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How to find yourself again

I lost myself somewhere in the fray - help me draw a map to get myself back.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Eudaimonia at 1:53 PM on July 8, 2008 (26 comments)

Where Can I Find Self-Reflective Profiles?

Where can I find examples of profile-writing that say as much about the profiler as the profilee?
posted to Ask Metafilter by themadjuggler at 11:27 AM on July 8, 2008 (9 comments)

What gets blogs noticed?

What gets blogs noticed?
posted to Ask Metafilter by LSK at 5:37 AM on July 8, 2008 (21 comments)

Are there seeds in this applecore?

How do I build a stronger personality?
posted to Ask Metafilter by self at 10:23 PM on July 7, 2008 (12 comments)

Truth Vandals?

XKCD mocks Wikipedia's "in popular culture" sections. Wikipedians take the idea seriously. The article ("Wood"). goes on lockdown. But is adding correct, even if useless, information really WikiVandalism?
posted to MetaFilter by l33tpolicywonk at 10:16 PM on July 7, 2008 (70 comments)

Generally I try not to admit anymore that I actually used to read fanfiction, but here I'll make an exception.

Is there a term for the type of person that tends to becomes an obsessive fan of a particular book, movie, TV show, etc.? Sometimes obscure, sometimes not so obscure?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Quidam at 4:05 PM on July 7, 2008 (30 comments)

Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst

Can anyone help me find any books, serious or not, on surviving a global catastrophe (of any kind), and/or any books with a central theme of love and hope (as a sort of guide to living happily while dealing with an extreme anxiety over the future of the planet and humanity)?
posted to Ask Metafilter by anoirmarie at 3:38 PM on July 7, 2008 (22 comments)

Ideas for awesome gifts for our bridesmaids and groomsmen?

My fiancee and I are getting married in a month. We have kind of an embarrassingly large bridal party but we love them and want to give them cool presents! We're on a budget (we could probably spend up to $40 per attendant). We are open to creative ideas. Wedding is in San Francisco, and many attendants will be flying in from distant places.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Tren at 2:55 PM on July 7, 2008 (23 comments)

How Ordinary People Do Extraordinary Things

MeFite scrumtralescent thought it would be fun to interview people who dared to take a chance and do something cool or exciting, like leaving their jobs to travel for a year, picking up an unusual hobby or starting their own business, and then share these interviews via a website for all to enjoy. So she did, and the result was 'The Life Less Traveled: How Ordinary People Do Extraordinary Things…And How You Can, Too!' [via mefi projects]
posted to MetaFilter by Effigy2000 at 6:05 PM on July 5, 2008 (10 comments)

Help me plan a sabbatical

I think after 20 years in my post it is almost time for a sabbatical leave. Should my board approve this idea, please help me to think about some fun and educational plans for a year-long sabbatical adventure. I am in the non-profit health sector, an MD executive with a primary focus in community health. I am especially interested in developing my insights and leadership towards the broad determinants of health from practical community based approachs. I think travel out of the US would be of interest to both my family and me.
posted to Ask Metafilter by dougiedd at 6:11 PM on July 5, 2008 (12 comments)

How do I make more women friends?

Where do I meet other geeky, smart women?
posted to Ask Metafilter by sutel at 8:51 AM on July 3, 2008 (22 comments)

Is there a specific term to describe an advertising slogan that actually makes you less sure about that aspect of the product?

Is there a specific term to describe an advertising slogan that actually makes you less sure about that aspect of the product? Examples inside.
posted to Ask Metafilter by HeroZero at 11:01 AM on July 3, 2008 (20 comments)

uh, this wasn't supposed to happen

i started running 2 months ago and have gained 10 lbs. i haven't been eating or drinking more--in fact, i've been eating more healthfully, if anything. and it's not muscle--i've gone up a dress size, and my rings are tight. wtf?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 6:39 AM on July 3, 2008 (31 comments)

Design Ideas, Web Trends, and Tutorials

Web Designer Wall is the personal weblog of Nick La who is N.Design Studio. He talks about design ideas he has, design tutorials from Photoshop to CSS, etc., and trends in modern web design. (see previous)
posted to MetaFilter by netbros at 4:29 AM on July 3, 2008 (7 comments)

Reading recommendations for a 14-year-old girl?

I've sponsored the daughter of friends in a charity event. As part of the sponsorship, I can name a book for her to read. Here's where it gets interesting -- My friends' politics are left of center, while mine lean to the right, and I'd like to introduce their daughter to something she might not encounter otherwise. It should be age-appropriate and not over the top (like Atlas Shrugged). All suggestions appreciated.
posted to Ask Metafilter by quidividi at 11:39 PM on July 2, 2008 (54 comments)

My time is precious?

What techniques can I use to make myself less available to others?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 7:56 AM on March 19, 2008 (13 comments)

People management

People Management: How to make time for people? Family-members, friends and others.
posted to Ask Metafilter by The1andonly at 10:57 AM on July 2, 2008 (21 comments)

Setting realistic freelance goals and sticking to them

Freelancers and other creative self-employed types: How do you set realistic, meaningful work goals and stick to them when the main person you're answerable to is yourself?
posted to Ask Metafilter by El Curioso at 1:06 PM on July 2, 2008 (11 comments)

Recommend some ghostly mystery books, please!

I'm looking for supernatural mysteries!
posted to Ask Metafilter by giggleknickers at 1:48 PM on July 2, 2008 (24 comments)

Proposing the proposal

How do I submit a book proposal to a publisher?
posted to Ask Metafilter by goalyeehah at 4:43 AM on July 2, 2008 (3 comments)

Who's the blond?

This Spring Swedish super-blogger Blondinbella aka Isabella Löwengrip is causing a huge controversy in Sweden. 17 year old Isabella Löwengrip writes Sweden's most read and most discussed blog, Blondinbella. (Here is number two FWIW.) Löwengrip started blogging to recruit members to the political party Moderaterna (what passes for right wing in Sweden) but she discovered readers were far more interested in reading about what she was wearing.
posted to MetaFilter by three blind mice at 2:42 AM on July 2, 2008 (25 comments)

Hūsker Dū?

Is there a word or term for the following condition?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Tube at 11:35 PM on July 1, 2008 (24 comments)

Quarter Life Regression, or how to get back into Magic: The Gathering

What is the best way to get back into Magic: The Gathering?
posted to Ask Metafilter by utsutsu at 3:34 PM on July 1, 2008 (18 comments)

Herbalife:Does it Work as a Product?

Herbalife: Can anyone point me to sites about the efficacy of their products? I been on it for two months (no sniggering in the back, please), have lost some weight but I wonder what I am putting into my body. I know many regard it as MLM cult, etc (promising wealth and prosperity, but almost always meet with failure.) but I am interested in the actual products and whether there is any evidence they actually work.
posted to Ask Metafilter by vac2003 at 1:13 AM on July 1, 2008 (4 comments)

Need "going-back-to-basics" success stories

I'm looking for real-life examples of coaches, business people, athletes or teams who experienced great success when they went back to the basics/fundamentals.
posted to Ask Metafilter by rinkjustice at 2:59 PM on August 8, 2006 (14 comments)

What books should I read if I want to be successful?

What books should I read if I want to be successful?
posted to Ask Metafilter by wireless at 10:16 PM on April 19, 2008 (21 comments)

how do i learn to deal with disappointment?

How can I learn to deal with disappointment in a healthy, adult way? or: Help! My boyfriend's babymama is ruining my life!
posted to Ask Metafilter by kerfuffled at 1:14 PM on December 26, 2007 (37 comments)

Blogs that teach?

Blogs that teach?
posted to Ask Metafilter by btkuhn at 4:59 PM on June 30, 2008 (11 comments)

Why is there a | in $?

Why do so many currency symbols contain a vertical or horizontal slash?
posted to Ask Metafilter by jepler at 7:31 AM on June 30, 2008 (7 comments)

Arts and Crafts with a Science Twist?

I need help coming up with ideas for ~30 min science-related arts and crafts activities for kids aged 3-17 in a pretty limited environment.
posted to Ask Metafilter by liesbyomission at 6:28 PM on June 29, 2008 (26 comments)

Nobody knows Emperors and Queens more intimately

Pictures of 100 poems by 100 poets, explained by a Wet Nurse - Hokusai's pictures describe what the poems do in the head of a wet nurse. With high resolution scans.
posted to MetaFilter by tellurian at 11:39 PM on June 29, 2008 (9 comments)

"He's Just Not That Into You": Fact or Fiction?

Question for the guys: I've been reading "He's Just Not That Into You," which posits that if a guy is really interested in a woman, he'll pursue her relentlessly, no matter what else is going on in his life. Is this a valid theory? Has there ever been a time when you really liked a woman and were attracted to her, but didn't pursue a relationship because of external factors that had nothing to do with her (e.g. work problems, family illness, trauma of past relationship)?
posted to Ask Metafilter by zembla3 at 8:36 AM on June 29, 2008 (58 comments)

How do I tell people I'm not going to work in an office?

I am almost done with college. Since I've started, four separate times I've taken a semester off to study abroad, work overseas or do unorthodox things in the name of adventure. I've come to terms with myself and I know that this is I want out of life, and I know that when I graduate I'm not going to get a steady job with benefits or any of those other things that responsible people are supposed to do. How do I explain this to the people I care about in a way that makes them feel good about me?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 11:47 AM on June 29, 2008 (39 comments)

The political-economy perspective on women's rights

Women's rights: What's in it for men? - "Women in rich countries largely enjoy gender equality while those in poor countries suffer substantial discrimination. This column proposes an explanation for the relationship between economic development and female empowerment that emphasises changes in the incentives males face rather than shifts in moral sentiment. Technological change that raises demand for human capital may give men a stake in women's rights."
posted to MetaFilter by kliuless at 7:48 AM on June 29, 2008 (29 comments)

Is everybody who could be a supermodel actually a supermodel?

Are there a lot of people who are recognizably as beautiful as supermodels who are not supermodels? Or do the present mechanisms of celebrity reliably account for a majority of people who meet the criteria to be supermodels?
posted to Ask Metafilter by cgc373 at 2:42 AM on June 29, 2008 (31 comments)

Help a miserable 20something deal with her paranoid, overprotective father!

Help a miserable 20something deal with her paranoid, overprotective father! Long story short: I need help dealing with an overprotective parent. His behavior and beliefs have been debilitating both developmentally and socially, and I can't stand to watch another stagnant year go by. I need to start living my life. I'm a 20 year old girl and a bit of an old soul. I've already graduated from college with honors and I'm almost done with my master's. I have a full time job. I'm attractive, I take care of myself, I have everything I want in the material sense, but I'm miserable. I don't have friends. I've never dated. I don't go out. I have no sense of enjoyment in my life. I don't know how to interact with people or cope with my anxiety.
posted to Ask Metafilter by sansgras at 8:26 PM on December 23, 2007 (51 comments)

How can I stop taking after my mother?

What are some ways to actively avoid emulating undesirable behaviors of a family member? (In other words, how do I not end up like my mom?)
posted to Ask Metafilter by justonegirl at 5:18 PM on July 26, 2007 (12 comments)

Help me figure out the next step with my dad.

Have you ever explicitly told your dad, or any parent, that for your own emotional well-being you need time away from them? Have you ever wanted to? Is there any way to do this? Details inside.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ash3000 at 9:01 PM on December 28, 2007 (30 comments)

Mom's being uppity

I'm 20 and more than halfway through undergrad. My mother is STILL having difficulty letting go of me, after three years. Help me help her.
posted to Ask Metafilter by kldickson at 6:13 PM on April 13, 2008 (20 comments)

The Employable Web Designer

The Employable Web Designer ― Andy Rutledge at Design View constructs a list of suggestions to help aspiring designers better craft their own preparedness and, if necessary, adjust their degree plans toward a more effective and responsive result in the web design field. (previously)
posted to MetaFilter by netbros at 1:07 AM on June 28, 2008 (39 comments)

What should I do in Amsterdam?

What should I do in Amsterdam?
posted to Ask Metafilter by CElijah at 2:24 PM on June 27, 2008 (20 comments)

Please recommend anti-American songs.

Trying to put together a playlist of anti-American songs, or songs about leaving America. For instance, Green Day's "American Idiot" qualifies. This is for a going-away party, and very much tongue-in-cheek. Songs that hate on specific regions (particularly New York, New Jersey, DC and LA) are also good. Thank you!
posted to Ask Metafilter by Mr Bunnsy at 2:03 PM on June 27, 2008 (78 comments)

Store Today, Where Tomorrow?

Quite a few magazines are published every month. Supermarkets, convenience stores, bookshops, and various other stores sell the current issue. At the month's end, the unsold magazines are packed up and replaced with the new issue. What happens to all the unsold magazines?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Mael Oui at 12:05 AM on June 26, 2008 (16 comments)

21 judges give 4 contestants a 4, 3, 2, or 1. How often is there a first place tie?

Imagine a contest, with 21 judges and 4 contestants. Judges must give one contestant 4 points, one contestant 3 points, one contestant 2 points, and one contestant 1 point. The winner is decided by summing the scores of all 21 judges. Mathematically speaking, what percentage of the time would you expect there to be a tie for first place after all 21 scores have been added?
posted to Ask Metafilter by 23skidoo at 11:22 AM on June 24, 2008 (25 comments)

Chit Chat.

Pecha Kucha - get to the point. 20 slides in 20 seconds. Talk about what you want. Your city probably has a night for it.
posted to MetaFilter by Extopalopaketle at 12:37 PM on June 24, 2008 (17 comments)

How to use multiple passports?

A family member born in another country recently became a US Citizen and got a US passport. Her old country does not allow dual citizenship and would revoke her citizenship if they found out about her becoming a US citizen, but she still wants to use the native passport on trips to the native country and retain her citizenship.
posted to Ask Metafilter by b_thinky at 4:53 PM on June 24, 2008 (24 comments)

Burned out at work

How can I deal with burnout?
posted to Ask Metafilter by saturn25 at 5:12 PM on June 24, 2008 (9 comments)

Is Google Making Us Stupid?

Is Google Making Us Stupid? "My mind now expects to take in information the way the Net distributes it: in a swiftly moving stream of particles. Once I was a scuba diver in the sea of words. Now I zip along the surface like a guy on a Jet Ski."
posted to MetaFilter by WCityMike at 9:37 AM on June 10, 2008 (86 comments)

camping hacks

Give me your best camping hacks.
posted to Ask Metafilter by keith0718 at 2:24 AM on June 24, 2008 (43 comments)

What questions should I ask the subjects of my documentary on the Philippines porn industry?

I'm going to be filming a documentary in the Philippines about families supported by the pornography industry, and I'd like to hear any interesting questions you might have for the subjects.
posted to Ask Metafilter by premiumpolar at 2:23 AM on June 23, 2008 (18 comments)
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