http://www.metafilter.com/tags/finslippy Posts tagged with 'finslippy' at MetaFilter. Fri, 17 Feb 2012 08:14:43 -0800 Fri, 17 Feb 2012 08:14:43 -0800 en-us http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss 60 http://www.metafilter.com/112897/To%2Dbe%2Da%2Dyoung%2Dwoman%2Din%2Dour%2Dculture%2Dmeans%2Dthat%2Dyou%2Dexist%2Dfrom%2Dan%2Dalarmingly%2Dyoung%2Dage%2Dfor%2Dthe%2Dappreciation%2Dof%2Dothers%2DTherefore%2Dyour%2Devery%2Dfeature%2Dis%2Dfair%2Dgame%2Dfor%2Dpublic%2Dappraisal Finslippy: <a href="http://www.finslippy.com/blog/on-being-an-object-and-then-not-being-an-object.html">On being an object, and then not being an object</a>. This <a href="http://rookiemag.com/2011/09/male-gaze/">starts young</a>. But <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-chemaly/girls-cyberbullying-facebook_b_1197215.html">"...girls are being nice to one another. They're complimenting each other. They are telling each other something important about the world and their place in it."</a> Sometimes, <a href="http://blogs.scientificamerican.com/guest-blog/2012/01/31/if-it-looks-like-a-compliment-and-sounds-like-a-compliment-is-it-really-a-compliment/">compliments aren't really compliments</a> and <a href="http://persephonemagazine.com/2011/12/im-not-a-fan-of-the-word-flattering-and-heres-why/">"flattering" can be body policing</a>. tag:metafilter.com,2012:site.112897 Fri, 17 Feb 2012 08:14:43 -0800 blog blogs bodyimage compliments finslippy flattering huffingtonpost huffpo malegaze nicegirls objectification persephone persephonemagaazine rookie rookiemag scientificamerican sorayachemaly flex