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Help me figure out what is on this guy's mind who has been sending me conflicting signals since last year.
@ Pink Superhero
Although I do not rule out the possiblity that I told him about polyamoury because I wanted to convey to him that I am still available, but I think there could be other reasons too. Perhaps what I wanted to convey to him was that I lost interest in him because he wouldn't take a stand about me. My finding another guy had nothing to do with it.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ria
at 8:49 AM on April 1, 2008
@nasreddin
If that was his intention, why did not he go for dinner with me? And how does his continuing to flirt with me and offer me rides home help him sleep with me?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ria
at 8:54 AM on April 1, 2008
@ LoriFLA
When I asked him out to dinner, wasn't it obvious that I was fully aware what it might lead to? And doesn't that indicate that I am willing to give the casual relationship a try?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ria
at 9:03 AM on April 1, 2008
@ jacalata
It was fairly clear between us what "dinner" meant. He had asked me out on dinner dates earlier but I had refused saying that I knew what it might lead to. So I think he knew what I meant.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ria
at 9:06 AM on April 1, 2008
Thanks for going through my rather lengthy post and responding to me. This really helps put things into perspective.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ria
at 4:17 AM on April 2, 2008
