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What's the deal with your nickname? How did you get it? If your nickname is self-explanatory, then tell everyone when you first started using the internet, and what was the first thing that made you say "wow, this isn't just a place for freaks after all?" Was it a website? Was it an email from a long-lost friend? Go on, spill it.

A few have asked, so here's my Guardian Comment is free column, articles are linked from here.

And here is my writing in the New Statesman.

My website is NSFW, and for adults only, please. So are my Flickr feed, my Twitter and nearly anything I may link to. I am a new account for a long time member of Metafilter, and I am largely abandoning that account and will do most of my answering/asking/favouriting here.

I am really happy to help you answer your sex, D/s and fetish questions confidentially, and to signpost you to resources in your area online.

Bitcoin tips are welcome: 1MEuWAgzeArG9sittnqhuTHkMtgvirZvuS