My nephew worked at CVS. The cashiers would use their card 100% of the time for non-card-carrying customers. For the reasons cited above.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 2:14 PM on July 3, 2008

Employ the metaphor “lifting spirit” for both the building and as a presentation object. You can install a sculpture with imagery of spirit taking flight somewhere in the central reception area. Echo this theme throughout the facility. I visualize this as being a glass or transparent piece that is not a literal interpretation of a bird. For the donor, you can present a small replica of the sculpture.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 2:37 PM on July 2, 2008

Also, consider that the more you interfere with their sorting it out, the longer it will take. Don't jump in to rescue the one kitty from the other unless there is major harm being done - the irregular spats are just part of their sorting it out.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 7:38 AM on June 19, 2008

If the sofa is open underneath (meaning no fabric skirt) use lengths clear plexiglas cut to fit.

Any building store or hardware store can even cut it for you if you're not so inclined.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 10:04 AM on June 13, 2008

When you're working in sketchup, it will make you think in three dimensions, which is great because there's often a lot of free "air space" that isn't evident using the plan view. Maximize your use of the upper square footage of your studio and you may find something that works. Build up when you cannot build out.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 6:48 AM on June 12, 2008

It is value engineering.

It can take place at different phases of a project:

1. If a Contractor is already selected by the Owner prior to completion of the design process, once a complete enough set of bid documents is available, the Contractor can make suggestions about items to "value out of the job" or propose alternate means of accomplishing something. This can be a dynamic give and take.

2. If it's a... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 6:39 AM on June 12, 2008

Only one data point here, similar to others, but I’m joining in FWIW….. I can somewhat put myself in your girlfriend’s place. I have great abilities in drawing, painting and sculpting. But, I have always taken that native talent for granted and never thought my work was anything more special than that of others. I even went to college on a scholarship to pursue a degree in fine arts. I have the talent. But, when I went to school, I admitted to myself that I didn’t really have the desire to... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:54 AM on May 27, 2008

Several things come to mind.

1. Was it a reaction to the new socks? Did you wash them prior to use? If your skin is sensitive, that's always a good thing to do prior to use of a new clothing item.

2. It could be "sea lice". See information at Diver's Alert Network - The jellyfish larvae can be a problem in some dive areas.

3. Was is chafing? Were you using a full-foot fin? If so, consider switching... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 6:20 AM on May 20, 2008

Depending on the thickness of paper you're looking for.... check out the scrapbooking section of a local craft store. There are loads of single sheet papers available, and some pre-packaged groupings of papers (pastels, brights, etc.)
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 2:43 PM on May 14, 2008

Reminder that she may get into the program and decide pretty quickly that it's not worth all the long hours, so think of things she can use otherwise too.

Great idea about the gift card to the supply store - it's invaluable. The colored pencils are great too. And, if you get the sweet set of xacto knives, get lots (really lots) of blades. I found that if I had a whole bunch of fresh blades available I'd change out for a fresh blade when the going got difficult.... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:30 AM on May 13, 2008

Be sure to check the insurance policies. Many of them will not accept a claim after a specified amount of time. Most likely, it's a 12 month limit. As others have stated, it can take a long time for the bills to trickle in, and it's a difficult thing to keep straight. I empathize with the difficult emotions this triggers.

My condolences. It's hard enough to deal with the loss, and the bills can bring those emotions back to the forefront. If you can find a friend... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:52 AM on May 9, 2008 marked best answer

I didn’t go anyplace in particular to find the person I wasn’t even looking for. I figured that I’d never get married, and didn’t really want to get tied down. But, I happened to transfer to the college where my brother was in grad school. I met some of his friends, and one seemed so different. (Well, OK, they were ALL different – he collected the oddest assortment of individuals.)

Everyone else graduated except for me and this other person who I found intriguing –... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:07 AM on April 22, 2008

hadjiboy,
There are grand gestures out there, but they may not be as seen on TV....or in books, or bollywood. They are everywhere and you have to see them in the light of the real world we live in. Some of the most grand of all acts are conversely small and quiet, depending on circumstances. While there’s always a place for the big thunderbolt, you have to augment your worthwhile desire for a great romance with multitudes of opportunities.

You are... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 10:53 AM on April 22, 2008

I work in architecture. We have continuing education courses available where topics such as Building Code compliance, hvac systems, or properties of a particular building component are discussed.

But, the most important part of my continual education is observing buildings. I am one of the few people who finds something to do in a waiting room other than read the old magazine or my book - I look at the space I'm in, and sometimes, if the wait is long, I go outside and... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:25 AM on March 28, 2008

The existing flashing is not correctly installed: Where the upper roof meets the chimney, a roof cricket should be installed. In addition, it does not look as if the flashing is shingled properly. See example here. I agree that the mortar needs to be repointed - at least - but it looks as if someone has already tried that (poorly). A chimney liner will help with the venting, but will not solve the through-brick/missing mortar water penetration. And, I think the situation is beyond... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:19 AM on March 7, 2008

Second the hot water bottle, and having something for distraction as immediate helps.

For long term, help with all the paperwork, red-tape, etc.

A funny card on the one-week anniversary.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:20 AM on March 6, 2008

The top "flap" is laid on underneath the black "tar" (asphaltic waterproofing) to direct water away at the top of an opening. For the bottom, the "flap" is placed on top of the waterproofing during window installation. This directs any water towards the outside. Think of how shingles are done. Similar concept: direct the flow of water outward.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 1:09 PM on March 5, 2008

Thanks!
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 2:19 PM on February 27, 2008

Hire a local seamstress/tailor to make clothing. Order fabric from somewhere such as http://www.greensage.com/fabricstr.html.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:41 AM on February 27, 2008

My Mom’s family spent time living there later on: here’s a brief of their story, FWIW…

While my granddad wasn’t involved in the construction of the canal, the family lived there before and during a good part of WWII. He was a master machinist working in the shops. He went over first, followed later on by my grandmom, and their two girls (one is my Mom).

The Panama Canal Company (?) ran their own cruise line to ferry personnel to and from the... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 7:25 AM on February 26, 2008

Agreeing with citron as stated upthread. Style 6126 may be quite flattering. A couple of years ago I was in a wedding in which bridesmaids were everything from a size 6/8 to 22. The halter type top looked best on everyone.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 2:30 PM on February 14, 2008

Don't know about the condition in the young, but my Mom has been through this, and we went with her to the doctor's to ask questions.

From your research, you know the basics - it's a problem in the vein serving part of the retina. My Mom's happened when she was on vacation. When back in the country, she went to the local eye specialist, who didn't offer many options. (small town) She then went to the Wilmer Eye Institute and was seen by Dr. Finklestein who is a... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 1:02 PM on February 14, 2008

From this description, it sounds as if the leak is where the roofing meets the sidewall. If you're looking for something other than a temporary fix, consider the source of the problem and fix that. The topcoat product (disclaimer, I'm not familiar with that one) will temprarily remedy the symptom, but probably not be a long-term solution. Just guessing, based on your description.

First, evaluate if there is sidewall stepped flashing installed. If so, repair the... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 7:46 AM on February 12, 2008

I've seen so many bad reviews of the dish drawers leaking and causing problems with electronics - do some careful research before investing the serious money into one of them.

Afraid I don't have any recommendations of smaller washers to offer, which is more to the point of your post....
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 8:14 AM on February 8, 2008

The testing agency will test surfaces if you explain what's happened and make clear your concern. (i.e. airborne fibers - they end up landing somewhere...) I'd also check the ductwork.

Yes, floor tile, ceiling tile, insulation frequently have asbestos in older homes. Asbestos could have been introduced when something was installed after the house was new. I don't have time to check, but, I believe asbestos became more prevalent after this house was built. Maybe the... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 2:42 PM on January 8, 2008

Ditto fleas, and they can be hard to see. Look on her tummy, or chin area for them, Hard to see them sometimes. It's easy enough to get rid of, and they can show up on strictly inside kitties.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 1:58 PM on January 8, 2008

Oh, I do feel for you. We went through something very similar with my GrandMom... First it was taking her meds, the memory lapses. Then it progressed into loss of schedule. We were taking turns staying with her. She'd be up nights and want to sleep during the day when we were at work... She would not eat enough, even when we made her favorite things. And, like yours, she didn't acknowledge that she had a problem. The docs weren't much help (in US) but it was either dementia or alzheimer’s.... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 1:56 PM on January 8, 2008

Not knowing the layout of your office...Guessing that it's the 2x4 overhead light fixtures...And, dirty/ near gone tubes can really reduce the light level, so it's not surprising that you'd notice the change.

If you can stand on your desk (Note: not the swiveling office chair!) and reach the light fixture, you can turn a bulb until it is not fully connected. If it's a fluorescent tube, it will stay in place - depending on the number of tubes in each light, you can... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 10:01 AM on January 7, 2008

I find that my paper trasher is happy as long as there is a piece of wrapping tissue paper on the floor for him to assault. Otherwise, look out toilet paper. He also loves plastic bags as a diversion.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 11:38 AM on January 4, 2008

Did you notice you can make a casual dress from a pattern they provide? Anyone else thinking of doing this? How fun!
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 7:28 AM on November 30, 2007

Label the foot rest "caboodle". Let others put the two together....
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 7:19 AM on November 29, 2007

Yes amthro, that's my problem with my NPR station. And, I have given them cash at a local event where they had a booth so as to not keep getting all the repeat-begs. I only give to them once a year, really, yes, really....

I made the "mistake" of giving to Doctors without Borders" last year. I know they have a good reputation for not badgering you with repeat solicitations, but, I have received 6 mailings this year - and a couple from similar... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 12:53 PM on November 14, 2007

OK, it's not too current, but there's nothing better for physical therapy than the theme from "Rocky"....
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:59 AM on November 14, 2007

Was a continuous vapor barrier installed under the slab? (something like 10 mil poly sheeting). The fact that you cite it as being near the exterior (?) walls makes me think it could be missing/have gaps near the perimeter.

FYI, efflorescence is a powder or stain resulting from deposition of water-soluble salts. In your case, it could be due to interior moisture (shower, cooking, etc) which can cause condensation at lower temperatures and can provide the moisture... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:58 AM on November 14, 2007

Gordion Knott,
Is the gray paint all the way to the walls? If not, that's a good thing to try, as painting/sealing the perimeter is not too difficult.

You are not going to be able to make a considerable difference in the slab temperature without considerable expense (and waste of energy.) Reducing the dew point/condensation could be tackled, but that would be a next step if the sealant failed to solve it.

If you believe the vapor... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 6:36 AM on November 14, 2007 marked best answer

My husband had it on numerous occasions. He did not have any adverse reactions. He was very healthy prior, so that may be part of it. We tried to read about all the drugs prior to infusion, so I'm not sure where we "officially" received the information. I believe the the first protocol was RCHOP, or CHOPR, depending on the order they were given. It wasn't fully sucessful, so I cannot ask him. And, I'm not willing to go through the big stack of paperwork that's part of it all....... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 1:29 PM on November 13, 2007 marked best answer

Knowing you love someone is to have a little "heart-jump" when you hear their voice, or feel their touch - be it friend/family/lover. It's also knowing your soul cringes everytime the other is faced with something horrible, and then diving in to support in any way. Knowing your soul sings when they achieve, and wanting the world to see them as the special person you know they are. And, always wanting to find what's right for them, regardless of how it impacts... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:54 AM on November 13, 2007

You may not be able to attack the noise as easily as his pocketbook. Ask him if the water issue is his main concern. If so, then tackle that issue from the cost savings side. Eliminate his requirement for watering.

The best solution is to introduce plants that tolerate dry times and increase the pervious surface to allow water to infiltrate the soil. Include mulch to retain moisture.

If he's set on installing a hard surface, appeal to his... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 1:44 PM on November 9, 2007 marked best answer

Do you mean an detail bank? If so, check out AEC Cad exchange.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 10:57 AM on November 9, 2007

One that I use to combat dry winter skin is Zim's products - the lip balm even works on the cracked lips I endured for years until I found their products. Website for Zim's
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:30 AM on November 9, 2007

So sorry for the loss. Infections can be very real and nasty stuff. My husband's infection was systemic and he did not survive. It's an awful thing. My condolences to all.
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 11:10 AM on October 30, 2007

It's amazing to watch any endurance ride. There are few shortcuts to getting the horse and rider in shape - basic time, pratice and skill. Plus, it helps to have a good ground crew at the stops. I know of one lady who competes on a regional level without a ground crew - and I have no idea how she does it!

Thanks for posting this po - it's not in my league of riding!
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 5:24 AM on October 24, 2007

I yam what I yam
Out of his gourd
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 12:15 PM on October 23, 2007

Energy AND water are both environmental impacts that you must consider.

As stated upthread, any newer model is going to be able to heat the water more efficiently. Saving energy where you can is a worthwhile goal. Depending on how you use the dishwasher, your results may be slightly different than stated on the energy use guidelines.

And, water is a BIG issue. If not right now in you area, I guarantee you that it is a problem elsewhere. And,... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 9:48 AM on October 19, 2007

There seems to be an inherent bias against suicide. Probably because some people mistakenly make the decision there is no other way to deal with their issues; be that depression, illness, being buried under heaping piles of crap, etc.

But, for those who have made a rational decision, what do we say? Is it best for them to make sure it’s done “right”, or, instead, to make a sincere attempt that fails and leaves them stuck in some incapacitated state. After that, we... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 2:28 PM on October 10, 2007

Yes, nickyskye, that's such a key comment: Survival is hard wired. Which is why it's so hard to understand suicide from the outside.
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 2:49 PM on October 10, 2007

Skwirl states: there is a load of tangible evidence that shows that untimely death and suicide causes ripples of grief throughout communities.

I would amend that to say that in some cases this it true. However, there are other cases when death or suicide does not produce a ripple of grief. While situations that are not our own cannot be judged by our yardstick, I see circumstances when death is a relief. Not all who seek a way out are depressed,... [more]
posted to MetaFilter by mightshould at 6:10 AM on October 12, 2007

Is the question about if this is a reasonable course load or about how to cope?

If you don't feel that you should drop coursework, perhaps you can adjust your approach to the courses. I went back to school after years off, and at first went gangbusters at everything until I realized I didn't have to do that.

I don't know if you are a perfectionist or have a goal of getting a super high grade, but that's one area you can scale back. An average... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 2:59 PM on October 11, 2007

Yep, tape with sticky side out. Bonus is that you don't have to be around to enforce. Some kitties are of the opinion that they don't do things only if the humans are around to enforce, so the passive tape always being there is great.
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 7:38 AM on October 11, 2007

Best of luck to you and Laila.

Sounds radical, but if you can attach a baby sock (with adhesive tape) over each paw, that will reduce the ability to scratch. Also, it may distract her. Perhaps distraction is the key. Alternate idea is to put something on her to lick off when you take off the collar - maybe she'll focus on that. Another option (sounds awful, but's nothing worse than she's doing to herself) is to wet her hair down, then remove - maybe she'll focus on... [more]
posted to Ask Metafilter by mightshould at 5:28 AM on October 4, 2007 marked best answer