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How to "Find Yourself" or get comfortable in your own skin?

How to "Find Yourself" or get comfortable in your own skin?
posted to Ask Metafilter by gb77 at 8:49 AM on July 16, 2008 (15 comments)

Men leaving Mars for the great unknown?

Looking for examples from film of men nurturing women.
posted to Ask Metafilter by pammo at 11:03 AM on July 14, 2008 (21 comments)

Human particles in a (happy) box

When you moved to live with your partner, or your partner moved to live with you, what helped set the groundwork for a lasting, strong and wonderful relationship? What missteps would you try and avoid?
posted to Ask Metafilter by lalochezia at 9:34 AM on July 12, 2008 (32 comments)

Nature is stupidly clever

"Creatures are out there that can control brains." [pdf]

The women "spent more money on clothes and were consistently rated as more attractive", but were "less trustworthy and had more relationships with men". The men become "less well groomed undesirable loners who were more willing to fight". All "are at greater risk of being involved in car accidents". Why? Something has its tentacles in their brains. They probably got it from that cuddly old species, the domestic cat, which the parasite infects by making infected rats "almost taunt" the cats into eating them.

Parasites in the brain alter their host's behavior. It's not just video game fiction. Various multi-host parasites make their living by making their hosts less ambulatory and less willing to explore, by castrating them and making them less cautious of predators, or by forcing their hosts to stay out all night so as to be eaten in the morning. These parasites offer yet another example of how stupidly clever evolution can be, and raise questions about how free "free will" really is.
posted to MetaFilter by orthogonality at 7:18 AM on June 10, 2005 (80 comments)

Help me talk to my wife

Conversation starters needed for married couple's date night. The wife is a bit introverted and needs some prodding to get a conversation started... if it doesn't include career, kids or family.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 8:09 AM on July 11, 2008 (19 comments)

Physical compliments from men: return them, or no?

I have a question about paying physical compliments to men, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Men compliment women about their appearance often. Do they want these compliments returned, or is there a separate protocol for woman-to-man commentary?
posted to Ask Metafilter by toomuchkatherine at 10:13 PM on July 9, 2008 (44 comments)

How can I stop caring what other people think or might think about me?

How can I stop caring what other people think, or might think, about me?
posted to Ask Metafilter by gb77 at 1:57 PM on July 4, 2008 (33 comments)

Freakonomics and MySpace abductions.

I live in Vermont. I work in a small town that has been directly affected by the recent Brooke Bennett tragedy (family involved 12 year old in sex ring and killed her, attempted to blame it on a MySpace predator) in an industry that is directly related to dealing with the aftermath. I am also reading Freakonomics, which amongst other things has persuaded me to look past media hype and compare numbers to actual relevant data. I have two questions
posted to Ask Metafilter by SirStan at 5:27 PM on July 2, 2008 (15 comments)

trying to find an old askme about browser portal thingy

Coulda swore there was an AskMe about a site that would allow you to punch in a URL and see what the site looks likes on different browsers/platforms... but of course I can't find it. Anyone recall this or am I imagining it?
posted to MetaTalk by dobbs at 2:00 PM on July 6, 2008 (29 comments)

How to break the news to the conservative parents?

My girlfriend and I have been living together for about a year, and her conservative Asian parents don't know. How do we break the news to them?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 5:52 PM on June 25, 2008 (20 comments)

"He's Just Not That Into You": Fact or Fiction?

Question for the guys: I've been reading "He's Just Not That Into You," which posits that if a guy is really interested in a woman, he'll pursue her relentlessly, no matter what else is going on in his life. Is this a valid theory? Has there ever been a time when you really liked a woman and were attracted to her, but didn't pursue a relationship because of external factors that had nothing to do with her (e.g. work problems, family illness, trauma of past relationship)?
posted to Ask Metafilter by zembla3 at 8:36 AM on June 29, 2008 (58 comments)

How do I face the Other Woman?

How do I face the Other Woman?
posted to Ask Metafilter by deadlypenguin at 5:40 PM on June 29, 2008 (36 comments)

Matt is back

Where the hell is Matt? The 2008 version is oddly moving. Be sure to watch the high quality version. (Previously)
posted to MetaFilter by monospace at 11:33 AM on June 27, 2008 (103 comments)

Dating for the relatively grounded?

I know a great deal about how romantic relationships develop with insecure people, but very little about what happens when the participants are already comfortable in their own shoes.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 6:42 PM on June 18, 2008 (13 comments)

Optical illusions

Optical illusions and why they look that way.
posted to MetaFilter by OmieWise at 7:15 AM on June 16, 2008 (26 comments)

Magic, incarcerated

Help me find real-world magic items.
posted to Ask Metafilter by MrVisible at 12:34 PM on June 17, 2008 (47 comments)

What are some of your positive, personal business practices?

What are some practices/methods/things I can do to ensure a good rapport with my colleagues as well as establish myself as an outstanding employee?
posted to Ask Metafilter by drkrdglo at 3:58 PM on June 16, 2008 (25 comments)

Toonz for noobz?

What are the five most mind-blowing, fanmaking, yet accessible albums of the past ten years?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Ambrosia Voyeur at 8:36 AM on August 4, 2007 (61 comments)

Education with your host, DaShiv.

Over the last few months one of the Metafilter regulars has produced a number of comments demonstrating an above average grasp of the democratic parties political process as well as an above average ability to articulate that understanding in to language that highlights the substance of the comments.
posted to MetaTalk by iamabot at 3:12 PM on June 7, 2008 (100 comments)

How to be comfortable?

How do you learn to feel comfortable with yourself?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 7:43 PM on June 5, 2008 (18 comments)

Are free, serialised podcasts of great novels available for download from anywhere on the web?

Are free, serialised podcasts of great novels available for download from anywhere on the web?
posted to Ask Metafilter by lottie at 8:40 PM on June 2, 2008 (8 comments)

Adverts Made In Scotland From Girders

Take Britain’s favourite poem and add it to Scotland’s other national drink and here’s the result (mildly NSFW).
posted to MetaFilter by fearfulsymmetry at 4:54 AM on June 4, 2008 (26 comments)

What else is in this invisible backpack?

I'm a straight, white, upper middle class male. I'm aware that this automatically means I generally have an easier time than people with a different sexuality/race/class/gender. That said, I'm probably unaware of what these benefits are. What does this 'privileged' status do for me that I don't even notice?
posted to Ask Metafilter by twirlypen at 4:19 PM on May 29, 2008 (92 comments)

Who has succeeded most in bringing people together?

What are some powerful examples throughout history of public figures or concepts that have successfully united disparate people?
posted to Ask Metafilter by deern the headlice at 8:25 AM on May 23, 2008 (24 comments)

How do I decide whether I should marry my boyfriend?

Do you have any suggestions or insight that could help me figure out whether I should marry my boyfriend?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on May 26, 2008 (27 comments)

That smarts

What are some good parameters to use when judging someone's intelligence on the fly?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Christ, what an asshole at 12:14 PM on May 27, 2008 (36 comments)

Please, for the love of all that's holy

What, one ParisParamus wasn't enough for us? How much more do we need to see?
posted to MetaTalk by scrump at 2:32 PM on May 28, 2008 (367 comments)

I do a bit of drinking, and I'm looking for a new...

I do a bit of drinking, and I'm looking for a new toast. "Panties: Not the best thing in the world, but right next to it." is what my friends use, but it's getting a little old. Any suggestions? (Witty and sublime both appreciated)
posted to Ask Metafilter by absalom at 6:33 PM on January 12, 2005 (105 comments)

“A desk is a dangerous place from which to watch the world”

The post from a couple of days ago is great, but really made me wonder where the MeFites make their magic.
posted to MetaTalk by absalom at 2:55 PM on January 15, 2008 (211 comments)

Starting a teen business

Starting a teen business! Good idea or not?
posted to Ask Metafilter by freddymetz at 3:55 AM on May 9, 2008 (17 comments)

What literary fiction should I read?

I'm going back to college next fall, to attend an undergraduate creative writing program. What literary fiction should I read this summer to get up to speed?
posted to Ask Metafilter by sugarfish at 5:23 PM on May 18, 2008 (36 comments)

Wedding ring engraving inspiration

How did you go about picking the engravings for your wedding rings?
posted to Ask Metafilter by roofus at 8:52 AM on May 15, 2008 (28 comments)

What's the difference between a geek, a nerd and a dork?

What's the difference between a geek, a nerd and a dork?
posted to Ask Metafilter by feelinglistless at 3:33 PM on May 15, 2008 (43 comments)

Can't finish anything.

How can I prevent myself from getting sick of something long enough to finish it?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Rhadamanthus at 6:04 PM on May 15, 2008 (16 comments)

Why can't Godfrey work the trackpad?

Why, when I drag the fleshy (i.e., not furry) part of my cat's paw across the trackpad on my MacBook, does the cursor not respond?
posted to Ask Metafilter by Dr. Wu at 8:50 PM on May 15, 2008 (46 comments)

Where Do Babies(' Names) Come From?

What influences trends in baby names? And why have popular girls names changed more over the past 20+ years than boys names?
posted to Ask Metafilter by ThePinkSuperhero at 9:19 PM on May 11, 2008 (66 comments)

back that thang up.

recommendations for good system back-up software programs?
posted to Ask Metafilter by violetk at 5:14 PM on May 12, 2008 (7 comments)

Can you give me some ideas on how to be a better mother to my 15 year old son? I'm a man.

How do I, as a man, show my son a caring and feminine side to life? I've raised my son in classic, tough-guys-don't-cry fashion. I worry that I haven't given him the tools to form the best relationships with the opposite sex or to be more caring and compassionate and I want to redress the very male influences in his upbringing. Are there any other single fathers out there who have the same concerns? How have you dealt with them? Are there any good resources you would recommend? Any women who have experience of young men mainly raised by their fathers? What are your thoughts? Am I worrying unnecessarily?
posted to Ask Metafilter by rikatik at 3:40 AM on May 13, 2008 (31 comments)

Help me find this flashcard program?

About a year ago, I installed a freeware program onto my Dell Axim to aid with learning. Since then, the program has been removed and I've forgotten what it was called. I'm hoping someone out there can help me.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Proginoskes at 5:56 PM on May 14, 2008 (4 comments)

Where to find good training resources for Access 2003?

What books / reference materials / training resources for Access 2003 can you recommend for a n00b?
posted to Ask Metafilter by protorp at 2:42 AM on May 14, 2008 (3 comments)

What is the adult version of "Let's be friends"?

What's the adult version of "Let's be friends"?
posted to Ask Metafilter by questionmark at 5:37 PM on February 9, 2006 (33 comments)

What is the psychology of friendship?

Lately, the concept of "friends" seems to have become incredibly diluted by the casual use of the term by Facebook, MySpace et al. But in "the real world" what do you consider to be important when you are making and becoming friends? Is it how long you've known someone? How frequently you meet up? What you have in common? Something more intangible? Also, I'd love recommendations of any books looking at the psychology of how people become friends.
posted to Ask Metafilter by pipstar at 7:10 AM on May 14, 2008 (21 comments)

Language-Related Equivalent of Empathy?

Is there a word or a phrase, other than the too-broad "understand," for when a listener understands what someone else is trying to convey even when the speaker doesn't express it clearly and/or correctly?
posted to Ask Metafilter by amyms at 9:23 AM on April 28, 2008 (31 comments)

Might as well call him Humphrey Braggart, AMIRITE?

Please help me become more genuinely modest and less arrogant... without being too self deprecating.
posted to Ask Metafilter by Anonymous at 8:18 AM on April 28, 2008 (28 comments)

Oh, so you're a [insert profession here]! How [insert whacky generalization and misguided curiosity here]?

What is the first question people ask when you tell them what you do? Are there common misconceptions or generalizations that people make? How do you tactfully and/or humorously correct them?
posted to Ask Metafilter by iamkimiam at 9:02 AM on April 28, 2008 (153 comments)

Help with "pay what you can" Concept

I am researching the growing occurence of pay-what-you-can, or pay-what-you-think-the-meal-was-worth restaurants. There are several operating both domestically and internationally, as explained here. In light of the Radiohead giveaway, the concept has been getting increasing, positive press.
posted to Ask Metafilter by CollectiveMind at 3:13 PM on April 27, 2008 (12 comments)

Alternative to crooksandliars

I have trouble keeping up with the big political news on television. So I use the clips on crooksandliars.com as a way of staying on top of what the current political stories are and how they are being discussed. What I don't like is the editorializing. It's not that I disagree with all their takes, I just find that the way they push their agenda distracts from what I am trying to get from the site. Is there another blog that can keep me up to date with the current television news cycle that is a bit more unbiased? Specifically one that includes video clips of the pundit discussions?
posted to Ask Metafilter by aburd at 11:20 AM on April 27, 2008 (14 comments)

Do you know any fake James Bond title songs?

Do you know any fake James Bond title songs?
posted to Ask Metafilter by lord_yo at 3:55 PM on April 26, 2008 (40 comments)

Catcher in the Rye

I've had tremendous luck polling all tens of thousands of you MeFites about literature, so here goes again. The Catcher in the Rye: Can anyone recommend any short stories, poems, or essays that would complement the themes of alienation, coming of age, general phoniness of us adults, etc.? Thanks!
posted to Ask Metafilter by John of Michigan at 12:21 PM on April 26, 2008 (28 comments)
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