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The Breakfast Manifesto
Most of coffeegeeks I know--myself included--don't actually drink huge amounts of coffee. It's about quality, not quantity.
My normal consumption is a trad cappo in the morning (I make mine at home with my Elektra Leva, which is a recurring treat- it's a spring-piston lever machine and it also steams milk better than any domestic machine I've sampled), a macchiato after lunch (lately at a superb local coffeehouse called Kawa Espresso Bar, which brews 49th Parallel beans... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 10:45 AM on July 22, 2008
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So, how do you spell it?
What kind of fucking provincial moron doesn't know what a Cornish pasty is? This guy is supposedly educated and not only has he never come across one (they LITTER Wisconsin and upper Michigan and I'm sure they're available all over North America- right? We have pasties in supermarkets here in Alberta), but when he sees the word he doesn't even bother to look it up?
Myles Teddywedger is spinning in his grave.
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at 9:25 AM on July 16, 2008
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I'm not here...
On competitive reality shows, it seems that a good strategy IS to "make friends." The Apprentice is a superb venue for networking, and "making friends" is the most beneficial of beneficial externalities a contestant can find on that show.
This reminds me of grad school. I thought (not in so many words, but still) that I was indeed there "not to make friends" but to get my degree. I was too focussed and short-sighted to... [more]
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at 5:02 PM on July 12, 2008
"so" not "to."
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 5:02 PM on July 12, 2008
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The most important thing you know
You learn "facts" in almanacs and in email forwards. University isn't about learning "facts" any more than it's about learning the alphabet.
Sociology, which I teach, is largely concerned with getting students to unlearn the "facts" they've imported into class with them. They all walk in as experts in, say, juvenile delinquency and they leave, if I've done my job, not "knowing" a fucking thing.
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at 2:09 PM on June 19, 2008
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Underground Railroad
Loving Canada and everything, but it's interesting that Halifax, which absorbed the greatest number of black refugees, also instituted rigid racial segregation policies and was and still is the only Canadian city with anything approaching black ghettoes. Montreal and Toronto have "black" enclaves comprising West Indian and African people, but in Halifax, segregation was forced.
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at 10:08 AM on June 16, 2008
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Remember the AIDS pandemic?
In effect, wealthy hetero westerners got a lot of money spent on them they didn't need, that could have been spent on other groups at much greater risk that needed it more.
AMEN. A-FUCKING-MEN.
I came out in 1983 having read that story about "the new gay cancer" in Rolling Stone. Within two years (give or take) I saw a PSA from some AIDS-prevention group that did not feature a single MALE actor, never mind gay men.... [more]
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at 10:03 AM on June 12, 2008
rtha, Caribbean men having sex with other men lie about it. There is horrific stigma surrounding homosexuality.
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at 2:18 PM on June 12, 2008
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High Water Everywhere
A swirling chocolate malt of angy liquid
hal9k beat me to the "swirling chocolate malt" part, but "angy"? And even if the writer meant "angry"- then, well, "angry"?
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 6:09 PM on June 9, 2008
I just want to be reassured that House on the Rock was destroyed.
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at 6:10 PM on June 9, 2008
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Not just for coffee shops and hair salons any more!
Punny names with "thai" are just too cheap to be funny. No challenge at all, and every city has a handful of those idiotic examples. How any got on a "50 best list" shows how moronically lazy the list is.
We had a place called "curl up and dye" in my very unfunny hometown (Hammond, Indiana) that advertised in my high school's yearbook, and I graduated in 1982. So maybe this list is really for the most uncreative puns?
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at 3:18 PM on June 6, 2008
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NYT Op-Ed labels Obama "muslim apostate"
I'm not saying Luttwak is correct (I'm sure he's not) but statements like this, from the ombud's response, are just astonishingly ignorant:
Abdullahi Ahmed An-Na’im, a professor of law at Emory University, said that Sharia, or Islamic law, including the law of apostasy, does not apply to an American or anyone outside the Muslim world.
Maybe not to Muslim "scholars" (and if a law professor is a Muslim scholar, then I... [more]
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at 10:23 AM on June 2, 2008
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Being depressed (or gay) is not all in your genes.
There are many things that are "genetic" but are still stigmatizing. Black people are "genetically" black. Fat people (many of them) are "genetically" fat. Red-haired people are "genetically" red-haired. Saying that sexual orientation is, at least in part, inborn (based on "genes" or some other biologically ascribed thing) has nothing to do with stigma. Being gay will always be stigmatized in the same way having Down's Syndrome will be... [more]
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at 1:46 PM on June 1, 2008
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where's the old lady?
'Why can't PEOPLE get along like this"?
They do. Some people get along fine with dogs. Some get along fine with cats. Some (so I hear) get along fine with rats. Some get along with all three.
Try stacking three cats and you'll wonder why they can't get along- you know, like people.
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at 7:09 PM on May 22, 2008
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WiiFit vs. WiiFat
The simplest measurement that indicates anything about (very) general overall health is Body Fat Percentage.
Where in the hell did you learn this? Body fat %age says nothing at all about "general overall health." It's completely possible to have good metabolic fitness and be fat. All body fat %age tells you is how fat you are, which has little to do with "health."
Get a "simple" blood test and... [more]
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at 12:09 PM on May 22, 2008
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New Yorkers and their quirks
There's all sorts of unspoken rules as far as walking down the streets goes
That's true in every city.
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 4:21 PM on May 20, 2008
New Yorkers often seem rude to non-New Yorkers because they appear to be obsessed not only with themselves, but also with how awesome they are for being New Yorkers-- and non-New Yorkers can't possibly understand how awesome and superior they are for being New Yorkers.
I never realised this before, but it's Vancouver, and not Toronto or Montreal, that's the New York of Canada. Though I doubt that New Yorkers have an additional sense of moral... [more]
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at 4:26 PM on May 20, 2008
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Ich bin ein Berliner
Loved Berlin when I visited in October ('07)- spent a week and a half in an apartment in Prenzlauer and walked all over the place. The overwhelming crush of hipsters was tiresome after a while, but at least these were (in many cases) the real thing living in relative penury (you can get an apartment in, say, Kreuzburg for 200 euros a month- you'd pay 10 times that in Amsterdam or, God help you, London); they aren't the trust-fund asshole poseurs you see in NYC. I'd move there in a heartbeat if I... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 9:46 AM on May 20, 2008
Also- when Germans laugh about JFK's "Ich bin ein Berliner," it's NOT because they are so stupid (like those apocryphal "No VA!" Mexicans) to not be able to tell when somebody is saying "I am a resident of Berlin" in the context of a fucking speech about supporting West Berlin after the fucking construction of the fucking Berlin Wall. Germans are (mostly) not morons, they KNOW what he was trying to say. What they giggle at was his ACCENT, and oldsters love to mock... [more]
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at 9:51 AM on May 20, 2008
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A google a day?
More health care innovation that doesn't do anything to actually provide care to anybody.
This isn't available in Canada, which is fine, because there is no use for it.
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 5:52 PM on May 19, 2008
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Hot or not? No, Pos or not!
About the only picture I would say "pos", with any confidence, would be Goatse.cx
Are there people, in 2008, who seriously have (A) never seen a man (and yes in 99% of cases it's a man) with facial wasting, and/or (B) wouldn't recognize facial wasting in a picture? Is this something that only gay men are aware of?
There are cosmetic treatments for facial wasting but not for the fat-wasting effects on other parts of... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 12:42 PM on May 19, 2008
Yep, rtha, agreed. In fact just today I read a little narrative on a never-you-mind discussion forum from an 18-y/o kid who had sex with a guy in a gym shower- guy entered him and pulled out after a few thrusts without coming, and that made it, in this youngster's mind, "not barebacking" because the guy didn't shoot off inside him. When somebody mentioned tat the virus is in pre-cum, the kid says, "we were in the shower, so the pre-cum got washed off.... [more]
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at 4:04 PM on May 19, 2008
ethnomethodologist, that's one of the more depressing stories I've heard lately. And all the more depressing because I'd bet it's quite common.
The weird thing is that this "it's only barebacking if he comes inside you," or "you come inside him," sounds exactly like the "I'll put a rubber on if it looks like I'm going to come" that I heard more than once after I came out- in 1983. And that I learned was unsafe- in 1984.... [more]
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at 5:37 PM on May 19, 2008
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RIP John Phillip Law
The man was simply gorgeous.
To each his/her own- I watched Barabarella for Ugo Tognazzi- yes, especially for the (fake) hirsutism. Hated pretty boys even as a little gay kid.
Ugo (from La Cage aux Folles) died in 1990 ... for him and all the sexy rugged types who get/got upstaged by Mr High Cheekbones and hairless bods:
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posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 9:55 AM on May 15, 2008
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Cheap Eats at Bloglander.com
Why didn't the blogger call them "nigger mcmuffins"? Does the moron even know what a "ghetto" is?
Fuck, it pisses me off when middle-class white (or non-black, whatever this tool is) people throw "ghetto" around. If the blogger weren't obviously American ($5 Subway subs and pretty much every other reviewed product is American) I could almost look past this, but no, American and as usual completely unreflective about this racist bullshit.
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 2:41 PM on May 10, 2008
Does the ethnomethodologist even know what a ghetto is?
What's with the ad hominem bullshit? I'm a sociology professor, of course I know what a "ghetto" is. Do you have some disability that doesn't allow you to read profiles on here?
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 1:31 PM on May 12, 2008
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Tales of the City
I've re-read the series too many times to count since 1986, and having recently read (and re-read) Michael Tolliver Lives, I have to a couple of serious questions:
1. Why have all of Michael's boyfriends been so Richie Cunningham BORING? A clean-shaven preppy blond followed by two clean-shaven preppy redheads (and grating characters too). All "regular guys" from nice WASP families and all just so 1970s "look at how normal we are" boooooo-ring. I never... [more]
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at 6:16 PM on May 4, 2008
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Take some time over your daily grind.
I've suffered a lifetime (almost, I started shaving at 13) of painful and ugly ingrown hairs on my neck because of the 360 degree direction those hairs grow, and even though I sport a (completely gorgeous) full beard I still have to subject myself to shaving there (i.e., my neck) unless I want to look like a homeless wolfman. So I like to get advice on shaving, I really do. What I DON'T like is the DOUCHEBAG MACHISMO in this fucking horrible narrative. Not only that, but the ...... [more]
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at 9:05 PM on April 28, 2008
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Austria asks: How did this happen again?
but the second most horrific part is that it could happen anywhere.
This is just ridiculously glib. It could not "happen anywhere." Not every father is this sort of monster. The vast, vast, vast, vast majority of people could never, in a thousand lifetimes, do something like this. The fact that it's rare is part of what explains its enormity.
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 5:11 PM on April 28, 2008
You know what kills me?
If you look at the photographs of the bathroom and the passage leading to the bedroom, it's obvious that she had tried to make things a little nicer, a little homier, for the children. There are pictures on the wall, and a plastic flower, and paintings of an octopus above the bathtub.
I see this as the only thing that can redeem this whole horrible story in even the tiniest way. It doesn't "kill... [more]
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at 6:08 PM on April 28, 2008
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Value-added housing costs
Since housing prices in T.O. are still pretty nuts
Not even a little nuts. You get what you pay for in TO and as far as I'm concerned it's a ridiculous bargain. Vancouver is twice as expensive and even Calgary and Edmonton- yes Edmonton- are now more expensive than Toronto. And what's amazing is that when you tell Torontonians this, they refuse to believe it.
You have it good. Not Montreal good, but good.
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 5:05 PM on April 28, 2008
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What goes up...
You know what else doesn't work? Pressing the elevator call button multiple times or after someone else has already pressed it and it is lit up. People like that should be sterilized. It's like the people who still walk around with their umbrellas open when it's not raining anymore.
What a douchebag comment. These people affect you how, exactly?
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 9:52 AM on April 15, 2008
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Google Transit
Moncton, but not the TTC or the most successful light-rail line in the Americas, Calgary's C-Train?
I sure hope this is going to grow.
posted to MetaFilter by ethnomethodologist
at 11:43 AM on April 8, 2008
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Hello, my name is I went to Harvard.
I couldn't disagree more. It is a class protection system, plain and simple.
Seconded. Legacy should count for absolutely nothing. In fact I'd give preference to first-gen college applicants if they've performed as well WITHOUT the outrageous social- and cultural-capital advantages of well-educated and/or rich parents. And I'm not talking about affirmative action here- far from it. I'm talking about kids like me, first-gen and the youngest kid in my... [more]
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at 12:33 PM on April 7, 2008