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Two Danish visitors in car-centric Canada
Well, I just traveled around Denmark and was robbed in my hotel room while I was sleeping, so to each his own, I guess.
Yes, but the thief was able to escape by BICYCLE!
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 9:30 AM on August 8, 2014
We are blending two families, and now I have two picky eaters, help?
Your desire is to eat vegetables with chicken. Their desire is to eat hot dogs or macaroni and cheese. You both have an extremely limited ideal menu. It would be wise of you to show some compromise. For example, chicken hot dogs, macaroni and cheese with cauliflower, broccoli or peas mixed in? The comments above about what's healthy for you might not even be healthy for a six-year old? They are right on. Kids need fat for brain development. They also need to take baby steps… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 7:27 AM on August 5, 2014
Need Help with Thank You Card wording
If you can, include some photos of your friend when he was in college with your note -- it's so great to see new pictures of your loved ones after they're gone.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 7:18 AM on August 1, 2014 marked best answer
These cats are asleep.
WAKE UP CATS.
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 6:44 AM on July 31, 2014
kate blank, the DF-kewl Kitty Room has some little ones who are awake and grooming.
Plus one is climbing the cat tree! A++++ would watch again, thanks.
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 6:47 AM on July 31, 2014
Sponge cake for everyone!
What's the proper term for this sort of thing? An apolo-brag?
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 12:26 PM on July 29, 2014
ASS GLAND APOCALYPSE
annaramma beat me to it -- if I were your friend I would absolutely do this for you. New York is a big city and it's probably unlikely that you have friends living on your block/in your building, but don't discount this possibility.
(Also -- you SAID overactive anal glands, but when I read that the vet is already doing them once a week AND she's still self-expressing at least once a week I was like, oh. OH. You mean OVERACTIVE ANAL GLANDS. Wow. One hundred hugs of… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 4:40 PM on July 28, 2014
Tourette Syndrome Update
Oh my god you're giving a keynote! That's always been one of the items on my magical thinking list of things I want to do (for the record I also want curly hair, to become a VP at work and become a Canadian citizen). This is wonderful news, congratulations.
posted to MetaTalk by kate blank at 1:41 PM on July 28, 2014
One Mistake Changes Everything?
I was crying on the road which probably didn't help and was pulled over in what I now believe was some kind of DUI trap
Okay, actually you were pulled over because you were driving and you were drunk. If you hadn't been drunk, might have been pulled over but you wouldn't have been arrested.
Based on your question, it seems like you are young, female and employed. That's all going to help you because each factor statistically… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 8:41 AM on July 28, 2014
It's "banana," not "'nana"
What I do with kids who are whining or speaking in an age-inappropriate baby voice is just say "what?" I'm sorry, I can't understand you" when they do it. I think you are too casually acquainted to be more direct than that.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:56 AM on July 21, 2014
Indoor couch to outdoor dog couch
If you coat it with a waterproofing spray you'll change the way the couch smells and potentially the feel of the fabric. That might make it unappealing/unfamiliar to the dog.
I would suggest going in a different direction with a big canopy (maybe something like this?) to protect from rain and, as a bonus, provide some shade for your pooch. For crazy once-a-year style rainstorms, you could cover it with a tarp or move it inside.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:58 AM on July 18, 2014
A1 vs. A2 milk
I am allergic to cow's milk, I am allergic to soy. I am allergic to almonds, so almond milk is out. A coworker recently asked what I put on my morning cereal and I said tears. I'm pretty sure he thought I was kidding.
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 8:06 PM on July 17, 2014
Help me rejoin the land of the living.
Honestly, some people require more sleep than others and while 12 hours is definitely on the outer edge of normal it doesn't seem untenable and doesn't have to interfere with your ability to live a normal life. What would interfere is if you are following what you describe as your "natural preference" -- falling asleep around 3-4 AM and waking up between 11 and noon. Have you tried Melatonin? Taken early enough in the evening (like 7-8 PM) it could help you to get… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:41 AM on July 17, 2014
So What Are You *Really* Trying To Say?
I offer you the figurative fig leaf of a real tofutti cutie
I have anaphylaxis to dairy AND soy but don't worry I am still going to get drunk tonight.
posted to MetaTalk by kate blank at 1:54 PM on July 16, 2014
Any helpful guidance for family member who is leaving High School?
My parents forced me to quit school when I was 15. I worked in a hospice, got a GED, went to college, did a research fellowship at Harvard, immigrated to Canada, and now manage a team of editors in a job I really love.
Quitting school, even though it wasn't by my choice, didn't stop me from doing anything I wanted with my life. Your family member will either be fine or he won't, but that's true for every single person whether or not they are currently enrolled in school.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:25 AM on July 16, 2014
a woman recently invited "us" over in for dinner
(first off is it okay for a woman to do that right in front of the wife??)
This person invited you and your husband over for dinner. Of course it is okay for her to do that in front of you. You are invited. Honestly, some people just like to host dinners and some single people find that guests are a great excuse to do the sort of meal that is less… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 4:57 PM on July 12, 2014
My son is panicking about learning to swim. Help?
How can we convince him the pool is fun, safe and comfortable?
As an adult, snorkeling and swimming in the ocean is literally my favorite thing to do, I structure my whole year around getting at least one big snorkeling vacation in and I have happily given lessons to complete strangers so they could enjoy this fantastic thing.
But. As a kid I was terrified of the water. And I can't help but think that… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 2:14 PM on July 11, 2014
poverty is a circumstance, not a value judgment.
I would have sold it. Or traded it in for a car that had more modest service/repair costs.
Well, be sure to check back when you're bowled over by crippling poverty, so we can judge every decision you make!
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:49 AM on July 9, 2014
The only welfare-getting families I ever knew that owned two cars were drug dealers.
Well, be sure to check back when you're bowled over by crippling poverty but still own a car, so we can speculate that you must be a drug dealer!
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 12:57 PM on July 9, 2014
Around April 15th (US income tax day) a couple of years ago, my brother-in-law posted on Facebook "I wish I at least had a picture of the lazy ghetto family I am supporting with all these taxes!" So I posted a picture of me, my wife and kids, and our WIC card.
I want to travel back in time and give you, like a thousand Facebook thumbs-up for that. Awesome. Thank you.
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 1:00 PM on July 9, 2014
handling cat-care while on vacation
My cat is 13 and incredibly delicate and darling and the absolute apple of my eye. Both options you presented -- vet boarding or going to someone's house -- would stress her out to no end and she would spend a full ten days hissing and spite-urinating on every human she could find. Having someone come in every day to pet, feed and scoop her causes absolutely no stress and she is safe, happy and secure. So I would suggest doing that if at all possible.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 6:31 AM on July 9, 2014
a nice activity/gift for a wedding skype?
If she is sending a wedding present, it would be nice to open the present over Skype.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:15 AM on July 7, 2014
Dear Coworker: Why do you care what I eat?
This is really and truly one of the worst things about working in an office. A lot of people are just weird about food and/or constantly look to compare what they are eating to what other people are eating.
I would speak to her, politely and directly and I would use something that you said in your question in what you say to her: "I dread eating my lunch every day because I know [you will] have something to say about it." Sandwich it with a lot of "I know… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 8:39 AM on June 30, 2014
Laughing Is Magic
I even used shampoo and conditioner on her mane and tail
Truly, we are the greatest generation.
posted to MetaTalk by kate blank at 7:52 AM on June 26, 2014
I hit my head several times a week. How do I stop?
Other activities (like heavy exercise or riding roller coasters) can cause concussions or exacerbate existing head injuries so it may not be just the two big incidents (truck, concrete ceiling) that you remember causing the problems. Unfortunately repeated head trauma can have long-term effects if they are not treated properly and your description of hitting your head about once a day on your low sloping ceiling makes me worry that you're compounding your original injuries. Of the three… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 1:56 PM on June 25, 2014
[largest amount of money you can possibly comprehend, plus $14,000]
[largest amount of money you can possibly comprehend, plus $14,000] was my favorite line in the piece, but I have to admit that I have a deep, deep love of the absurd NYT Real Estate section and read the whole stupid thing every single week.
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 2:32 PM on June 23, 2014
Help me name my business?
Touchstone: Inner Nature Designs.
(When I saw the word in your question it jumped out at me as perfect.)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 3:36 PM on June 21, 2014 marked best answer
Does a sudden change in texting habits mean anything?
We are on each other's IG's [...] We are also on FB
I've been married to people that I shared less social networking overlap with. In the future, wait until you meet in person to start making those kinds of additions? It just keeps things simpler/less crazy.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 9:39 AM on June 18, 2014
Not happy with teeth after braces. What should I do?
How old are you? My dentist told me that if you get braces when you're older and your jaw is set your teeth will move much more easily than if you'd gotten them in adolescence (when the jaw can harden/set around the straightened teeth). For that reason, I have to wear a permanent behind-the-teeth retainer.
FWIW, I got my braces off at 20 and at 33 they're still straight.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 6:52 PM on June 17, 2014
How can I keep going forward during a series of crises?
If you have a child and don't have an income, that's what welfare and food stamps are for.
The OP is in Ontario, which does not have a food stamps program. There are food banks (which may be scarce in rural Ontario) but that's it for food help.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 9:55 AM on June 10, 2014
when I try to reach out a bit I get reassurances about how great I'm doing
This is when you have to say "I am not actually doing well, I am panicked and I feel hopeless". You have friends and family and that is wonderful. Can you make a list of concrete ways they can help (picking up your grocery costs for the week, paying for a one-week activity camp for your little one for a little break for you, tackling a repair in the house) and then… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:05 AM on June 10, 2014
International travel and frozen food
travelwithcats, do you not use yeast in your pizza dough?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 6:35 PM on June 9, 2014
New AskMe category: property/housing?
How about we just have a category called "rich people"?
As my question history might indicate, I would love this.
posted to MetaTalk by kate blank at 12:04 PM on June 4, 2014
The horror of "casual", the heat of "summer"
Another option for thigh friction is either a sport anti-chafe cream like Body Glide or this one from Monistat. (Also, standard issue deodorant is great for preventing chafing in a pinch.)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:59 AM on June 4, 2014
So who gave you the Golden ticket
Wow, it took me a good five minutes to remember what brought me here, but it must have been ThreeWayAction (3waction.com? I feel like I'm having a stroke because it's basically impossible to google anything about a long-dead website that was... called three way action) that brought me to Ask MetaFilter for some particularly interesting question or another, then I lurked forever and ever and then finally signed up for a membership in 2008. Which was six years ago. Oh my god, I'm a hundred years… [more]
posted to MetaTalk by kate blank at 3:06 PM on June 3, 2014
"You Crazy Bastards. What Have You Done? Now I Have To Rebuild!"
Today, yesterday and forever I CANNOT STOP CONFUSING ANDY BAIO WITH SCOTT BAIO FOR A SPLIT SECOND EVERY TIME HE COMES UP.
posted to MetaFilter by kate blank at 1:30 PM on June 3, 2014
MeFi Fundraising Update
In the initial post (or maybe the Medium article?) you had mentioned that the staff had previously taken a pay cut, is that something that might be reversed with the help of the fundraising funds?
posted to MetaTalk by kate blank at 4:31 PM on June 2, 2014
Paid for a car repair that failed, but mechanic is gone after surgery
He came across as well-intentioned, repeatedly trying to put the repair right.
This is absolutely true.
I’m unhappy that we’ve still got the same car problem we paid to repair
This is how cars work sometimes, especially when they are twelve years old!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 9:36 AM on May 28, 2014
Does Fortune really favor the Bold?
When I saw that the question said "do I have an opportunity for some killer career networking right on my doorstep?" I....thought you would describe some sort of career networking opportunity. A great conference, festival or other chance to meet people in your field. This is not that. At all. I'm sorry.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 4:09 AM on May 25, 2014
Vegan pasta recipes
In a baking dish with proper sides (ie, not a cookie sheet) toss whole white mushrooms and big wedges of sweet onion with olive oil and salt and pepper. Bake at 400 for between 30 and 60 minutes, depending on how long you have (longer is better). Toss the mushrooms and onions with wide, thin pasta (a vegan egg noodle would be great).
PS: the mushrooms and onions are also amazing on a fresh crusty baguette.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 6:57 AM on May 24, 2014 marked best answer
Can my 27" Cinema Display fly?
Unless you are comfortable picking the monitor up and throwing it as hard as you can against a wall, I would not check it. Are you certain you can't take it as your carry-on item?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 11:16 AM on May 22, 2014
How to survive a low-iodine diet (difficulty level: vegetarian)
It is possible to make iodine-free bread; a friend of mine was going through the same thing and one of her friends made it for her. She treasured every slice! If you can do that (or outsource it in some way) that would be a lovely treat (and the perfect breakfast with jam and some of her limited nut butter allowance).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 2:41 PM on May 21, 2014
Also, you say no dairy or soy, but could she have pea or hemp protein powder? They are both pretty popular in the vegan world. You could try making a protein/fruit smoothie with one of those if that's allowed.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 2:43 PM on May 21, 2014
Have tampons gotten longer or has my vagina gotten shorter?
Several years agoI had a few lesions removed from my cervix and immediately lost my ability to comfortably use tampons. I had mostly been using OB but that and everything else I tried just hurt. Eventually I discovered that Tampax Pearl tampons worked well, even though the actual tampon is larger/longer than OB. They have a pretty elaborate plastic applicator that gives me a little pang of environmental guilt but oh well.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 3:21 PM on May 20, 2014
OKC Profilefilter, Part n+1
oh WELL DONE!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:49 AM on May 16, 2014
My friend didn't call me after my wisdom teeth surgery.
I've been telling her the whole week that my surgery was yesterday morning
Okay, but why? Why did you need to tell her more than once when your surgery was? This language indicates to me that you weren't getting what you wanted/expected from the exchange so rather than rephrase your information (my surgery is X morning and I feel panicky about it, can you call me so we can talk) you just kept telling her the same thing. She's your friend and she… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 10:46 AM on May 16, 2014
Big 'V' Commemoration Gift
He's going to have several days of lay-low recovery time, so considering your budget I'd say a new video game, if he plays them, or a new gripping book to read if that's more his speed. Or a series on DVD! The vasectomy recoveries that my friends have gone through have basically looked like nap/movie/smartphone games/TV/nap/TV. So anything that makes that more fun is great.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 8:18 AM on May 14, 2014
Montreal Travel Questions
If you are lukewarm on Montreal, you might consider going to Quebec City and staying at the Fairmont Le Chateau Frontenac. It is luxurious and spectacular and it's really well-situated for a lot of long, leisurely walks to explore.
I have been to Montreal and loved it -- it has a wonderful European feel and tons of great food. But if it doesn't appeal to you there's no need to force it.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 12:18 PM on May 13, 2014
My preschooler is the slowest eater on the planet
Smoothies may work well for breakfast and they can really be packed with nutrition (and protein, too, if you throw in some protein powder). They can also hold a crazy amount of sugar, so watch out for that. Is he HUNGRY after he eats a small amount? Is it just that you're expecting him to eat more than he really wants? When I was a nanny I would pick a new/desirable book and read one page or paragraph (depending on the book) per bite. If you want the story to continue, you have to keep eating.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 9:56 AM on May 12, 2014
"Big smile, it'll be over soon!"
IF YOU'RE WAITING FOR A SIGN, THIS IS IT.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kate blank at 7:44 PM on May 11, 2014