http://www.metafilter.com/tags/PositiveOutlook Posts tagged with 'PositiveOutlook' at MetaFilter. Sat, 23 Sep 2006 14:05:38 -0800 Sat, 23 Sep 2006 14:05:38 -0800 en-us http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 http://www.metafilter.com/55002/Nina%2DHartley%2DBolshevik%2DPorn%2DStar <em><strong>(NSFW)</strong></em> “If you are denying yourself pleasure then you have to take responsibility for where you are right now. <a href="http://www.lukeford.com/index.php?//list.stars=483/1" title="A basic profile, courtesy of lukeford.com">When you get to a place where you are happy</a> then love comes into your life. When you begin to love yourself then people recognize that and you can start receiving it. Self-pity will get you nowhere. Our society is sexist, racist, ageist, but I am a biological creature with all these amazing gifts of orgasm and <a href="http://www.icl-fi.org/" title="Some sources say that she is a sympathizer of this Trotskyite organization.">I cannot wait for the world out there to change</a> for me to be happy. I have all the happiness I need inside myself and I’m keeping it. I have denied it and avoided it for myself for too long. I have waited around for other things to be arranged before I gave myself happiness and I’m not going to do that anymore. It wasn’t until I stopped wallowing in all that self-pity and <a href="http://www.mk-magazine.com/interviews/archives/000114.php" title="Not the most readable design in the world. But still a wonderful interview. And the source of this quote.">took matters into my own hands </a> that things started to change for me. . . . Don’t wait around for another person to give that to you, give it to yourself. . . . We have been taught to not like ourselves and <a href="http://www.counterpunch.org/hartley02022005.html" title="One of her many essays.">it takes a lot to unteach that to ourselves. </a> There is a lot of conditioning and everyone has their own kind of conditioning that they have to unlearn. . . . All I can tell people about myself is that I give it to myself just as I can. My area just happens to be sex, while others have art, painting or public health or whatever. I’m just as true to myself as I can be.” --<a href="http://www.nina.com/" title="What a babe!">Nina Hartley </a> tag:metafilter.com,2006:site.55002 Sat, 23 Sep 2006 14:05:38 -0800 FirstAmendment FreedomofExpression Hawtness Jewish Marxism NinaHartley Pornography PornStar PositiveOutlook Sex Sexuality jason's_planet