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"just read a bit of your blog. are you fucking serious?? you're "not allowed" to have this or to do that? and yet you're the one paying the bills?? OMG, please dump this user of a bf! this is not something that you should have to be dealing..." [
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4 days ago
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"i have been a designer in the apparel industry for years. tee shirt graphics are almost always paid at a flat rate, usually of about $150-500 per design. $500 is at the upper end. average is usually about $250-300. you do not retain rights, but you..." [
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3 weeks ago
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"H doesn't seem like the only immature one in this situation, what with you trying to insert yourself into a household in which someone doesn't like you, and giving only a few days notice of it at that. why would you want to live with someone who..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by tyrantkitty
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is there hope for someone who is highly narcissistic yet falls short of actually having narcissistic personality disorder?
favorited 12 times, recently by peggynature, livenlearn, sansgras, mi, TryTheTilapia, rhinny, yohko, greenspice, pazazygeek, nickyskye, hadjiboy, TheSecretDecoderRing
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"it will as long as you are expending more calories per day than you are consuming. period." [
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"your friend needs to go into his AIRPORT ADMIN UTILITY. when in there, he needs to select his apple base station which will open a new window with a number of tabs. at the top of that window, there should be the following: RESTART UPLOAD DEFAULT..." [
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"31??!! yeah, your life is definitely over so you should give up.
can people in their late 20s upwards stop acting like the fact that they haven't gotten hitched yet stop complaining about how it's already too late and they never will? for serious...." [
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favorited 4 times, recently by elisynn, ifjuly, chicainthecity, jenfullmoon
2 months ago
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"I've been in therapy for my parents' affection feeling conditional at times, so this is a bit deeper-seated; but mostly I've just had bad luck with past boyfriends.
if you have that sort of emotional history with your parents, your choice of..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by oogenesis
2 months ago
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"Thank You all though for the advice, but i am pretty sure what my decision will be.
if you had already made up your mind, what were you hoping to get out of askme? sounds like you pretty much came on here hoping to hear what you wanted to hear and..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by Ladysin
2 months ago
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"As xo said, sometimes a guy only has eyes for his love. Mine is like that, four years in.
just want to point out that just because a man isn't making a comment about the hotness of a woman doesn't mean he doesn't notice or isn't looking at said..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by scody
3 months ago
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"the "honeymoon" phase of every relationship (when the two of you are all lovey-dovey and super-affectionate and can't get enough of each other, etc) lasts from a few weeks to several months so it just might be that the two of you are moving..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by chicainthecity
3 months ago
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"OP, i believe the reason almost everyone who's answered on this thread has suggested therapy is that because there was enough (or not enough) in your orig post and in your responses that have raised the kinds of flags that therapy—and not what a..." [
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favorited 2 times, recently by Nattie, gyusan
3 months ago
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"…and therapy is completely out of the question for me.
why? because there seem to be deeply-rooted psychological issues at play here and to rule out therapy completely isn't doing you any favors in terms of getting what you want out of..." [
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favorited 5 times, recently by Nattie, lunasol, headspace, Deathalicious, Optimus Chyme
3 months ago
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"you're still in college and you mention that you are not financially independent. you are bringing a guest into your parents' home. they get to make the rules—not you. you can let them know that you would like to be staying in the same room as your..." [
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favorited 3 times, recently by BrotherCaine, longdaysjourney, These Premises Are Alarmed
3 months ago
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"You say you are 'proud of her." Unless she discovered the cure for cancer or mediated peace between Israel and the Arabs, please leave that for your parents.
You and she are no longer kids. Your age difference is now meaningless, you are..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by malapropist
3 months ago
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"Forktine you have completely missed my point. i agree with everything you are saying but i still say it's a crapshoot. i've looked and found someone, i've not looked and found someone, i've not been looking and found someone and i've not been looking..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by ifjuly
3 months ago
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"i agree with those who say that if, after a year with him—in what you both consider one of the best relationships you've had—the fact that you can't have this conversation with him means you don't have the relationship either you think you have,..." [
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favorited 8 times, recently by Ladysin, zadermatermorts, chicainthecity, curiousZ, Wilder, arianell, BryanPayne, np312
3 months ago
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"i think with online dating, when you haven't done a whole lot of corresponding back and forth already, it's fine not to reply.
also, i'm tired of people apologizing for wanting to actually be physically attracted to the person they date. god..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by thisjax
3 months ago
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"get a nice job and make lots of money and let people know you have it.
what? seriously? i guess…if the kind of woman you want to attract is one who places a premium on someone with a lot of money...." [
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favorited 2 times, recently by hjo3, Nattie
3 months ago
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"jesus. four years. four years dude. you've been idealizing this girl for years.
I really like this girl and all through the girlfriends I've had, this shop girl has been the one constant one. She's the only person in the world that I feel extremly..." [
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favorited 9 times, recently by hfbellefille, chunking express, aielen, re.becca, srrh, pinksoftsoap, mostlymartha, waitangi, rooftop secrets
4 months ago
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"no, you're the only one with any honest to god values and interest in love and commitment.
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please. come on. you just broke up with a girlfriend who cheated on you so of course you're gonna be all bitter and negative about love and sex...." [
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favorited 16 times, recently by hulahulagirl, Fin Azvandi, richardh, peacheater, rtha, Laura in Canada, Brandon Blatcher, headspace, annabkr, ellF, rdc, nasreddin, Nattie, wuzandfuzz, arianell, meerkatty
4 months ago
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"They do it because they think she's that awesome, I think she's awesome too (with this issue aside)…But, I think this is a more of case of her being lazy and her friends enabling her, than her being manipulative.
people who are truly..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by TryTheTilapia
4 months ago
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"nattie and i are saying the same thing; she just says it in a much more patient and gentle way than i have.
and fwiw: while i won't judge anyone for sexual curiosity and experimentation (and think that it's healthy on a lot of levels), i'm also a..." [
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4 months ago
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"my dog didn't bark until he was about six months old. the first time he did it, he whipped his head around, totally surprised, and looking for the source of the sound!
so it might just be that he isn't there yet...." [
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favorited 3 times, recently by damnjezebel, o0dano0o, iamkimiam
4 months ago
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"can we all agree in future that if anyone has a "name this font" question, to just go straight to WhatTheFont?" [
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favorited 1 time, recently by MiaWallace
5 months ago
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"Timing is often a convenient excuse, but I'm not always positive it is the real reason. If two people really want to be together, they will both put in effort to try to make it work.
piratebowling: i think you've actually just made the argument..." [
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favorited 2 times, recently by elisynn, HighTechUnderpants
5 months ago
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"Sorry you don't like rich people, violentk.
also, what?" [
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favorited 1 time, recently by waraw
5 months ago
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"Everybody's parents suck, okay? Now let's get drunk.
hear, hear! it's a beautiful friday afternoon! time to go out and enjoy it!" [
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favorited 1 time, recently by Blazecock Pileon
5 months ago
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"you sound like a good guy. so forget her. seriously. it's like i told my last boyfriend, no girl worth dating wants to date a project. find a girl who isn't looking to fix a guy; find a girl who is looking for a guy who had the courage and the..." [
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favorited 5 times, recently by desjardins, Wilder, Nattie, melorama, zephyr_words
5 months ago
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"you obviously get off on the attention you get from him. that's why you continue to talk to him, told him about being polyamourous, and why you accepted rides from him. he obviously gets off on the attention you give him as well, which is why he..." [
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favorited 4 times, recently by marble, srrh, litlnemo, klangklangston
6 months ago
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"my last boyfriend broke up with me on the phone. this despite living only 15 minutes away from me, despite the fact that we were supposed to get together that night, despite the fact that we had spent nearly every day together for the nearly five..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by aielen
6 months ago
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"if you are self-employed—and you declare yourself as such—then they would not be asking for "paystubs."
i have been self-employed for 6.5 years and in that time have bought a house and a new car. i've never had any problems with the..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by missmagenta
7 months ago
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"i've said this before and i'll say it again: meeting someone you click with is a complete crapshoot. you could be putting yourself out there or you could be taking a break and not looking, you could have an awesome personality or you could be a..." [
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favorited 3 times, recently by special-k, loiseau, melorama
8 months ago
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"do it because you think it will make you feel better. don't do it because you want/expect a response." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by rottytooth
8 months ago
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"I dunno.. Some kids are curious about smoking, but that's not really a good reason to let them smoke. Things like smoking, religion, and having sex should be controlled by the parent until such an age where the child is considered mature enough to..." [
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favorited 1 time, recently by divabat
9 months ago
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"Someone I'll keep anon emailed me saying that while it wasn't PC, part of the problem may be my sense of humor makes me seem too masculine and girls just can't get away with the types of things guys can. I think this is really true, unfortunately,..." [
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favorited 3 times, recently by loiseau, oneirodynia, mathlete
9 months ago
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"Am I totally off base for wanting *some* closure? I'm not even talking an "it's not you it's me" chat, since it was almost asymptote-like in its precipitous drop off. I'm saying, let me know that we're done at least... Is that too much to..." [
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favorited 3 times, recently by genmonster, chicainthecity, drjimmy11
9 months ago
