The '70s are over; men now cook and clean. If there are men in your house who don't, reevaluate.Study after study has shown that women do much more housework than men, so the fact of the matter is that the free labor you're demanding be expended here is overwhelmingly women's labor. And it occurs to me that one of the really vicious things about the food movement is that when you point it out, they put the blame and responsibility on women. If you're doing all the cooking, it's your fault for not making the men in your household cook more. One way or another, the movement is always going to find a way to blame and shame and punish women.
I have no doubt that women do more housework than men, on average, but that study is just terrible. They've arbitrarily excluded stereotypically male activities like mowing the lawn and shoveling snow, which just makes the study seem rigged.But you know what's funny? There's no movement devoted to convincing people that all of society's problems are due to people hiring gardeners rather than mowing the lawn themselves. Mark Bittmann 100% does not give a flying fuck whether you mow your own lawn. Nobody ever cites lawn care companies as an important factor in the growing obesity epidemic. There is very little moralizing around whether or not folks hire out traditionally male household tasks, and there is endless moralizing over whether folks hire other people to do traditionally female ones. And that's because the things men do are considered real work, while the things women do are considered duties, which aren't work and aren't worth anything and shouldn't be recognized or compensated.
60 Minutes: How Alice Waters cooks breakfastWell, that clip certainly had the desired effect, which was to fill me with rage and make me want to vote for Sarah Palin. I think that Alice Waters is a bit of an easy target, though, and she's not really mainstream-media-savvy enough to figure out how to present her message in a way that isn't going to be easily ridiculed. She's used to talking to her people, and I don't think she realizes how she comes across to everyone else. I think it's a little unfair to use her to tar the entire food movement.
Cooking isn't a chore. It is an act of love and creation.That's such bullshit. I cook a lot and like to cook, and sometimes it's still a chore. Sometimes I'm tired, uninspired, or not feeling well, and then cooking is a chore. Grocery shopping is always a chore. Cleaning up the kitchen after cooking is always a chore.
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