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How can I make a budget we can BOTH stick to?
Our household income has been cut in half in the last six months and although we theoretically have enough money to get buy, we keep running out. We're really bad at this. Help? (details inside)
multitasking: why can't I?
multitasking: am I the only one who can't?
How can I make a living doing what I love?
How can I make a living doing what I love?
My almost-50 birthday is this week. Several years ago I quit my job to start a new career. I still have little idea how to make money from what I want to do. I'd hate to go back to my former career, and I can't imagine who would hire a man nearing 50, who hasn't had a job in years...
Making the most of my iPhone while I'm offline
What are your favourite iPhone apps that can be used offline?
How do I go about getting a promotion?
How do I go about getting a promotion?
How to become "repulsed" by junk food?
How to become "repulsed" by junk food?
What goes in a 'work from remote' plan?
Talking with my boss about working remote and he wants me to put together a plan/proposal for working remote. What should go in it?
Thought experiments for kids
I like to ask my kids interesting, but age appropriate, ethical and epistemological questions while we sit around the dinner table. Help me think of some more.
It's onion butter jelly time!!! (...insert dancing onion animated gif here...)
How do I make the sweet, pink caramelized onions I've been seeing on expensive burgers lately?
Now that the violence and carnage is over...
Another Toronto meetup before the summer is up and we're forced off the glorious patios? I'm thinking the 14th, but let's float other dates and venues.
Cool magazines about being a parent?
Suggestions for awesome parenting magazines? (Blogs, too, are fine, but a print mag would be ideal.)
I'm willing to wait for a bargain...
Is there an iphone app (or a piece of software, or a widget, or a website, or something) that will notify me when/if there is a change in price on any of the items in my iTunes wishlist?
Please help me tidy up my internet
What's the best way to manage multiple social media streams?
Mothers' Little Helpers?
Moms and Dads - what are your tricks for giving yourself a mental lift when finding "me time" is unlikely?
Beyond Parenting for Dummies
Can you recommend any intelligent, insightful, well-written parenting or child development books?
Welcome to Toronto
What are some fun activities for a family to do in Toronto?
Driving to Billingsgate (I curse too much)
I curse when I drive. Terrible language and the most irritated inflection. It needs to stop because I am in danger of linguistically poisoning my toddler. Unfortunately, I live in an area (Metro Boston) where the roads are crowded and people pride themselves on driving like self-centered monsters. Please give me techniques to (most importantly) stop swearing and also stop appearing apoplectic.
Sandwich rage: what the 3@$!! do I pack for my lunch???
Can anyone point me to a source of packed/brown-bag lunch recipes that genuinely take no more than 5 minutes to prepare, and aren't overreliant on peanut-butter-and-banana sandwiches? Bonus points if it isn't all mimsy about low-fat mayonnaise and such. Also I only have an English freezer, so batch pre-prep is out.
AAARGGGHHH!
What do you do when you've hit the wall career-wise?
Just another day in the salt mines.
What are your strategies for girding yourself against the chaos or banality of the modern office workplace ? How do you manage to suffer the slings and arrows of outrageous requests, insanity-induced decisionmaking, and mass amounts of meaninglessness? For sure, those who are gainfully employed at this moment in history are more fortunate than they might know, but perspective is difficult to achieve, or keep, when the pile of unfinished TPS reports on the desk is about to topple over & shred your soul by a million tiny papercuts. What thoughts do you keep in your head, or spirits do you bring into your heart (or substances into your body?). Quotes, movies, books, blogs, etc.. -- all are welcome. Extra points for recommendations that are particularly geared towards 'life' in a tech / software company.
Nonprofit Burnout Syndrome
I'm burnt out, but I don't want to (and can't, really) quit my job. The only way out seems to be through it, so how do I get through this, do a good job, and stay sane?
You were doing it wrong
What in life did it take you a surprisingly long time to realize you've been doing wrong all along?
Average Life Of A [__]
Looking for more "average life" documentaries.
Adventures in Toronto?
Recent events have left me feeling sad about my city, and made me realize that our love affair has grown cold and stale. Help me rekindle it!
What are some good iPhone games that my wife and I can play together over a few beers?
What are some good iPhone games that my wife and I can play together over a few beers?
How do great writers create stories?
How do great writers create stories?
Unfulfilled lunchtime.
I have a bad habit of buying lunch while at work. What can I make for lunch that will fulfill my super-strong cravings for huge burritos and greasy pizza?
I want you for social media
Social media? Great! But what do you charge and deliver?
What methods do you use to introspect?
How do you introspect? When you're feeling internally (emotionally, mentally, spiritually) congested, what do you do? More inside.
Help me migrate to a simplified and more professional email address and overall digital life.
I want to simplify my digital life a little and have already taken some steps, but I am not sure what to do about my email address. I want a more adult and professional email address but a) I am unsure what my options are re migrating to its use with minimal labour and trauma and b) I am not willing to choose a handle which includes my real last name, so I am not sure what to pick to sound adult and professional. Advice, please!
Who is publishing funny writing?
Where should I go to read laugh-out-loud humour writing? People talk about the golden days of Mad Magazine and National Lampoon... where can I find funny writing nowadays? It can be online, a blogger or tweeter you find funny, or it can be in print. Bonus points for a collection of writers grouped with a similar aesthetic (like Mad Magazine), but I'm open to anything that's making you laugh. I'm loving Shit My Dad Says, Overheard in New York, The Bugle. Thanks.
I want to crank my freelancing up a notch
I am looking for tips on becoming a successful freelance writer. I have a degree in English, and I currently write for Textbroker.
The cold is gone but the symptoms remain and are MAKING ME CRAZY.
How can I get rid of this lingering congestion and cough?
Lessons Learned
What are the most important and valuable things I can teach my new granddaughter? What endeared you the most to your grandmother?
How is babbysitter formed?
What do you look for in a babysitter? What specific skills or traits do you consider to be most important?
Hire Me
What blogs / sites make you say "I want to hire this guy!". What is it about those sites that makes you say this? If and when my next employment search comes up, I would like to have a web presence that gives prospective employers a window into my work, thoughts, outlook, etc. I am looking for blogs that do a great job at selling the author to potential employers. I am interested in content but also the sites presentation and functionality. I am more interested in business related blogs rather than designer / portfolio types sites, but will take all comers. Blogs that incorporate photos of the author would be a bonus. Help me find examples of great personal salesmanship on the web.
How many hours of your workday do you actually spend working?
How many hours of your workday do you actually spend working?
Help me set up a facebook fan page that is NOT tied to me.
How do I create Facebook fan pages that are NOT linked to my personal account?
How can I stream my music library to my iPhone?
How can I stream my music library to my iPhone?
What happens to a dream derailed?
My lifelong dream and driving force has turned into a source of bitterness and disappointment for me. Not sure what happened, how to fix it, or if I should even bother.
Pale, bruised, scuffed stems
It's almost "show some leg" season and I have a problem.
Seeking advice and resources on parenting young daughters
It's a girl! Enter massive anxiety over how to navigate gender in my parenting.
What's yours is ours
Marital Finances filter: I'm curious about how couples decide if they are going to be an "our money" couple or a "your money/my money" couple.
He's got a lot, I've got a little
How do you fairly combine incomes in a relationship with inequitable incomes and inequitable net worth?
Smith residence, Sally speaking!
How do children learn phone etiquette in a world with no landlines?
popcorn toppings
I want to perk up my popcorn. What toppings that are probably sitting around the house, or are easily found at a typical grocery store, do you all find the yummiest? Wet, dry, shake, stir, good-for-you, bad-for-you (real butter!!), I don't care, just suggest anything that tastes good and is readily available.
You're harshing my flow, man[ager]!
I have a manager who constantly interrupts my attention-hungry programming work with easy, quick tasks that she believes "will just take a second, no problem." This destroys my productivity. How does the hive mind deal with this?
I just want to read small interesting things
I'm looking for good mobile websites that are mainly text and update often, with individual content brief enough that I can finish reading by the time the bus comes.
Despite what it might imply, texts from last night perfectly encapsulates what I want. I just want more of it. And maybe for it to be informative on top of entertaining. Just something internet-y that I can browse for 3-5 minutes at a time.
The Straight Poop
Body function filter: early potty training. If he can sit, he can poop there. Right?