I'm a straight 29-year old male, who for various reasons has never dated and now is trying to get started. The problem is that I never learned how to flirt, and I'm totally clueless about how to either generate interest or recognize interest in others. What's worse, the standard "Martian's guides to dating" are almost useless to me because my primary social activities are forms of partner dancing, in which the norms of physical contact are different enough that I can't use the standard signals to judge someone's interest. So, what can I do to attract the ladies or notice when they're attracted to me?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 7:15 PM on November 30, 2010 (19 comments)

I like Richard Feynman, I like Randy Paulsch. I like them because they are passionate with the things they do and they are inspiring to other people. Who else is passionate and inspiring like these fine men?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by bbxx at 6:50 PM on November 30, 2010 (17 comments)

Is there a QuickLook plugin (for Mac OS X 10.5 "Leopard" if you didn't follow) to browse sqlite databases? If not, wouldn't that be awesome for Rails and iPhone development!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by avocade at 7:57 AM on May 8, 2008 (2 comments)

What's the best bank or credit union in the Chicago area?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by korpios at 10:04 AM on April 24, 2008 (11 comments)

BookFilter: Help me remember this book about 3 children who go on an "incredible journey" of sorts after their parents fail to pick them up from the hotel's daycare.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by acoutu at 9:56 PM on April 10, 2008 (6 comments)

Fantastic baba ganoush and hummus recipes?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by mustcatchmooseandsquirrel at 5:58 PM on June 14, 2007 (19 comments)

What movies should any person in their right mind have seen by now?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by showbiz_liz at 2:36 PM on January 26, 2008 (100 comments)

I'm looking for tips, tricks, hacks, scripts, and ideas for managing torrents using Linux.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by christonabike at 7:04 PM on January 26, 2008 (8 comments)

I'm being a very bad transhumanist by letting my body get so unhealthy over the last few years. I'd like to fix that; having just moved to the Chicago area, I'd like to find a decent gym to start working out in. My fear, however, is that I'll run into the same issue I've encountered before: signing a year contract only to let my attendance taper off (ultimately never visiting at all in the last six months).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by korpios at 11:24 AM on January 25, 2008 (14 comments)

It is freezing outside, and I just took inside a kitten (about a foot long). What do I have suitable for food beside milk that would not harm it? What can I improvise for a litter box? I do not want to go out shopping for cat stuff tonight.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by francesca too at 5:54 PM on January 25, 2008 (21 comments)

I'm a mid-20s male in the East Bay. I don't have health insurance, but am thinking about getting some. None is available through work. What are my best options?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 3:10 AM on January 23, 2008 (9 comments)

Giftfilter: please help me blow my sister's gift out of the water!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Brocktoon at 9:14 AM on January 23, 2008 (8 comments)

I'd like to stop using plastic grocery bags, but I use them as liners in all of my garbage cans (including the kitchen, where stuff thrown in tends to be moist food detritus). Any ideas on what to use as garbage liners in lieu of the plastic bags?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by backseatpilot at 4:14 PM on January 24, 2008 (20 comments)

Can I kiss you?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 7:23 PM on January 22, 2008 (57 comments)

ModFilter: I've been dating a gal for under a month. She's great! Her birthday's this weekend. What do I get her here in Chicago? Hint: She's really into '60s mod culture.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by HeroZero at 5:00 PM on January 22, 2008 (18 comments)

What are some safe online pharmacies to buy cheap generic drugs from?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by anybirds at 10:14 AM on January 22, 2008 (11 comments)

Exercises And Stretches To Do While Reading?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by chrisalbon at 10:22 AM on January 20, 2008 (14 comments)

How to find balance between consumerism and materialism, and taking care of needs and appreciate quality/craftsmanship/design?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Foci for Analysis at 8:53 AM on January 20, 2008 (25 comments)

I need suggestions for a men's swimsuit. I need the advice of the men and the women on this one.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Emperor SnooKloze at 7:07 AM on January 20, 2008 (31 comments)

I think I want to move to Spain for a couple of years to experience life in another country. But, as a US citizen, I don't know how I would go about supporting myself over there. Can I get a job there? Should I become a student?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by inatizzy at 8:17 PM on January 21, 2008 (11 comments)

What's the origin of/meaning behind the idiom of inviting a lady to inspect one's collection of etchings as a (euphemized/veiled?) sexual proposition?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by juv3nal at 11:24 PM on January 21, 2008 (15 comments)

It's that Linux/laptop question again. Desperate geek seeks cheap, durable gear.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by nebulawindphone at 8:25 PM on January 19, 2008 (20 comments)

Is it ever acceptable to put a drop cap on a paragraph of italic text?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by bicyclefish at 7:34 PM on January 19, 2008 (13 comments)

I found a great price for a ticket using ITA software (thanks askmefi). After giving her all the booking details, my travel agent wasn't able to even remotely match the price. Is my agent just incompetent or is it really as complicated as she made it sound? I want that ticket!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by juva at 7:10 AM on January 19, 2008 (9 comments)

Is it worthwhile to enter therapy if you're not in acute distress?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 10:21 PM on January 18, 2008 (32 comments)

Travel recommendation: short, authentic stay in Mexico?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by cgs at 2:04 PM on January 17, 2008 (16 comments)

What's your favorite thing to make under the broiler?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by sugarfish at 2:55 PM on January 17, 2008 (42 comments)

Where can I learn about music history and music theory for free?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Chris4d at 10:00 PM on January 16, 2008 (25 comments)

How can I add more novelty and adventure into my life?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by kaizen at 7:51 AM on January 14, 2008 (23 comments)

I'm looking for porn a girl might like. But apparently I'm picky.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 7:51 AM on January 14, 2008 (30 comments)

Is this a reputable tailor for (mail-order) bespoke suits?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by davidriley at 9:47 AM on January 14, 2008 (3 comments)

Where can I get an old-timey shave in the city of Chicago?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by KevinSkomsvold at 9:07 AM on January 14, 2008 (6 comments)

Is living in New York really that hard?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by lunasol at 3:01 PM on January 14, 2008 (73 comments)

Apartment life. The smoker downstairs is making it very difficult for me to breathe!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on January 13, 2008 (17 comments)

What should I know about hosting an unconference? Have you organized or attended one before? What worked, what didn't?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Wolfie at 10:09 AM on January 11, 2008 (6 comments)

What Wii game is most like Zork?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Eringatang at 1:07 PM on January 9, 2008 (11 comments)

Every Bachelor Pad must have a ?????? Moving into my own apartment after a few years of living with a roommate. What things do I need to make sure to have the coolest, most comfortable, awesome bachelor pad ever?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by boyinmiami at 11:08 AM on January 7, 2008 (50 comments)

I can make music. How do I make songs?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by squidlarkin at 9:03 PM on January 6, 2008 (19 comments)

All right, so, I love Tom Waits. A lot. Like most people love their grandmothers, I guess, except I've never made a turkey out of my handprint in some finger paint for Tom. What are some bands/artists who sound like that? Particularly latter-day Waits: Bone Machine, Mule Variations, Real Gone, etc. I've never been that big on the ballads, I confess (there goes my hipster cred).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by katillathehun at 11:16 PM on January 5, 2008 (53 comments)

I am looking for a Japanese blog about a woman who left passive aggressive notes for her husband and son as part of the food in the bentos she made them.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by duckierose at 4:44 PM on January 5, 2008 (10 comments)

Where is a good place in a European city for a non-European to buy a small but nice two bedroom apartment for holidays? Looking for a city environment. How much would I need to spend? Are there any regulatory hurdles? Where do I find them?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by DirtyCreature at 3:54 PM on January 3, 2008 (6 comments)

Your favorite hot booze in a pot recipe?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by availablelight at 2:01 PM on January 2, 2008 (26 comments)

Does anyone have any recommendations on where to buy herbal smoking pipes online? Advice on finding a piece for the adult professional in me?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Anonymous at 8:32 PM on January 1, 2008 (15 comments)

How to buy an affordable chair that's good for my back.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Simon! at 12:00 AM on January 1, 2008 (12 comments)

Religion fulfills certain psychological needs. How do non-believers manage without it?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by giggleknickers at 5:33 PM on December 30, 2007 (75 comments)

Is there any resource online that lists fiction (and possibly non-fiction) authors by age?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by aclevername at 5:33 PM on December 29, 2007 (5 comments)

Print shops that will do specialty cut business cards on good paper
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Hands of Manos at 3:39 PM on December 28, 2007 (11 comments)

Cooking for one: I need some tasty, healthy single-serving recipe ideas!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by logic vs love at 1:24 PM on December 28, 2007 (27 comments)

I have a huge mental block when it comes to writing songs that is the direct result of being ridiculed or sometimes even punished by my father when I was little. It's so bad that even when I try, a little voice in my head screams, "no, no, no!" and I just shut down. Freewriting is great, but I need to be able to ignore that voice even when I'm writing thoughtfully and paying attention to conventions like rhyme, rhythm and melody. I have plenty of ideas, but I need help learning how to get them out onto paper. Any ideas?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by freshwater_pr0n at 6:39 PM on December 27, 2007 (21 comments)

Changing my wardrobe.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Astro Zombie at 11:48 PM on December 26, 2007 (36 comments)