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My boyfriend's best friend just died over the weekend. He is inconsolable. I know I can't make it better, but how can I make it suck less? To complicate matters, this is not a "normal" situation, and we're not a "normal" couple. MeFites familiar with BDSM culture and psychology encouraged to reply, particularly those familiar with roleplaying/puppy play. Lengthy details inside; probably NSFW (concept, not content).
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 5:05 AM on July 8, 2008
(8 comments)
I need to preview websites in various browsers on various platforms, all from Windows machines - while on the road. If I remember correctly, there's an online service that does this preview for you. Can anyone point me in the right direction?
posted to Ask Metafilter by annathea
at 9:57 AM on August 24, 2005
(5 comments)
9 years of Spanish have proven worthless. How do I become a conversationalist?
posted to Ask Metafilter by hwyengr
at 5:42 PM on June 17, 2008
(14 comments)
How do you deal with occurrences of a chronic, non-contagious illness at work?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 9:06 PM on June 15, 2008
(12 comments)
I want to watch some Spanish-language TV shows, and I want to get past telenovelas and things like sabado gigante (no offense!). I have Directv and a few channels such as Univision and Telemundo. (I could add the ParaTodos package if you can show me the light on some cool programming). I'm in the Denver area so I have access to several terrestial spanish language channels as well. I'm not interested in dubbed stuff from English, so Discovery Channel Espanol type stuff is out.
posted to Ask Metafilter by wogbat
at 11:56 PM on June 14, 2008
(9 comments)
Help me fart less.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 5:59 PM on June 13, 2008
(25 comments)
I've been developing a taste for Mexican/border music.
posted to Ask Metafilter by jonmc
at 5:00 PM on June 11, 2008
(20 comments)
I live on an island and it's hard to date. And I'm queer...and 50...a bad combo. Is all hope lost?
posted to Ask Metafilter by zenpop
at 6:20 PM on June 9, 2008
(13 comments)
I'm a straight, white, upper middle class male. I'm aware that this automatically means I generally have an easier time than people with a different sexuality/race/class/gender. That said, I'm probably unaware of what these benefits are.
What does this 'privileged' status do for me that I don't even notice?
posted to Ask Metafilter by twirlypen
at 4:19 PM on May 29, 2008
(92 comments)
Why do some people wear shoes in the house?
posted to Ask Metafilter by pravit
at 2:03 PM on May 26, 2008
(212 comments)
What are some good non-religious readings I can use at a memorial service?
posted to Ask Metafilter by rhizome
at 1:34 PM on May 26, 2008
(13 comments)
What should a well-stocked medicine cabinet contain?
posted to Ask Metafilter by somanyamys
at 12:38 PM on May 19, 2008
(30 comments)
Take my arm, my love. Don't write a check from a joint bank account. Hide all the photographs in your home and office which would identify you as a couple. Take off your wedding rings. Touch each other, and talk to each other, in public, in ways that could only be interpreted as you being "friends." A thoughtful post on "self-editing," homophobia, and the day-to-day experience of many LGBT folks, at
Shakesville (aka Shakespeare's Sister), by
Teh Portly Dyke.
posted to MetaFilter by fiercecupcake
at 7:40 AM on May 6, 2008
(179 comments)
How do people become stupid?
posted to Ask Metafilter by sixcolors
at 4:26 PM on April 14, 2008
(85 comments)
I used to get the cheapest liquid soap for washing hands I could find, but recently, I got the "shea butter" soap for $3 and found that the increased quality more than makes up for the increased cost. The question is: What else can I spend a little more on to get much more quality? (Fluffy towels, sheets, maybe?) Are there websites that review this?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Furious Fitness
at 3:47 PM on April 13, 2008
(89 comments)
Every time I've ever dined at a sushi restaurant there's been a statue of a cat by the cash register. It's always the same pose, with one paw raised in the air in a kind of "cat power" salute. What are these called and what do they signify?
posted to Ask Metafilter by reidfleming
at 2:17 PM on March 28, 2008
(15 comments)
What's that program that takes CSS styles defined in the head of an HTML document and applies them to each element's style attribute? It's for HTML email-making, where such a nonsensical thing is desirable.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Plug Dub In
at 8:25 AM on March 28, 2008
(6 comments)
What exact characteristic(s) make someone appear polished and sophisticated?
posted to Ask Metafilter by amfea
at 4:01 PM on March 19, 2008
(29 comments)
How do I decide where to move next, (or not) when a limited salary is one of the factors?
posted to Ask Metafilter by lemonwheel
at 4:49 PM on February 24, 2008
(8 comments)
What stock banter lines do you keep in your back pocket?
posted to Ask Metafilter by mpls2
at 11:43 AM on February 16, 2008
(91 comments)
Where do 35 to 45 year olds hang out on the web? Do social media sites specifically for this age group exist out there?
posted to Ask Metafilter by vizsla
at 6:23 AM on January 29, 2008
(21 comments)
It is an interesting and somewhat macabre parlor game to play at a large gathering of one’s acquaintances: to speculate who in a showdown would go Nazi.... Mr. B has risen beyond his real abilities.... His code is not his own; it is that of his class–no worse, no better, He fits easily into whatever pattern is successful. That is his sole measure of value–success. Nazism as a minority movement would not attract him. As a movement likely to attain power, it would.... Mr. G is a very intellectual young man who was an infant prodigy.... Mr. G will never be a Nazi,... [h]e will certainly be able, however, fully to explain and apologize for Nazism if it ever comes along.
"Who goes Nazi?" via
sott.net, with added context.
posted to MetaFilter by orthogonality
at 12:43 AM on January 24, 2008
(76 comments)
What are some things that humans do, that no other animal species does?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Solomon
at 8:57 AM on January 27, 2008
(91 comments)
Please suggest resources for dealing with the loss of a loved one – how to cope with grief. When you moved to the area just before it happened, you’re now all alone, and don’t have friends established, or anyone to talk to - it’s hard to cope with the enormous bills, the life change and deep emptiness. You go to work and pretend all is fine, but it’s not.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 2:17 PM on January 17, 2008
(8 comments)
A good friend just received a brain cancer diagnosis with an estimated one year survival time. She wants to talk about death and time. She thinks I have something to teach or tell her worth hearing. I'd like to be helpful, but have no confidence in my ability to say or do anything meaningful. What I've said so far she appreciates.
What can I read that might help me frame discussions. I don't need pop psychology stuff, or advice dealing with the health care system or funeral arrangements. I like the idea of Zen notions of letting go but am too ignorant to know what to say.
Advice, experience, suggestions for gathering information please.
posted to Ask Metafilter by NorthCoastCafe
at 3:12 PM on January 7, 2008
(65 comments)
I gifted my family a Wordpress blog (it's all up and designed and everything). I want a virtual center for our family that now spans the globe and can't get together often. However, how can I get the older coots to not only understand WHAT a blog is but how to use it. They use the interwebs. But only to look up the goofy stuff old people like - like when Murder She Wrote is on. Or to hate on George Bush. But not so much to interact. More inside.
posted to Ask Metafilter by tkchrist
at 9:17 PM on December 23, 2007
(14 comments)
What are your Christmas traditions? How did you develop your own (rather than doing what your parents did?)
posted to Ask Metafilter by ferociouskitty
at 7:11 AM on December 10, 2007
(27 comments)
Straight from the Department of Things Everybody But Me Probably Knew About Two Years Ago, it was only yesterday that I discovered the mind-boggling usefulness of the
Amazon Filler Item Finder, which allows you to enter the exact price of the item you need to pad your order up to $25.00 for free shipping. Happy postage-free holidays.
posted to MetaFilter by XQUZYPHYR
at 7:14 AM on December 4, 2007
(54 comments)
What are some good, unholy, "scripture"-like quotes I can use as an email signature?
posted to Ask Metafilter by mds35
at 7:50 AM on June 27, 2007
(59 comments)
Seeing some minor nudity in a 1950s film made me curious. What were some early examples of 'R-Rated' type material in films? I feel like non-Hollywood cinema makes this too easy, so what of naughty bits and foul language in American films?
I know about 'Convention City.' Is there anything else Pre-Code that is anachronistically R-Rated for the time?
posted to Ask Metafilter by tremspeed
at 11:07 PM on November 13, 2007
(10 comments)
What's it like to feel loved?
I don't mean what does it feel like to be in love with someone - that I know. I'm asking for what makes you feel loved by someone else?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 7:04 PM on November 12, 2007
(70 comments)
I'm dealing with the fallout from coming out to my deeply religious immediate family. For years, I had prepared for their tears, their anger, their remonstrances, their appeals to the Bible, and all of those have come. What I hadn't prepared for was how disappointed I would be, and how fundamental and lonely that disappointment would be. Help?
posted to Ask Metafilter by grrarrgh00
at 9:22 PM on October 16, 2007
(38 comments)
What can I do to keep from crying at work when I'm in a performance review?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous
at 10:47 AM on September 24, 2007
(18 comments)
One of my dogs won't shut up. He was fairly quiet when we adopted him about 8 months ago after prior owners surrendered him, but several months of apartment living have encouraged him to bark every time someone walks outside, above, near, in, or around our apartment. He has such a high pitched, loud, piercingly painful bark, that I can't believe our neighbors haven't shot him, had him taken away, or even complained to us. Sometimes I can hear him barking from almost a block away, but I DON'T have reason to suspect he sits and barks all day when home alone.
posted to Ask Metafilter by bunnycup
at 9:51 AM on September 24, 2007
(20 comments)
It's almost that time of year again. Please share your favorite THANKSGIVING DESSERT AND SIDE DISH RECIPES. I am sick of making the same things every year. I have 15-20 guests, same group every year.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Lylo
at 11:36 AM on September 23, 2007
(33 comments)
Good jokes for a beginning reader?
posted to Ask Metafilter by maryh
at 8:52 PM on September 17, 2007
(22 comments)
In God we doubt.
This is not an intellectual game. Even if we know what is true – and we don’t – you cannot reduce life to a set of provable realities. Humanity is too complex for that. In the end, it comes down to whether the world would be a better place without religion; and that is a matter of judgment, not certainty.
posted to MetaFilter by veedubya
at 4:15 AM on September 2, 2007
(241 comments)
In 1955, at least twelve men in Boise, Idaho were arrested for
"infamous crimes against nature.". In the resulting dragnet, the vice president of the Idaho First National Bank was
sentenced to seven years in prison, while national magazines fomented a McCarthyite
Lavender Scare with headlines such as
Male Pervert Ring Seduces 1,000 Boys. This dark chapter in
Idaho gay history was documented in both John Gerassi's 1966 book,
The Boys of Boise and the recent film,
The Fall of '55, by documentarian
Seth Randal, but neither Gerassi nor Randal could identify
The Queen, a closeted but politically connected homosexual who allegedly used his massive clout to stop the witch hunt.
posted to MetaFilter by jonp72
at 6:39 PM on August 28, 2007
(45 comments)
Why do we eat "breakfast foods"? When did this originate and why?
posted to Ask Metafilter by lubujackson
at 9:57 AM on August 24, 2007
(23 comments)
What does it mean to you (yes, YOU there, reading this) to be an American?
posted to Ask Metafilter by bam
at 3:41 AM on August 17, 2007
(128 comments)
How can my boyfriend and I combine our names in a way that works for both of us?
posted to Ask Metafilter by crinklebat
at 8:28 AM on August 14, 2007
(97 comments)