An easy way to have sex without having to communicate.
The Forty Beads method, invented by sex therapist Carolyn Evans
, relies on tokens that allow a husband to give his wife a bead (by putting it in her "beadcatcher") when he's "in the mood," with a 24-hour deadline for "redemption." (Evans also says the roles can be reversed
for those low-libido husbands/high-libido wives).