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Looking for a gardening diary
I rocked the boat and now I'm scared. How do I process this emotion.
I agree with several of the commenters above and in particular with une_heure_pleine.
To further potrzebie's question: before this initiative, did you have the kind of relationship with your supervisor and mentors that would let you ask them what they thought of your strategy & tactics for your work? If so, then it's okay to ask them for feedback on how you went about this initiative. At this point they may have positive or negative or neutral feedback for you but… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 10:17 AM on April 25, 2017
From the beginning
Daniel Davies for making finance and economics more approachable.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 8:17 AM on April 23, 2017
Yr favorite niche podcast
You might like this earlier Ask of mine about "how I made/fixed this software" podcasts by women.
The Untitled Kondabolu Brothers Podcast: Ashok and Hari Kondabolu and their occasional guests have genuinely funny and insightful conversations about growing up nonwhite in the US, culture, family, comedy, complicity, fame, and whatnot. I deeply recommend this especially to any other members of the South Asian diaspora who grew up in the US. Irregularly released.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 7:56 AM on April 23, 2017 marked best answer
Getting up to speed on Blockchain (beyond bitcoin and currencies)
PokitDok's doing DokChain which is for medical records.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 2:27 PM on April 17, 2017
Don't know what to do in moving situation, think I hurt my best friend
Imagine the next time you try to organize buying milk and then you thought that she thought and she looked at you a certain way and you kind of tried to sort of suggest, and she assumed you’re getting it, but you don’t know her preference, and … three pages later there's hard feelings 'cause you’re out of toilet paper or something.
Quoted for truth.
People who are going to live together need to be able to discuss their own preferences and plans,… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:29 AM on April 3, 2017
why are bureaucracies bloated?
I think Catseye has said many true and useful things above!
Any organization that wants to do things fairly and systematically despite turnover in staff has to set up rules and processes that will likely tend, in the long run, towards excess, and thus needs counterbalancing. There need to be forces that have the power to resist additional layers of process, or the power to say "let's simplify this" and then actually get consensus for that change (or to impose… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:13 AM on April 3, 2017
Protesting Paul Ryan in style
#BetterWay ? No way!
Your cowardice will come right back AHCA
And consider using the falsum symbol.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 7:43 PM on March 23, 2017
Creative/fun way to celebrate first home purchase?
What are your religious beliefs? You may already have a ritual in your tradition that would be appropriate -- maybe ask your elders? For instance, maybe you could walk around the exterior and the interior of the house, reflecting with gratitude and well-wishes on the lives of the people who have lived there before and who will live there after you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 12:20 PM on March 12, 2017
Friends, Romans, Countrymen, lend me your fan fiction!
Terrible: I am not going to look this up right now but I have been reduced to giggles by a piece of Star Trek fanfic called "The Next Penetration of Deanna Troi".
Wacky: "The Morning After" by ambyr, on Pinboard and Delicious.
Awesome: "Fifty Years in the Virtuous City" by Leo Mandel (on Sultana's Dream by Roquia Sakhawat Hussain), "Sisters of Bilhah" by… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:18 PM on March 9, 2017
Examples of happy negotiations with unexpected outcomes
Single traveler in search of trip ideas. Got any good ones?
I did the Coast to Coast walk across England twice and had a fantastic time -- both times I went as part of a very small group (a pair or trio), but I saw other people walking alone and they often had ad hoc company with the rest of the accidental cohort that formed among people walking at about the same speed as them and who'd started off on the same day.
I haven't done REI Adventures before but I see they have a best-of version of the walk as a group trip.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 9:27 AM on February 28, 2017
Any advice on how to help a struggling child?
If for whatever reason you decide you want an independent screening/evaluation other than the one your local public school district provides, that is a service Minds In Focus provides.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 8:10 AM on February 28, 2017
How to volunteer writing and editing services?
Summarize good internet security and privacy practices... GO!
The Surveillance Self-Defense site by the Electronic Frontier Foundation is particularly useful, as is this set of tips from Simply Secure.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 12:40 PM on February 24, 2017
I wanna get good. Where to start?
Seconding the Recurse Center, which I attended as well and blogged about as I attended. It's free to attend. Also, you mentioned you're a woman -- they have grants to support women's living costs for the 6-12 weeks of attendance. If you ask your job whether you can go on a 12-week unpaid sabbatical to become a better programmer they have many incentives to say yes.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:57 AM on February 23, 2017
How should I react to my wife's bad moods?
A thing I learned from the film Inside Out (based on Paul Ekman's emotions research) is that anger is, at heart, a response to perceived unfairness. It sounds like your wife is passionate about the way the world ought to be and perceptive about the ways in which it falls short, and sometimes that comes out as altruism and charity work, and sometimes it comes out as criticism and anger. I offer this in case that reframing helps you see what is happening when she's angry.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 7:11 PM on February 9, 2017 marked best answer
What are reputable international media outlets?
One way I keep up with Indian news is via The Caravan.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:56 PM on February 9, 2017
alternate histories pls
Recommended Reading for Kicking Ass at Work?
I hear the Support Driven community, about providing customer support and running support teams, is really helpful -- probably a good idea to join their online community and check out their resources.
On understanding and changing organizational processes: Switch: How to Change Things When Change Is Hard by Chip Heath and Dan Heath. Switch has a lot of good ideas and case studies about how to change institutions, companies,… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 5:14 AM on December 16, 2016
is there a job for humanities PhD?
If you're interested in curriculum design and you want to put in some volunteer work so you can get a project on your resume, consider helping with Software Carpentry or Data Carpentry.
If you'd like to volunteer to research/audit the user experience of some open source projects, consider reaching out to Simply Secure.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 5:01 AM on December 16, 2016
Place in Astoria, Queens for a casual wedding with fewer than 10 people?
Astoria Bier and Cheese - wide beer selection and close to the subway
Queens Kickshaw - fine beer & cider selection and very close to the subway
If it does not need to be a venue with food/drink: Astoria Bookshop - also very close to the subway - or the Museum of the Moving Image - fairly close to the subway
If it's not way too cold: Socrates Sculpture Park or Athens Square Park which are lovely outdoors parks, the latter of which is very close to the subway
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 8:27 PM on December 12, 2016 marked best answer
Readings and songs for a Trump presidency
"Somebody Will", a short song that is good for resolve and hope.
Vienna Teng's song "Level Up", similarly.
Via Hillary Rodham's Wellesley commencement speech, the poem "The Art of Making Possible", by Nancy Scheibner.
The very end of "A More Perfect Union", starting "There is one story in particular that I'd like to leave you with today".
Allen Ginsberg's poem "America".
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:12 AM on November 14, 2016 marked best answer
Another Obama speech I think is appropriate.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 11:56 AM on November 20, 2016
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:48 AM on November 29, 2016
Knowing the warning signs
This Facebook post is by Timothy Snyder. I believe it's the historian Timothy Snyder who specializes in European history.Watch out for the paramilitaries. When the men with guns who have always claimed to be against the system start wearing uniforms and marching around with torches and pictures of a Leader, the end is nigh. When the pro-Leader paramilitary and the official police and military intermingle, the game is over.posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 9:06 AM on November 19, 2016
Hindu temple in the Poconos with painted steps
I called my mom and she said the temple used to be known as the Raja Rajeshwari temple and then became the Sharada Peetham temple under the aegis of Sringeri Sadhana. I'll have to investigate further because I still can't find any photos online depicting the stairway I remember.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:39 AM on February 5, 2016
Let's make moving and packing FUN again
Every day, sometime towards the end of the day, spend at least 60 seconds consciously reflecting on what you got done that day. There'll be an impulse to think "but there's so much left to do!" Yes, but, still, take the 60 solid seconds to reflect on your achievements. That'll help a bit.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 3:34 PM on September 11, 2016
bad movie art movies
The TV show Seventh Heaven is ... Aaron Spelling (Melrose Place, Models, Inc., Beverly Hills 90210) producing a dramedy soap opera about a Christian minister and his family. The explicit religious element combines with the usual Spelling schlock to make something I think you'd like to try.
Books: I haven't read Jonathan Livingston Seagull, any of the works of Chuck… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 7:14 AM on June 22, 2016
Best of IKEA
A person I know who makes some of her family's clothes mentioned that the linen fabric IKEA sells is an amazingly good bargain.
My relatives who live in India reallllly like the IKEA tealight candles and will request that family members making trips to the US bring back 100-packs of them.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 3:57 PM on March 6, 2016
Nonfiction podcasts that are nothing like NPR or This American Life?
Children of Tendu has super shop-talk style discussions on the TV screenwriting business. Very conversation-y and pleasingly unpolished.
Wolf 359 is a scifi drama podcast that grew on me -- the use of music is especially neat. If you enjoyed the harrowing bits of Battlestar Galactica then season two might especially delight you.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 7:55 PM on January 8, 2016
Catalog and organize all the things!
Tell the denizens of the Wikipedia Teahouse about your favorite topics and they'll help you find articles and media to categorize and sort.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 3:54 AM on November 2, 2015
Why use a sentence instead of "anónimamente"?
I am grateful for all of the wisdom here. Thanks! I understand a little better now.
If anyone could point to an explanation by the public servants who decided on the current phrasing, I'd love that. Otherwise I am reasonably satisfied!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 1:48 PM on September 17, 2015
Where can I rent a Dahon folding bike in New York City?
stachemaster, I called BFold yesterday and they said they don't do rentals. I do intend on visiting them during my buying process, though!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 7:16 AM on August 15, 2015
how to find or create women-only gatherings, groups, clubs, and meetups?
You could run a one-off get-together for sure!
Consider mindfulness meditation, hiking, and reading romance novels. The romance novel reading & writing community skews very heavily female.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 2:12 PM on August 13, 2015
Help me think of sets of 6
How do I start working as an on-line coding instructor/mentor?
Consider joining a firm that runs paid trainings, or looking for adjunct opportunities in online extensions of accredited colleges.
Take the Software Carpentry instructor training, which covers "the basics of educational psychology, instructional design, and how to apply both to teaching programming to adults." Once you've done that, you can tell the rest of the SC community that you're happy to do online/remote training and tutoring.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 1:36 PM on August 10, 2015
Tailor a swift infosec reading list
Try giving these readings a skim. The author is a cybersecurity researcher who cares about protecting people's security and privacy, and understands that this always also means caring about the usability of our approaches. He reads recent papers from other security researchers and summarizes them, connecting them to the larger context of trends, weaknesses, important ongoing efforts, and so on.
If you will have to consider the security of web applications, also check out… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 1:29 PM on August 10, 2015
San Francisco for a Saturday
I need a project. Or a job. Or a hobby. Or SOMETHING ... at home
What song lyrics have inspired you?
The entirety of Vienna Teng's "Level Up". Also I have a "Perseverance!" playlist:
"Tubthumping" (They Might Be Giants version)
"Give Paris One More Chance" by Jonathan Richman
"Be Born" by Tally Hall
"The Sadder but Wiser Girl" from The Music Man soundtrack
"This Too Shall Pass" by OK Go
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 9:37 AM on August 15, 2014
Candid conversations about black-white relations in the US
Check out "The Logic of Stupid Poor People" by Tressie McMillan Cottom, the personal narrative part of "Black Like Them" by Malcolm Gladwell, and Kronda Adair's blog.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 8:18 AM on June 17, 2014
Children or no children
Fanfiction book club
Colbert & Stewart RPF (sort of): "The Thing With Feathers" and "Silent"
Indian women's utopia: "Fifty Years in the Virtuous City"
Accessible either to West Wing fans or Dar Williams fans: "A Great and Gruesome Height"
Star Trek reboot: "Lunch and Other Obscenities"
Jurassic Park: "A Year of Women"
Dykes to… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 6:39 AM on May 7, 2014
Where can I find "real" work-from-home jobs?
Several of these telecommuting internships involve writing, editing, or graphic design.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 9:18 AM on April 30, 2014
Help me find fiction books that make me feel happy and alive!
Seconding The Pushcart War & The Phantom Tollbooth. In other children's/YA, try Gordon Korman's The Twinkie Squad.
Maureen McHugh's China Mountain Zhang's ending made me super happy and alive.
The first book in Pat Barker's "Regeneration" trilogy (Regeneration) had a similar effect on me (the trilogy on the whole can be a downer, though).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by brainwane at 11:17 AM on April 22, 2014
Ultra-friendly free forum software?