MetaFilter posts tagged with BDSM

A Kink in the Campaign

macadamiaranch — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:01:04 -0800

"If elected, Laiacona would be the first known leather master to take office in Illinois."

Graphic Sexual Horror, a documentary

Stochastic Jack — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 11:01:26 -0800

A new documentary chronicles the rise and fall of Insex.com, one of the early websites. (NSFW) Co-directors Anna Lorentzon and Barbara Bell look at Insex, the people behind it, and the forces that ultimately brought it down. The stuff that Insex did tends to make even hardcore kinksters flinch a bit. However, as one reviewer points out, they at least put the activities into context, showing the performers both in the scenes (which include drowning and suffocation--some of this stuff may really hit some triggers for some people), as opposed to the notorious anti-porn documentary, The Price of Pleasure, which showed sex and kink without exploration of the performers' lives offscreen. One of the most interesting aspects of the film is that they ultimately were shut down not by obscenity laws, but by federal authorities who used the PATRIOT Act to claim that hardcore porn funded terrorism.

Happy 5th Birthday Subservient Chicken

billyfleetwood — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 01:54:52 -0800

The creators of the subservient chicken look back on how it all came to be. As seen on MetaFilter 5 years ago today.

When the Queen says "jump," Jill says "how high?"

Countess Elena — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 16:15:54 -0800

Friday Free Game Download: If you were presented with the concept of a lesbian BDSM video game, the first word that leapt to your mind would probably not be "adorable." But that is exactly what Mighty Jill Off is. It's also a fiendishly frustrating little game, simple and short though it is. There's no T&A, no polygons -- just jumping past spikes, and dying, and jumping past fire, and dying, and dying, and dying . . . Good old-fashioned fun, really. (via)

Titillating treasure trove of tit torture tidbits.

goodnewsfortheinsane — Mon, 25 Jun 2007 19:54:37 -0800

Matt Nicholson's Breast Punishment Primer discusses the history of tit torture, the anatomy of breasts and the motivation for torturing one (or two), and various manners in which one might torture a tit. That and tit torture trivia. All links NSFW.

MMMMF!!! MMMMFF! MMMMMFFF!!!

zarq — Mon, 12 Mar 2007 11:40:18 -0800

Newsfilter: Israel has recalled its ambassador to El Salvador after he was found drunk and naked apart from bondage gear. Reports say he was able to identify himself to police only after a rubber ball had been removed from his mouth. Oy! More here. This isn't the first time an Israeli ambassador has gotten in trouble, either. Previously on Metafilter: The Swedish Art Incident

Sir Does Not Allow Me to Watch ‘Project Runway’

joeclark — Wed, 03 Jan 2007 20:20:04 -0800

Sir Does Not Allow Me to Watch ‘Project Runway’ Maybe going to class to learn to express one’s inner kink is not such a good idea. (NSFW, but no pictures)

"The Free Woman is a riddle, the answer to which is the collar."

Sticherbeast — Wed, 20 Dec 2006 19:47:47 -0800

Goreans are inspired by the sci-fi works of Gor, by John Norman, whose turgid prose lays out a way of life for male masters and female slaves...but also Free Women. So why not meet one? Or at least say hello. And don't forget their humor! It sure is something. It just isn't BDSM.

Some days you get to be the pigeon. Some days you get to be the statue. And some days . . .

jason's_planet — Sun, 01 Oct 2006 10:50:01 -0800

[NSFW] Much of contemporary liberal thought rests on the idea of the Social Contract. In this scheme, we agree to give up a certain amount of freedom in exchange for the protection and opportunity that society provides. Our individual lives mirror this. We defer to others when politeness requires it. We assert ourselves and our needs with pleases and thank yous. Most of daily life has some power dynamic to it, expressed with the subtlety that civilization demands. And what is implicit in daily life is made explicit in the role-playing of BDSM, based on the idea of a Power Exchange, where one party explicitly agrees to give up a certain amount of power to another. For most people who are into this, the “scenes” are circumscribed by rules, usually discussed beforehand, such as appropriate safewords, time limits, etc. For a small subset of this group, the typical safeguards are cast aside and the slave surrenders all aspects of his or her life to the master. The female submissive Polly Peachum has written about this lifestyle in her essay “Violence in the Garden” about her life as a 24-7 slave and the sexual dimensions of that relationship.

Comic books and bondage. Two great tastes that...

dobbs — Wed, 17 May 2006 20:24:09 -0800

The Comic Book Bondage Cover of the Day - Massive archive of... well, it's pretty self-explanatory.

Best part? The font.

CunningLinguist — Sat, 18 Feb 2006 11:07:54 -0800

"You will be naked within 20 minutes of the kids being in bed…You are to do everything that is requested or expected of you, if you do not, you are considered noncompliant." – from Travis Frey's "Contract of Wifely Expectations" which also includes detailed instructions what panties she can wear, what sex acts she must perform, how often and where she must shave and how she can earn "good behavior days." Frey, 33, of Iowa, has been charged with kidnapping his wife.

Me, Mom, and sadomasochism

Paddle to Sea — Thu, 09 Dec 2004 10:48:58 -0800

Mom finds out just how kinky you really are? Prepare for the consequences: phone calls, awkward questions, threats, revelations, and some stuff you don't want to hear. Get ready for the tough questions, and a conversation you'd definitely like to forget. Advice? Just accept it. Is it easy? No.

Subservient chicken

mildred-pitt — Wed, 07 Apr 2004 17:01:26 -0800

Subservient chicken - modern advertising...

Once We Were Slaves

jann — Tue, 15 Apr 2003 09:16:47 -0800

Avadim Chayeinu: A BDSM Haggadah In some way or another, all who celebrate Passover, end up writing their own Haggadahs. There are literally hundreds and hundreds of different ones to choose from. Tradition says: never forget that YOU were freed from the land of Egypt. The desire to tell one's own tale of liberation and free one's own voice has led to holocaust haggadahs, gay and lesbian hagaddahs, zionist hagaddahs, feminist haggadahs, secular humanist haggadahs and now, a haggadah for those to whom the term "slave" has an altogether different meaning. (via boingboing.)

gimli — Tue, 13 Mar 2001 11:57:49 -0800

It's the Unaspanker! Read a good manifesto lately? Meet Robin Whittle, a man who has spent an alarming amount of time on a project called "Fondly and Firmly - The Gentlemanly Art of Spanking the Woman You Love." via cruel.com