One of my uncles is very wealthy, and has offered help. I don't feel good about asking for money directly, but I'm happy to ask for work. So that's my first line of defense.
Don't ask him for money or for help finding work at first -- have the... [more] favorited 8 times, recently by shadowy_world Ask MeFi comment -
4 days ago
George Clooney's work in "Up In The Air" perfectly captured the airport-lounges-and-hotel-conference-room drabness of being any kind of Road warrior, whether it's sales, public speaking, consulting or whatever. Uncanny how well that film... [more] favorited 17 times, recently by scrump, rainydayfilms Ask MeFi comment -
7 days ago
Oh, man... I am so sick. This is the day everything changed. I was just there the day before yesterday, the World Trade Center.
There are so many people there....... [more] favorited 4 times, recently by marsha56, John Cohen MeFi comment -
8 days ago
If I were starting today, I'd learn Ruby on Rails. It's got the benefit of having been largely created *after* people knew how common web apps could be built with an eye to usability, and the culture around the platform encourages good aesthetics and... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by shadowy_world Ask MeFi comment -
10 days ago
nadawi articulates ally points better than I could. Consider those comments normative. Thanks to all who took the time to read the piece, and for those who think the solution is more complicated technological controls or somehow educating a billion... [more] favorited 4 times, recently by Monochrome, ellieBOA, Lexica, nadawi MeFi comment -
What's amazing is this news is breaking on MeFi, when it hasn't been reported yet on CNN or Yahoo. MSNBC's got the only mention, and that's just "NBC NEWS BULLETIN: Earthquake jolts Seattle area. No reports of damage, injury"
Good to see we turn... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by skwt MeFi comment -
2 months ago
I was on Prozac (for depression, not anxiety) a decade ago, a fact which means no more or less to me than that I was on Prilosec to treat acid reflux. As a result, others who have taken antidepressants have confided to me about their experiences, and... [more] favorited 32 times, recently by chloe.gelsomino Ask MeFi comment -
2 months ago
This is called "being in your twenties". It's typically solved by dating assholes for a few years and then not doing that ever again. [more] favorited 87 times, recently by guster4lovers Ask MeFi comment -
3 months ago
A few points to clarify misconceptions or inaccurate information:
There is a free version of Movable Type, available on our site, which like all versions of Movable Type consists of the exact same code. There's no crippleware, no nagware. We... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by sudama MeFi comment -
4 months ago
I am an unapologetic fan of AskMe, and consider it to be one of the greatest sites on the web. I've written at length about what an accomplishment it is, and I'm frequently asked to speak about things like web community and use it as a positive... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by mecran01 MetaTalk comment -
4 months ago
Considering you have no documentation of having Celiac's, communicate in extremely vague ways about your illness, mention triggers of illness that are exceedingly rare, are prone to irritability when discussing your needs, and aren't familiar with... [more] favorited 10 times, recently by keli Ask MeFi comment -
6 months ago
I'd first encountered Bill online years ago when he made a blog posting app, and then re-meeting him at a Princeton event last year, he'd begun by saying, "You probably don't remember..." but we immediately reconnected about the cool... [more] favorited 17 times, recently by Ziggy500 MetaTalk comment -
7 months ago
"No one ever admits to regretting having children, but is that just because it would be socially unacceptable to say so?"
I don't personally regret having my son, but I can absolutely imagine there are parents who do. One thing that's... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by rada Ask MeFi comment -
7 months ago
This question is framed incorrectly. Your company has a need for a maintainable CMS with some serious complexity. The question to start with is: What are the requirements for your new CMS system?
You've listed a formidable set of requirements... [more] favorited 6 times, recently by Anima Mundi Ask MeFi comment -
8 months ago
My son is this age, and we play with his wooden train set every day. A few choice books that I treasure because they don't annoy me no matter how often we read them:
* Spoon and Chopsticks
* I Want My Hat Back and This Is Not My Hat
* Not a Box... [more] favorited 4 times, recently by goodsearch Ask MeFi comment -
9 months ago
I saw that Vanity Fair link and immediately thought of this. For what it's worth, I decided in 1993 that Chelsea was going to grow up to be a secret hottie.... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by anildash MeFi comment -
9 months ago
Easy one for me, since this comes up with my son: "I'm glad he's one of the skin colors you like!"
I say it happily; they can choose to see it as a joke, or a criticism, or an embarrassing outing of their intent, or just a non sequitur.... [more] favorited 165 times, recently by jaynewould Ask MeFi comment -
9 months ago
This class is not here to teach you technology; Its purpose is to teach you interpersonal skills. Here, you're learning how to deal with someone who has positional authority, despite having less knowledge in a particular area than you do.... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by easilyconfused Ask MeFi comment -
10 months ago
If you'll indulge in a self-link, I've had a few dozen people tell me that this conversation about the negatives of diamonds helped make it easy for them to say no to diamonds.
For clarity's sake, if you do really feel emotionally that you like... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by John Cohen Ask MeFi comment -
11 months ago
Congrats! You're ready to move out. Thank them, tell them that their generosity has made you comfortable to ask for help in the future if you need it, but that their example has made you disciplined enough that you won't need it, and then GTFO.... [more] favorited 5 times, recently by nadawi Ask MeFi comment -
This topic comes up a lot over on Serious Eats, with threads such as what are your favorites from this store?, favorite Trader Joe's items, true confessions of a Trader Joe's virgin and best find from Trader Joe's?.
There's some serious foodies on... [more] favorited 9 times, recently by editorgrrl Ask MeFi comment -
I assume OUR cultural norms are going to be followed when I’m engaged in OUR culture. Who is "our" here?
I don't presume anyone's ever heard of me or anything I've done; I just know people who do know me on MeFi are aware... [more] favorited 3 times, recently by YoungAmerican, Rock Steady, sweetkid MeFi comment -
So why would any of us want to read your more meaningful work?
You might not, that's fine. Why would you want to read only my least meaningful work, if you're going to read any?... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by sweetkid MeFi comment -
(But hey, he should know this after all the lusers he's permabanned from his various web projects.)
I've literally never banned anybody from any website in my life, Mark. This is as inaccurate as your repeated attempts to take credit for... [more] favorited 2 times, recently by Elementary Penguin, sweetkid MeFi comment -
lalex, I wrote the piece in about 20 minutes. I spent months researching immigration policy and Zuckerberg's political action committee for a piece about the risks and opportunities of immigration policy, and distiller it into an easily digestible... [more] favorited 2 times, recently by nadawi, sweetkid MeFi comment -
kmz, I don't know where my personal line is - my behavior is always group one. But I have seen people interpreting that kind of thing as no big deal at all, and others lose their minds.
Not trolling about the pre-show warnings, just saying we all... [more] favorited 2 times, recently by allthinky, Foci for Analysis MeFi comment -
The messages at the beginning of the movie also say that copying a movie online is just like stealing a car.
I've heard a lot of fine expressions of preference against any distraction at a movie. I've seen little acknowledgment that someone could,... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by allthinky MeFi comment -
Don't hang out with assholes who think your family deserved to be brutally murdered. And work for social justice on your own terms; if you are known as an advocate for those without privilege, you'll be safe in almost any context.... [more] favorited 14 times, recently by oceanjesse Ask MeFi comment -
To those noting these apply outside the Internet, I agree wholeheartedly; the list just reflects that I learned the lessons on the Internet. To those noting none of these ideas are particularly novel, I agree wholeheartedly, but just wanted to... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by Bugbread MeFi comment -
First, I don't think MeFi's not part of the boom. Web 2.0 means a lot of different things to different people -- to some people it's an eye-rolling buzzword about trying to shoehorn community into the same old sites that flopped during the... [more] favorited 10 times, recently by Cannon Fodder MetaTalk comment -
Gotham and Power Broker are two of my favorite books ever, so they're hard to top, but Manhattan in Maps is a great overview (a light read, given that it's mostly just maps and not very long) and of course Jane Jacobs' Death & Life of Great... [more] favorited 1 time, recently by caek Ask MeFi comment -
I may suggest that, in addition to listing the artists that have started or succeeded this way, you also contextualize the loss of character (and as mentioned above, business revenue) that will come from this loss as well. Because as much as I agree... [more] favorited 4 times, recently by ghostbikes, nikkorizz, suedehead, thereemix Ask MeFi comment -
I can't tell you how many times I've seen a job that says "must have 4 years basket weaving experience" and all the male candidates come in saying, "I've only done basket weaving for 2 years, but I have some other related... [more] favorited 3 times, recently by embrangled Ask MeFi comment -
Not to rain on the parade, but this sort of isn't how the writing process for a sketch comedy show (or any mainstream TV show) works. Much of what writers are doing when pitching at SNL is trying to be the one whose sketch gets on air, preferably... [more] favorited 6 times Ask MeFi comment -
We wouldn't have guns without the Chinese, rock music without African slaves, or the word "Wednesday" without the Norse.
Imagine how it feels to have been on this site since nearly its inception, and to have someone say... [more] favorited 12 times Ask MeFi comment -
On a kitchen indispensability scale where 1 is a knife and 10 is a sous vide machine, the microplane is a 3 or 4. And yes, that price is too high. [more] favorited 1 time Ask MeFi comment -
I'm much more thankful for the many interests my wife and I didn't share when we met; learning those through her perspective has been one if the great joys of our relationship for me.... [more] favorited 2 times Ask MeFi comment -