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We’d love to say “It’s not you, it’s us” but it’s totally you.

Eat24 explains why they're done with Facebook. They're not the first to notice problems with Facebook' business model. (previously). But it's not just businesses affected. people have been noticing a drop in their friends posts for a while. Facebook limits the users reach, and asks them to pay to ensure your friends see it. (keyword in HTML)
posted to MeFi by [insert clever name here] at 4:11 AM on April 11, 2014

I feel unappreciated - how to deal?

I feel really undervalued and unappreciated in every arena of my life. I'm already in therapy. What can I do to quiet these feelings? My boyfriend of six months recently dumped me because he said he didn't love me. My best friend ditched me again to have dinner with her girlfriend after she told me she would have dinner with me, so I didn't get to to out for Thai tonight and ate a microwave dinner ... used and unappreciated. This was a problem before I got dumped - I think it contributed to the breakup. I never felt unappreciated by him, but I ...
posted to Ask MeFi by sockermom at 8:21 PM on October 28, 2013

Have any ~30 year old women here broken off long relationships?

Hi. So I am a 30 year old woman dating a 37 year old guy. We started dating back when I was 22 and he was 29. I was pretty young then really now I think about it. Early days were great. However we've now been in a rut for the past 8 months or so and I'm starting to question whether I should make the effort to help fix things,... or whether it might be better to breakup. What is it like to be a ...
posted to Ask MeFi by ohayo_lion at 6:06 PM on January 11, 2013

Why did you break up?

Why did you break up? More specifically, you thought you found someone you're compatible with, you guys mutually made a commitment, but yet you ended up breaking up a year or two later, or later in life. What was the reason for the breakup? I am in a great relationship. We both talked about wanting to be together forever, we talked about all the big things that couples should agree on, we both ...
posted to Ask MeFi by never.was.and.never.will.be. at 5:39 PM on December 5, 2012

Shame Go Away, Please Don't Come Back Another Day

I behaved in a similarly disturbing way as the type of person disclosed in this this post, the only difference was that I was desperate for friendship and was not and never thought of this person in a romantic way. I still feel so ashamed for over disclosing and acting in an insecure way with a coworker despite a couple of years passing by. How can I truly move past this and forgive myself? A ... (keyword in HTML)
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 1:02 PM on November 29, 2012

What separates the "never-recover-from-this-breakup/shell of my former self" people from the ones who bounce back and love again?

Why is it that some people never seem to recover after a bad break-up or divorce? You know those people...the sort of "empty shell" folks who walk around perpetually sad or simply damaged in some way that keeps them frozen in place. I ask this question on behalf of myself--as I not-so-recently went through a break-up with a man I considered to be THE ONE--but also because I knew someone ... , I'm reasonably attractive and have a lot to offer; and I absolutely DON'T mention the breakup to new people that I meet, and yet, nearing the end of ...
posted to Ask MeFi by exploringoptimism at 9:28 AM on May 30, 2012

how to talk to boss about subpar work due to depression

Boss wants to talk about why I haven't been in the office that much these past few months and why my work is not up to par. I've been struggling with depression. How can I talk to him about this? I work in a very small group at a university. Culture is very relaxed, and we rarely go through HR about anything. Boss is nice and seems to care about employees, but I would not consider us friends (more ... working from home, but from now on, I will come into the office more. But then I went through a breakup, and following through with that seemed even ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 6:06 PM on April 3, 2012

#NotThankful for your seemingly endless bliss and my resulting jealousy. Or your dumb twitter #hashtag.

When you're in a long term relationship or marriage, how do you deal with feelings of jealousy of other couples seemingly endless "honeymoon phase"? Been with my boyfriend for 3+ years, living together for over a year. I love him very much and he loves me very much back . He is a great partner for me that is loving, supportive, funny, and keeps me on my toes. He both challenges me and ... you had more of what someone else has in your relationship. I am not looking for advice to breakup with the bf just to chase that feeling, because ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 4:29 PM on November 14, 2011

AT+T does not add T-Mobile

Justice Department (apparently) blocks the merger of AT+T and T-Mobile. The Associated Press is reporting that Justice will block the deal because "would reduce competition and raise prices." Sprint, the US #3 carrier, objected to the deal, as did many consumer groups. If the merger denial survives the probable court challenge, AT+T will be on the hook for up to US$6 Billion in ... (keyword in HTML)
posted to MeFi by andreaazure at 8:36 AM on August 31, 2011

Socially engineered pain

How do you deal with the loss of what turned out to be something you never had? Social engineering relationship question I found out that an evolving intimate written relationship - call it a penpal - was a social engineering game. I was the "real player" between two teams, one whose goal was to make me leave and one whose goal was to evoke enough emotion to make me stay. I am in a ... . Luckily I am not there and much older. Any advice welcome - this is neither a conventional breakup nor a traditional loss. ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 11:19 AM on April 6, 2011

How do you get over someone that dumped you out of the blue and says they will never speak to you again?

How do you get over someone that dumped you out of the blue and says they will never speak to you again? About a year ago I was happily in love with a guy whom I was sure I would marry. We were inseparable, and he seemed almost more smitten with me than I was with him. He would tell me constantly that I was perfect, that he never wanted to be with another girl, that we would be married with kids ... don't believe he was being dishonest with me, which makes it all the stranger. Right after the breakup he did unleash a list of minor grievances ...
posted to Ask MeFi by timsneezed at 8:33 AM on April 3, 2011

Please give me some hope.

Please give me some hope. I'm 32. I am going through a bad break up. The relationship lasted 1.5 years. It's been only a few days since the break up and I'm trying to act normal and go about normal life even as I find myself tearing up in my stupid cubicle at work. I do not plan to ever have contact with the ex again and so far have had no contact since the breakup. I need to make a clean ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 9:08 AM on February 17, 2011

The spouse and the house

How to deal with the guilt of leaving a spouse with a house they can't afford? I am seriously considering divorcing my husband (who I have been with since we were both 17, married for 3 years). I think now that we are in our late 20s, we have just grown into incompatible people. I've been going back and forth (with my own therapist & in couples therapy) with whether there is any way we ... we've been together for all of our adult lives ... and honestly, neither one of us has ever had a breakup like this before. And the biggest issue ...
posted to Ask MeFi by catfood at 11:04 AM on February 3, 2011

In relationships, can a slow start ever really pick up speed?

To those of you in love: can it ever grow from hesitancy into the real deal? Or does it need to be BAM: we're mad about each other? I have been seeing a fellow for the last 3 and a half months - we met through mutual friends, were instantly attracted to one another, turned out to have a lot of things in common, and have been seeing one another since. But after the initial period of excitement ... . I spend much more time thinking about him than I should. I've been through a very momentous breakup earlier this year and being with him has helped ...
posted to Ask MeFi by oneaday at 12:10 PM on December 5, 2010

How does the dumper feel?

How does the dumper feel? Most of the posts on this forum are about dumpees and how to deal with the pain. How the one that initiated the breakup is an idiot, doesn't know how lucky he is, will come to regret it later...etc. But what about dumpers? How does it go for them? For example, I've experienced horrible guilt and a lack of self-worth for inflicting pain on someone I love. But there's ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 2:31 PM on April 1, 2010

how can get myself to go "all in" in my relationship?

I am living in limbo in my relationship, not fully commiting or making efforts to make it better, but too scared to end it too. If I decide to go "all in" what sort of things should I do to make this relationship work? I am a 39 year old man in my first long-term relationship, which has lasted almost 6 years. We are a good match on many levels and I do feel loved, I have no complaints ... I decide to end it then my actions are fairly straightforward although I imagine dealing with the breakup and the guilt will be anything but. However ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 8:16 AM on July 31, 2009

Dealing with being friend-dumped?

Over the past year, I have slowly been dumped by a friend... I think? Should I just let her go? How to deal with the hurt feelings? What questions should I be asking about my own role in the breakup? Not long ago, a friend, let's call her Lisa, stopped returning most of my communications and started breaking plans with me. A lot. We are both very, very busy, but it's gotten to the point now where ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 11:39 AM on July 21, 2009

Bombed and Stretched, like Bubblegum

Amidst The Ghosts Of Its Fallen Figures: With the 20th anniversary of the Seattle scene's insurgence fast approaching, Exclaim! follows the timeline of Mark Lanegan, the scene's poetic misfit. During the grunge era, Lanegan fronted Screaming Trees - lost somewhere in the middle of the Seattle pack and mostly known for their contribution to the Singles soundtrack. In the wake of their breakup he ...
posted to MeFi by mannequito at 7:37 AM on February 10, 2009

Dumass Think Mix Tape Will Re-spark Relationship

I had a very deep relationship with a woman a couple of years ago. She ended it and my reaction, to say the least. was not the best (no violence or threats). I've had a number of short lived overtures from this lady over the last year (yesterday was the latest - call in to rescue her at 2:30 this morning.) and have apologized for my past behavior. For whatever insane reason I now think the ... mix? Thanks folks. I really think we're close but she can't quite get past the way the initial breakup went. I expect comments along the lines of ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Carbolic at 9:26 PM on January 1, 2009

Is this friendship over?

Is my best friend growing apart from me, or is she throwing herself headlong into a seriously unhealthy relationship? Here's the background: I've been friends with this girl - lets call her Betty - for a little over five years now. We've been calling each other best friends for three. The transition from college to the real world (a year and a half ago) was surprisingly easy on our friendship. ... or not the girlfriend is good people, it's entirely possible that the two of them will have a bad breakup and she won't want to see Betty anymore. If ...
posted to Ask MeFi by Anonymous at 7:52 PM on November 23, 2008

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