting
Seems abnormal to me. I have my two-month-old on my lap as I write this, and if I'd have even thought anything like this about my wife, I'd have felt like a total asshole, let alone actually saying it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anildash at 8:58 AM on April 16, 2011

Page: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 40