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I prefer mine on ice.
Sadly, the article I read in an old print magazine - it was one of those cat magazines published a report/study done by an enterprising youngster for a science project so it's not available as a cite. The study compared the preference between cold water and room temperature of a couple of kitties.
The two bowls were exactly the same and placed next to each other. The order was switched randomly. I cannot remember the number of tests done. But, the conclusion was... [more]
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at 5:11 AM on July 25, 2008
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Growing pain in breasts?
I found that caffeine consumption had a direct correlation to the pains. I quit consuming it, and the pains went away. It's an easy thing to try. If it works, then you've found your culprit.
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at 12:24 PM on July 22, 2008
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Changing academic direction (am I being foolish?)
If your hesitant about contacting some professor, find someone who is actually out there, doing what you think you'd like to do. They can often answer more of your questions about the day-to-day stuff. Folks doing this work are passionate and if they are not too busy, will enjoy talking to you. And, if they are really busy, it's a great time to ask about internship options.
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at 2:07 PM on July 10, 2008
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Is there such a thing as hardhat etiquette?
On the construction sites I visit in the SE USA, I see a mix of full brim and front bill hard hats. All trades represented. There is no discernable pattern. However, I've seen a shift towards the full brim as it provides a bit more shade and protection. There seems to be no pattern for specific trades. Many companies have a signature color or type which makes it easier to identify their workers. My company has a style, so we are identifiable, and I'd think most folks would assume it's a... [more]
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at 5:39 AM on July 10, 2008
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Moving to Wilmington, NC
I was born in Wilmington and my family is still there.
For housing, I can recommend one agent who will steer you right. She worked with my nephew when he was looking for a place, and she took him to sooo many places, before he found his peculiar place that she probably didn't make much since his was not expensive.... She works at Intracoastal Realty and is Angie Wyatt. (note, not Angela Wyatt who's someone else.). I feel certain that she can give you good advice.... [more]
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at 8:01 AM on July 7, 2008
Update: Vet suggestion Needham Animal Hospital Dr. Jaffee. Doggy day care will depend on your location. There's a good one out Highway 17 just beyond Poplar Grove on the way to Hampstead (I don't think it will be near you.) Also suggested is A Dog's Dream for doggie care.
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at 9:23 AM on July 8, 2008
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The Crack Is Thisaway. Deals!
When we had one move in across from us, the cops gave us a special phone number to call to reach the detective assigned to that situation. They said we could give them him license plate numbers of any cars parked there; but warned us to stay away from doing anything to interfere. Do not approach any unknown cars was a big warning, FWIW.
They also requested that all of the local cops park there while they wrote their reports as a means to provide visual clue to the... [more]
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at 9:02 AM on July 8, 2008
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Standing Up for the Ultimate Work Table
According to Architectural Graphic Standards, a person who is 65.1" high finds a high counter height most comfortable around 41" high. Coordinate your needs with something in the range of your elbow/waist height, which is a bit lower. Delicate work should fall between 36" to 40" high. (BTW, a kitchen counter for this person would be most comfortable at 35").
To find the perfect height for you, get an adjustable ironing board and raise or... [more]
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at 5:30 AM on July 8, 2008
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No I do not have a CVS card
My nephew worked at CVS. The cashiers would use their card 100% of the time for non-card-carrying customers. For the reasons cited above.
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at 2:14 PM on July 3, 2008
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Help me create a wonderful thanks for a $1,000,000 guy
Employ the metaphor “lifting spirit” for both the building and as a presentation object. You can install a sculpture with imagery of spirit taking flight somewhere in the central reception area. Echo this theme throughout the facility. I visualize this as being a glass or transparent piece that is not a literal interpretation of a bird. For the donor, you can present a small replica of the sculpture.
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at 2:37 PM on July 2, 2008
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Meerrrrrooowww!
Also, consider that the more you interfere with their sorting it out, the longer it will take. Don't jump in to rescue the one kitty from the other unless there is major harm being done - the irregular spats are just part of their sorting it out.
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at 7:38 AM on June 19, 2008
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How Best to Set Up a Furniture Rearrangement Question?
When you're working in sketchup, it will make you think in three dimensions, which is great because there's often a lot of free "air space" that isn't evident using the plan view. Maximize your use of the upper square footage of your studio and you may find something that works. Build up when you cannot build out.
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at 6:48 AM on June 12, 2008
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Buildings? Design? What's it called?
It is value engineering.
It can take place at different phases of a project:
1. If a Contractor is already selected by the Owner prior to completion of the design process, once a complete enough set of bid documents is available, the Contractor can make suggestions about items to "value out of the job" or propose alternate means of accomplishing something. This can be a dynamic give and take.
2. If it's a... [more]
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at 6:39 AM on June 12, 2008
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Goodly drawn girl
Only one data point here, similar to others, but I’m joining in FWIW….. I can somewhat put myself in your girlfriend’s place. I have great abilities in drawing, painting and sculpting. But, I have always taken that native talent for granted and never thought my work was anything more special than that of others. I even went to college on a scholarship to pursue a degree in fine arts. I have the talent. But, when I went to school, I admitted to myself that I didn’t really have the desire to... [more]
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at 5:54 AM on May 27, 2008
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How do I keep from getting an ankle rash while snorkeling/diving?
Several things come to mind.
1. Was it a reaction to the new socks? Did you wash them prior to use? If your skin is sensitive, that's always a good thing to do prior to use of a new clothing item.
2. It could be "sea lice". See information at Diver's Alert Network - The jellyfish larvae can be a problem in some dive areas.
3. Was is chafing? Were you using a full-foot fin? If so, consider switching... [more]
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at 6:20 AM on May 20, 2008
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Origami paper in jewel tone colors?
Depending on the thickness of paper you're looking for.... check out the scrapbooking section of a local craft store. There are loads of single sheet papers available, and some pre-packaged groupings of papers (pastels, brights, etc.)
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at 2:43 PM on May 14, 2008
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Gift ideas for H.S. grad going into architecture
Reminder that she may get into the program and decide pretty quickly that it's not worth all the long hours, so think of things she can use otherwise too.
Great idea about the gift card to the supply store - it's invaluable. The colored pencils are great too. And, if you get the sweet set of xacto knives, get lots (really lots) of blades. I found that if I had a whole bunch of fresh blades available I'd change out for a fresh blade when the going got difficult.... [more]
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at 9:30 AM on May 13, 2008
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Is my mother's estate being scammed?
Be sure to check the insurance policies. Many of them will not accept a claim after a specified amount of time. Most likely, it's a 12 month limit. As others have stated, it can take a long time for the bills to trickle in, and it's a difficult thing to keep straight. I empathize with the difficult emotions this triggers.
My condolences. It's hard enough to deal with the loss, and the bills can bring those emotions back to the forefront. If you can find a friend... [more]
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at 5:52 AM on May 9, 2008
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What's love got to do with it?
I didn’t go anyplace in particular to find the person I wasn’t even looking for. I figured that I’d never get married, and didn’t really want to get tied down. But, I happened to transfer to the college where my brother was in grad school. I met some of his friends, and one seemed so different. (Well, OK, they were ALL different – he collected the oddest assortment of individuals.)
Everyone else graduated except for me and this other person who I found intriguing –... [more]
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at 9:07 AM on April 22, 2008
hadjiboy,
There are grand gestures out there, but they may not be as seen on TV....or in books, or bollywood. They are everywhere and you have to see them in the light of the real world we live in. Some of the most grand of all acts are conversely small and quiet, depending on circumstances. While there’s always a place for the big thunderbolt, you have to augment your worthwhile desire for a great romance with multitudes of opportunities.
You are... [more]
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at 10:53 AM on April 22, 2008
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Practice makes perfect
I work in architecture. We have continuing education courses available where topics such as Building Code compliance, hvac systems, or properties of a particular building component are discussed.
But, the most important part of my continual education is observing buildings. I am one of the few people who finds something to do in a waiting room other than read the old magazine or my book - I look at the space I'm in, and sometimes, if the wait is long, I go outside and... [more]
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at 9:25 AM on March 28, 2008
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need a new chimney?
The existing flashing is not correctly installed: Where the upper roof meets the chimney, a roof cricket should be installed. In addition, it does not look as if the flashing is shingled properly. See example here. I agree that the mortar needs to be repointed - at least - but it looks as if someone has already tried that (poorly). A chimney liner will help with the venting, but will not solve the through-brick/missing mortar water penetration. And, I think the situation is beyond... [more]
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at 5:19 AM on March 7, 2008
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Trying to fix a broken home...mate.
Second the hot water bottle, and having something for distraction as immediate helps.
For long term, help with all the paperwork, red-tape, etc.
A funny card on the one-week anniversary.
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at 5:20 AM on March 6, 2008
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Construction site curiosity
The top "flap" is laid on underneath the black "tar" (asphaltic waterproofing) to direct water away at the top of an opening. For the bottom, the "flap" is placed on top of the waterproofing during window installation. This directs any water towards the outside. Think of how shingles are done. Similar concept: direct the flow of water outward.
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at 1:09 PM on March 5, 2008
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Help me find a bridesmaid dress that doesn't suck!
Agreeing with citron as stated upthread. Style 6126 may be quite flattering. A couple of years ago I was in a wedding in which bridesmaids were everything from a size 6/8 to 22. The halter type top looked best on everyone.
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at 2:30 PM on February 14, 2008
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Valentines Day has left me partially blind
Don't know about the condition in the young, but my Mom has been through this, and we went with her to the doctor's to ask questions.
From your research, you know the basics - it's a problem in the vein serving part of the retina. My Mom's happened when she was on vacation. When back in the country, she went to the local eye specialist, who didn't offer many options. (small town) She then went to the Wilmer Eye Institute and was seen by Dr. Finklestein who is a... [more]
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at 1:02 PM on February 14, 2008
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Topcoat roofing product
From this description, it sounds as if the leak is where the roofing meets the sidewall. If you're looking for something other than a temporary fix, consider the source of the problem and fix that. The topcoat product (disclaimer, I'm not familiar with that one) will temprarily remedy the symptom, but probably not be a long-term solution. Just guessing, based on your description.
First, evaluate if there is sidewall stepped flashing installed. If so, repair the... [more]
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at 7:46 AM on February 12, 2008
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Looking for a small dishwasher.
I've seen so many bad reviews of the dish drawers leaking and causing problems with electronics - do some careful research before investing the serious money into one of them.
Afraid I don't have any recommendations of smaller washers to offer, which is more to the point of your post....
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at 8:14 AM on February 8, 2008
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Asbestos water heater?
The testing agency will test surfaces if you explain what's happened and make clear your concern. (i.e. airborne fibers - they end up landing somewhere...) I'd also check the ductwork.
Yes, floor tile, ceiling tile, insulation frequently have asbestos in older homes. Asbestos could have been introduced when something was installed after the house was new. I don't have time to check, but, I believe asbestos became more prevalent after this house was built. Maybe the... [more]
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at 2:42 PM on January 8, 2008
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Help with cat that sheds ashy particles
Ditto fleas, and they can be hard to see. Look on her tummy, or chin area for them, Hard to see them sometimes. It's easy enough to get rid of, and they can show up on strictly inside kitties.
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at 1:58 PM on January 8, 2008
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Dealing with memory loss in older people
Oh, I do feel for you. We went through something very similar with my GrandMom... First it was taking her meds, the memory lapses. Then it progressed into loss of schedule. We were taking turns staying with her. She'd be up nights and want to sleep during the day when we were at work... She would not eat enough, even when we made her favorite things. And, like yours, she didn't acknowledge that she had a problem. The docs weren't much help (in US) but it was either dementia or alzheimer’s.... [more]
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at 1:56 PM on January 8, 2008
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Blinded by the (fluorescent) office lighting
Not knowing the layout of your office...Guessing that it's the 2x4 overhead light fixtures...And, dirty/ near gone tubes can really reduce the light level, so it's not surprising that you'd notice the change.
If you can stand on your desk (Note: not the swiveling office chair!) and reach the light fixture, you can turn a bulb until it is not fully connected. If it's a fluorescent tube, it will stay in place - depending on the number of tubes in each light, you can... [more]
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at 10:01 AM on January 7, 2008
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Hey, Stop Chomping the Charmin!
I find that my paper trasher is happy as long as there is a piece of wrapping tissue paper on the floor for him to assault. Otherwise, look out toilet paper. He also loves plastic bags as a diversion.
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at 11:38 AM on January 4, 2008
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Donate a little without being pestered for more?
Yes amthro, that's my problem with my NPR station. And, I have given them cash at a local event where they had a booth so as to not keep getting all the repeat-begs. I only give to them once a year, really, yes, really....
I made the "mistake" of giving to Doctors without Borders" last year. I know they have a good reputation for not badgering you with repeat solicitations, but, I have received 6 mailings this year - and a couple from similar... [more]
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at 12:53 PM on November 14, 2007
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The iPod of recovery
OK, it's not too current, but there's nothing better for physical therapy than the theme from "Rocky"....
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at 9:59 AM on November 14, 2007
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Annoying dust-up in my basement
Was a continuous vapor barrier installed under the slab? (something like 10 mil poly sheeting). The fact that you cite it as being near the exterior (?) walls makes me think it could be missing/have gaps near the perimeter.
FYI, efflorescence is a powder or stain resulting from deposition of water-soluble salts. In your case, it could be due to interior moisture (shower, cooking, etc) which can cause condensation at lower temperatures and can provide the moisture... [more]
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at 5:58 AM on November 14, 2007
Gordion Knott,
Is the gray paint all the way to the walls? If not, that's a good thing to try, as painting/sealing the perimeter is not too difficult.
You are not going to be able to make a considerable difference in the slab temperature without considerable expense (and waste of energy.) Reducing the dew point/condensation could be tackled, but that would be a next step if the sealant failed to solve it.
If you believe the vapor... [more]
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at 6:36 AM on November 14, 2007
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rituxan infusion reactions
My husband had it on numerous occasions. He did not have any adverse reactions. He was very healthy prior, so that may be part of it. We tried to read about all the drugs prior to infusion, so I'm not sure where we "officially" received the information. I believe the the first protocol was RCHOP, or CHOPR, depending on the order they were given. It wasn't fully sucessful, so I cannot ask him. And, I'm not willing to go through the big stack of paperwork that's part of it all....... [more]
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at 1:29 PM on November 13, 2007
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What's it like to feel loved?
Knowing you love someone is to have a little "heart-jump" when you hear their voice, or feel their touch - be it friend/family/lover. It's also knowing your soul cringes everytime the other is faced with something horrible, and then diving in to support in any way. Knowing your soul sings when they achieve, and wanting the world to see them as the special person you know they are. And, always wanting to find what's right for them, regardless of how it impacts... [more]
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at 9:54 AM on November 13, 2007
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Help me keep our landlord from ripping out the yard to replace with concrete!
You may not be able to attack the noise as easily as his pocketbook. Ask him if the water issue is his main concern. If so, then tackle that issue from the cost savings side. Eliminate his requirement for watering.
The best solution is to introduce plants that tolerate dry times and increase the pervious surface to allow water to infiltrate the soil. Include mulch to retain moisture.
If he's set on installing a hard surface, appeal to his... [more]
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at 1:44 PM on November 9, 2007
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Moisturizer for winter skin?
One that I use to combat dry winter skin is Zim's products - the lip balm even works on the cracked lips I endured for years until I found their products. Website for Zim's
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at 5:30 AM on November 9, 2007
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Green but Clean (dishwashers)
Energy AND water are both environmental impacts that you must consider.
As stated upthread, any newer model is going to be able to heat the water more efficiently. Saving energy where you can is a worthwhile goal. Depending on how you use the dishwasher, your results may be slightly different than stated on the energy use guidelines.
And, water is a BIG issue. If not right now in you area, I guarantee you that it is a problem elsewhere. And,... [more]
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at 9:48 AM on October 19, 2007
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Can't find any time
Is the question about if this is a reasonable course load or about how to cope?
If you don't feel that you should drop coursework, perhaps you can adjust your approach to the courses. I went back to school after years off, and at first went gangbusters at everything until I realized I didn't have to do that.
I don't know if you are a perfectionist or have a goal of getting a super high grade, but that's one area you can scale back. An average... [more]
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at 2:59 PM on October 11, 2007